Ok ladies! It's time for a list cleaning! I'm going to post all the names here and in a separate thread of those who are in danger of being removed. These are the ladies in danger and the last time they posted. If you see your name here check in with us and you won't be removed. I hate to remove people, especially those high on the list, but I also like people on the list to be active in our community. I will give you a week to check in, say hi, post an update, etc. before I remove you at the next list update.
Well while I was checking everyone's posts and when they visited last, I discovered that littlemissmango got engaged a while ago! She posted a picture of her ring and announcement in the Show me your Rose Gold thread in SMTB. So, a late congrats to her!
Please remove from the list FH and I have been engaged just didn't have an official proposal. I proposed to him V-day with his wedding band and I will purchasing my ring this weekend. Dust to all you ladies!
No new ladies to add this week! And I'm glad we finally had some engagements to get this list moving!!
Congrats to paris29 and attached on their engagements! We hope you both have plenty of fun planning your weddings!
Thank you smithsmith and SomethingSinful for checking in. I won't remove you from the list! We hope to hear more from both of you soon! As I said in my other thread, DreamGirl will be given until the end of March to check in since she was such an active poster and is so high on the list.
...still waiting .... will be a few months... sometime during his artlicling after we get back from our European trip.... still a waste of a great proposal opportunity in my eyes *sigh* too bad because the wedding dresses here in Istanbul are stunning.. I would LOVE to bring one home from here. It's a fabric fairyland! And many custom made stores too. In a month we are headed for a two week vacation within our vacation to Morocco, Spain and Amsterdam.
Been waiting since we graduated from our undergrad degrees (I'm now working on my PhD) and been dating since we were in high school-- 7 years in April. Looking forward to getting to know you all-- I can use the moral support!
Sorry ladies but I won't be able to update like I usually do today. I am confined to my iPhone for now. But I promise I will update the list tomorrow! Hope everyone is having a good weekend!
Never thought this would be the way I'd be getting off the list. I joined last August at 118. I'm in no rush, but I wanted to find out to what degree my rush-less-ness would be. Anyone who knows my story knows that he "proposed" October 2009, but it was a "secret" so I asked him to take it back. Since then I've researching all things ring and wedding-- as per the notion that he had proposed once already.
But not just my own insane notion, but of the fact that he fed me fantasies (getting married before 2012, 2013, 2014). I know he didn't intentional try to hurt me with that; he's apologized 100000x since I've told him how I felt about these empty promises (he stopped also).
Well today I just had to find out. Really, I was dreaming of some sort of timeline-- even if he'd say 3 years, I'd be content with knowing that theres some sort of plan. I explained how I was feeling that without any responses from him, it seems like I'm trying to secretly be engaged to myself. He responded with apologies and explaining that because he's not in a position to live with me yet, he doesn't feel obliged to buy a ring. Hey, that's fair-- I didn't expect much else. I explained that although I agree, it would save me a lot of energy (and nerves) if we had a timeline. His response: "If I knew It wouldn't make sense to wait. If I knew I could marry you in 3 years I'd just marry you or at least put a ring on your finger." I dejectedly complied and then he said "Please stop being a lady in waiting and just be *my name* and my baby too if you still can."
I didn't expect him to call me out as a LIW.. AT ALL. My heart basically stopped beating at that point (as I'm sure others here would too). So ultimately, I'm heeding that advice and removing myself as a LIW at #37. Shame, I'd gotten so far, lol.
I know there are people on this forum who think I'm fake, that my story is just that-- a story, that my writing is too flowery to be true. If I'm already posting my life on the internet, I really don't care of what they accuse me or my life.
Dust to all of the lucky ladies on the list!! I hope to return sooner rather than later, perhaps there'll be some familiar usernames still hanging around PS at that point.
Congrats to kagordo4 and SweetPea-<3! We hope you enjoy planning your weddings and that we join you over in BWW soon!
As much as I hate to do this, DreamGirl has still not checked in She hasn't posted anywhere on PS for the past 11 months. So, I am going to have to remove her from the list. I hope we hear from her soon and that she announces she has been busy planning her wedding.
32!!!!!? Wow I can remember starting at over 100!
Who knows, maybe I will come back from our vacation with news to share!!
************DUST TO ALL************
32!!!!!? Wow I can remember starting at over 100!
Who knows, maybe I will come back from our vacation with news to share!!
************DUST TO ALL************