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daintyG|1466024435|4044459 said:HI everyone!
My DH and I are gearing up to begin TTC in August. By then we will have been married 6 years. We are 28. I was really hoping to time things so that I have our first baby on summer break (I'm a teacher). The more I read and learn online, the more I realize it's naive to think I could get pregnant that fast (and stay pregnant). I can't help hoping though.
I really want to cover all my bases by the time we start. I've been charting BBT a year and charting CM and CP infrequently. I'm about to go look for OPKs, preseed, and pregnancy tests online. I'm considering starting vitex now for good measure, and thinking about evening primrose oil or other herbal supplements. Am I overdoing it? Help me with your TTC wisdom, please! I don't plan on talking to anyone offline about this.
amc80|1466027762|4044501 said:daintyG|1466024435|4044459 said:HI everyone!
My DH and I are gearing up to begin TTC in August. By then we will have been married 6 years. We are 28. I was really hoping to time things so that I have our first baby on summer break (I'm a teacher). The more I read and learn online, the more I realize it's naive to think I could get pregnant that fast (and stay pregnant). I can't help hoping though.
I really want to cover all my bases by the time we start. I've been charting BBT a year and charting CM and CP infrequently. I'm about to go look for OPKs, preseed, and pregnancy tests online. I'm considering starting vitex now for good measure, and thinking about evening primrose oil or other herbal supplements. Am I overdoing it? Help me with your TTC wisdom, please! I don't plan on talking to anyone offline about this.
Welcome!
If your cycles are fairly regular and you are ovulating at an appropriate time (say, CD11-35), I don't think you need vitex or any other supplements (other than your prenatal!). Same with preseed- unless you really aren't making much EWCM, no need. I think the best (and easiest) approach is to BD every other day during your fertile time. We had more success EOD than when we did it every day.
You might want to check with your doctor and get some blood work done. For example, you will want to find out if you're still immune to rubella, and get a booster before getting pregnant, if needed.
You're right in that you never know how long it will take to get pregnant. With my first, I got pregnant the first month we tried, had an early miscarriage, and then got pregnant with him the following month. With my second, we tried for several months (I think 6 all together) and had two losses in that time. With this baby, we were actively preventing and I still managed to get pregnant..even at the ripe old age of 35. So you really do never know.
Good luck, and feel free to ask any questions!
April20|1466030175|4044519 said:I don't think you're going OOT at all, but hey, I'm an enabler on this stuff. .
I took Vitex when I was TTc my DD. It seemed to level out my pre-o temps. I don't know if I O'd sooner (I O'd on CD20 that cycle) or not. I stopped taking it after O because I forgot it on a trip. I toyed with taking it again, but I'm still nursing.
I'd say get the Wondfos for OPK and HPT. Just make sure they're not the "fake" ones. I can find a link to the ones I've purchased if you like.
We love to look at faint + HPTs around here, just don't be surprised when we want to see a faint + followed up with a FRER or digi.
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April20|1466039455|4044589 said:Here's the chart.
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April20 said:Here's the chart. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
amc80|1466048034|4044653 said:April20 said:Here's the chart. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
I think you might have O'd on cd31. You have too many pre-o temps above your cover line with the earlier o date. Just a thought.
amc80|1466048034|4044653 said:April20 said:Here's the chart. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
I think you might have O'd on cd31. You have too many pre-o temps above your cover line with the earlier o date. Just a thought.
April20|1466114431|4044918 said:That is a nice looking line!!! Congrats again!
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April20|1466337721|4045626 said:Well, it's super faint but it's there. You may or may not be able to see it. 9DPO if we believe I O'd on CD29 (last Friday). We'll see if it sticks.
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daintyG|1466383045|4045808 said:Fingers crossed for both of you!!!