The LIW Small Talk Thread

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:45 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 11/20/2009 2:08:42 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:05:41 PM
Author: elledizzy5

That''s awesome B! Keep us updated!!

yea, not bad, or an internship (which is where Im going to have to go because no one is hiring me!). The pay is also much more than the average internship but the only problem is school. I still have one semester left and I get my school paid for by the university. I''ll have to figure out what''s what. If it''s more of a intership-to-perm-hire position then it might be worth it.

how long is the internship?

didn''t say. I have a feeling it might be like a HR analyst training job - which is essentially a paid position but you''re considered an intern because you don''t know anything yet. You know, like rookie status. If that''s the case, I am down. If it''s just a "come and work here for a while but not making any promises" type of thing, I can''t leave my current position for that.

 

[hisdiamondgirl]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:19 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:09:09 PM
Author: elledizzy5
Personally... I like it when he does the dishes!

I forgot to tell you all...FI and I are at it like rabbits lately. It''s so weird

but great!

We put a stop to the him playing online chess, and me watching tv all night and started just hanging out again during the week. It does wonders for the libido! Esp when you don''t wear pants!

So, my CONTRIBUTION FOR THE DAY: If you''ve got a little cloud looming, just have sex!

Woot woot!

I might need to take a couple pages from your book since things have been a little slow lately chez HDG!
He''s stressed with work and just wants to come home and play PS3 and watch sports till the wee hours but then I get tired and fall asleep hours before him so...yeah...nothing

 

[sunnyd]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:19 PM
Author: Bia

We put a stop to the him playing online chess, and me watching tv all night and started just hanging out again during the week. It does wonders for the libido! Esp when you don''t wear pants!

Hay-ooooo!!!

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:17:20 PM
Author: elledizzy5

LOL. Good for you, B!

I hope he''s cleaning your dishes!

Plus the more you do it, the more you want to do it, and the more chemicals you release that make you feel closer.

Its Win-Win-Win!

exactly mama

 

[Lauren8211]

Well B, I know stuff may not be perfect yet, but if you''re still in love, and still being "rabbits" ... thats a really good sign.

 

[hisdiamondgirl]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:18:17 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:45 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 11/20/2009 2:08:42 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:05:41 PM
Author: elledizzy5

That''s awesome B! Keep us updated!!

yea, not bad, or an internship (which is where Im going to have to go because no one is hiring me!). The pay is also much more than the average internship but the only problem is school. I still have one semester left and I get my school paid for by the university. I''ll have to figure out what''s what. If it''s more of a intership-to-perm-hire position then it might be worth it.

how long is the internship?

didn''t say. I have a feeling it might be like a HR analyst training job - which is essentially a paid position but you''re considered an intern because you don''t know anything yet. You know, like rookie status. If that''s the case, I am down. If it''s just a ''come and work here for a while but not making any promises'' type of thing, I can''t leave my current position for that.

Well I hope it works out for you and that it is all that you want it to be

 

[Jessie702]

Morning Ladies

(Singing) The morning i wake up....before i put on my makeup....i say a little prayer for you....

 

[Lauren8211]

...While brushing my hair now
And wondering which dress to wear now
I''ll say a little prayer for you...

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:18:41 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:19 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:09:09 PM
Author: elledizzy5
Personally... I like it when he does the dishes!

I forgot to tell you all...FI and I are at it like rabbits lately. It''s so weird

but great!

We put a stop to the him playing online chess, and me watching tv all night and started just hanging out again during the week. It does wonders for the libido! Esp when you don''t wear pants!

So, my CONTRIBUTION FOR THE DAY: If you''ve got a little cloud looming, just have sex!

Woot woot!

I might need to take a couple pages from your book since things have been a little slow lately chez HDG!
He''s stressed with work and just wants to come home and play PS3 and watch sports till the wee hours but then I get tired and fall asleep hours before him so...yeah...nothing

Do it like Nike girlfriend. Just drop it like its hot for a sec (meaning, no pants), while you''ve got his attention of course (not while he''s playing PS3 - boys!

), and that might just do the trick. It''s amazing how long a couple can go when no one is trying to keep it sizzling.

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:22:51 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:18:41 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:19 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:09:09 PM
Author: elledizzy5
Personally... I like it when he does the dishes!

I forgot to tell you all...FI and I are at it like rabbits lately. It''s so weird

but great!

We put a stop to the him playing online chess, and me watching tv all night and started just hanging out again during the week. It does wonders for the libido! Esp when you don''t wear pants!

So, my CONTRIBUTION FOR THE DAY: If you''ve got a little cloud looming, just have sex!

Woot woot!

I might need to take a couple pages from your book since things have been a little slow lately chez HDG!
He''s stressed with work and just wants to come home and play PS3 and watch sports till the wee hours but then I get tired and fall asleep hours before him so...yeah...nothing

Do it like Nike girlfriend. Just drop it like its hot for a sec (meaning, no pants), while you''ve got his attention of course (not while he''s playing PS3 - boys!

), and that might just do the trick. It''s amazing how long a couple can go when no one is trying to keep it sizzling.

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

 

[Bia]

Thanks ladies, I will definitely let you know. I''m not getting my hopes up because last time it hurt! I so wanted that job.

 

[hisdiamondgirl]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:22:51 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:18:41 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:15:19 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:09:09 PM
Author: elledizzy5
Personally... I like it when he does the dishes!

I forgot to tell you all...FI and I are at it like rabbits lately. It''s so weird

but great!

We put a stop to the him playing online chess, and me watching tv all night and started just hanging out again during the week. It does wonders for the libido! Esp when you don''t wear pants!

So, my CONTRIBUTION FOR THE DAY: If you''ve got a little cloud looming, just have sex!

Woot woot!

I might need to take a couple pages from your book since things have been a little slow lately chez HDG!
He''s stressed with work and just wants to come home and play PS3 and watch sports till the wee hours but then I get tired and fall asleep hours before him so...yeah...nothing

Do it like Nike girlfriend. Just drop it like its hot for a sec (meaning, no pants), while you''ve got his attention of course (not while he''s playing PS3 - boys!

), and that might just do the trick. It''s amazing how long a couple can go when no one is trying to keep it sizzling.

Hehehe

...I will have to try this and report back

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:24:25 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

hehehe so true.

If I'd known all I had to do was lose a few articles of clothing (no more frump!) then I wouldn't have had this problem in the first place!

 

[sunnyd]

DH saw such a display at a concert 2 months ago. Shuddddddder. Drunk girl and stranger in that situation. Bleccccchhhhhh.

But otherwise, I agree!

 

[hisdiamondgirl]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:32 PM
Author: sunnyd
DH saw such a display at a concert 2 months ago. Shuddddddder. Drunk girl and stranger in that situation. Bleccccchhhhhh.

But otherwise, I agree!

Ewwwwwww.....

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:15 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:24:25 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

hehehe so true.

If I''d know all I had to do was lose a few articles of clothing (no more frump!) then I wouldn''t have had this problem in the first place!

I''m so guilty of that. I have on sweats, makeup washed off, and hair pulled back before DH even leaves work for the day!

I''m a BAD wife!

 

[sunnyd]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:15 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:24:25 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

hehehe so true.

If I''d known all I had to do was lose a few articles of clothing (no more frump!) then I wouldn''t have had this problem in the first place!

Dump the Frump needs to be my new motto. LOL! Maybe that will keep my engines going.

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:27:17 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:32 PM
Author: sunnyd
DH saw such a display at a concert 2 months ago. Shuddddddder. Drunk girl and stranger in that situation. Bleccccchhhhhh.

But otherwise, I agree!

Ewwwwwww.....

well that''s just gross!

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:27:18 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:15 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:24:25 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

hehehe so true.

If I'd know all I had to do was lose a few articles of clothing (no more frump!) then I wouldn't have had this problem in the first place!

I'm so guilty of that. I have on sweats, makeup washed off, and hair pulled back before DH even leaves work for the day!

I'm a BAD wife!

In all seriousness Elle, this was me too. I talked to him about it, very seriously. He said that he loves me and thinks Im beautiful no matter what I look like, but it is nice when I change it up. He said something I already knew but needed to be reminded of: Men are visual. They don't need trampy, or vixen, but just sexy.
My man's a genius people. GenIUS!

 

[sunnyd]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:27:34 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:27:17 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:32 PM
Author: sunnyd
DH saw such a display at a concert 2 months ago. Shuddddddder. Drunk girl and stranger in that situation. Bleccccchhhhhh.

But otherwise, I agree!

Ewwwwwww.....

well that''s just gross!

I know. I wanted to go slap her and ask what her momma would think of her!

Who wears a short skirt to an outdoor concert when it''s 40 outside?!?!

 

[hisdiamondgirl]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:15 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:24:25 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

hehehe so true.

If I''d known all I had to do was lose a few articles of clothing (no more frump!) then I wouldn''t have had this problem in the first place!

Hehe, well I have been trying to change my at home attire lately...yoga pants that showcase my...eh...*a$$ets* with little tank tops, etc, and by the lingering looks, I think he''s noticed but he still seems to be too exhausted/stressed to do anything about it!

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:29:48 PM
Author: sunnyd

Date: 11/20/2009 2:27:34 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:27:17 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:32 PM
Author: sunnyd
DH saw such a display at a concert 2 months ago. Shuddddddder. Drunk girl and stranger in that situation. Bleccccchhhhhh.

But otherwise, I agree!

Ewwwwwww.....

well that''s just gross!

I know. I wanted to go slap her and ask what her momma would think of her!

Who wears a short skirt to an outdoor concert when it''s 40 outside?!?!

I know *exactly* what kind of girl! And they say hello the naughty way!

 

[Lauren8211]

Thats the beauty of being in a monogamous relationship! You can dress like a hussy for your SO, and no one can judge you.

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:30:04 PM
Author: hisdiamondgirl

Date: 11/20/2009 2:26:15 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:24:25 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Its also amazing how fast men go 0-60 when you wear something short with nothing underneath it.

hehehe so true.

If I'd known all I had to do was lose a few articles of clothing (no more frump!) then I wouldn't have had this problem in the first place!

Hehe, well I have been trying to change my at home attire lately...yoga pants that showcase my...eh...*a$$ets* with little tank tops, etc, and by the lingering looks, I think he's noticed but he still seems to be too exhausted/stressed to do anything about it!

It might just be a little bump his (I'm calling you 'his'). I've been supremely stressed too - between Saturday school and presentations, papers, work, no job prospects - so I haven't been in the greatest mood to begin with. That certainly doesnt make you want sexy -time. But then it goes so long that you forget how important it is. Then you start resenting one another because its been so long you're worried you don't have it anymore.

My advice is to keep trying to make little changes together. Do dinners outside, or special walks, or little note. Massage? Movies, whatever. Try and be there for him as much as you can without getting resentful. FI was getting resentful towards me and I towards him and that caused a major rift. We're getting out of it but it wasn't easy. Really, we needed to just have sex more. Isn't that crazy?

 

[Lauren8211]

I haven''t done a thing at work today.

 

[Bia]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:37:07 PM
Author: elledizzy5
I haven''t done a thing at work today.

You said spice it up!

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:37:38 PM
Author: Bia

Date: 11/20/2009 2:37:07 PM
Author: elledizzy5
I haven''t done a thing at work today.

You said spice it up!

You succeeded, as usual!

 

[hisdiamondgirl]

Thanks B! I think you''re right. Life takes over with its stressors, etc, and you forget the important things!
I do think that the hardest part about it is being scared that it just isn''t there anymore. For me, anyway. Everything else seems fine, there''s just not much cleaning going on! LOL! We''ve gone through some other things in the past year (that I won''t get into here) that were very stressful and I could definitely see how those things could have caused him to pull back a little in that department (Cryptic, I know, sorry!).

Anyway, I''ll stop rambling! Thanks!

 

[Lauren8211]

YES! Textsfromlastnight is not blocked at work!!! ENTERTAINMENT!!!

 

[sunnyd]

Date: 11/20/2009 2:49:56 PM
Author: elledizzy5
YES! Textsfromlastnight is not blocked at work!!! ENTERTAINMENT!!!

Say what now?