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Today I became a mother <3

Thank you so much, @Bishbunch - we really did hit the jackpot. :))

Thanks for getting it, @MamaBee. It's like it was meant to be from day 1. We're both extremely happy. ox

Thank you for your kind words, @DorotheaBrooke.
 
@Lookinagain - thank you so much for your help! Eleanor's response was everything I hoped it would be and she absolutely loves it! We had a fabulous day and were both very happy with how it all turned out.

@lucida818 - Thank you so much! We will do our very best. :))

@Barkingatstrangers - thank you for your kind words and warm thoughts, The day was even more significant than we thought it would be. We're truly, truly happy..
 
Eleanor is a very lucky lady to have such a wonderful mother! What a beautiful story!
 
Thank you, @Bron357 :)) You are dead right in the way you worded your comment. It's a beautiful story of a little girl who needed a mother, and a woman who definitely needed a daughter. Finding each other completed two hearts.

Thank you, @lovedogs! For 17 years now, Eleanor has accidentally been calling me
'Mum'. Today she gave up the accidental part and went 'all in'. The truth is - I've always been her mother. But today's legalization sort of gave us both permission to love each other as much as we do. I can't explain it - it's like we just needed that last piece of the puzzle to validate us in the eyes of the world. For years we've tried to explain it to people - but god mother, step mother, fairy-step-god-mother (her term for me up till now) never *quite* cut it for both of us. We wanted the real deal - in the eyes of *everybody*. We have that now. It's like a sigh of relief.

@Muluver - I'm so glad you like the locket! It's a substantial, beautifully made, lush piece FILLED with meaning. Next year we'll begin the process of getting Eleanor Australian citizenship. At which point I'll get her a Southern Cross locket also. :))

Mrs-B, thanks for sharing. You made me cry happy tears. Both you and Eleanor have the same beautiful smile!
 
@LightBright - Thank you for your kind words. The whole family is happy for us, which makes things all the sweeter.

@88_star - we are *so* proud of our newly official status. We really do think we're the bees knees. :))

@HS4S_2 - Thank you so much! We put extra effort into commemorating this properly. Those 'life event markers' are important and help one realize the major steps taken. We value this change in status and we feel it in our hearts. <3
 
Hey there, @Bonfire! I'm so glad our joy is obvious to others - this was such a big and special moment for us.

Thank you, @RunningwithScissors :)) You're quite right - the adoption is the *last* step in the process. It formalizes what already is. But it's the exhale at the end of a very long holding of breath. <3

@ringo865 - no - it really *was* me crying. But they were very, very happy tears. :))
 
Thank you, @Kim N, Eleanor and I are very close and I think those photos capture that. So it's all pretty awesome. :))

@carbonfan - what a sweetheart you are! Thank you for celebrating with us - your joy amplifies our own. ox

@canuk-gal - thank you so much! These days are the very best days of life. :))
 
Thank you, @SandyK. I think the ability to share in the joy of others says a lot about a person. We appreciate your kind good wishes. :))

Thank you, dear @Austina. "Bouncing from the page" just made me smile SO much! That's how we both feel!

@Mcgregor - you, of all people, were always going to understand how special this is! You have an amazing, beautiful, delightful daughter, and the opportunity for me to have that too is just wonderful beyond words. I hope that one day we can get together again - maybe with daughters in tow! oxo
 
Awww - thank you, @rainydaze - our hearts are full too. :))

@Matata - bless you - I hope your dinner with friends was wonderful and that your tummy is as full as our hearts are. As for not aging....I'm doing my best, but it gets exponentially less easy with time!

Thank you so much, @Rubies-R-Me - she's a beautiful girl in all ways, and I am the luckiest woman alive.
 
@DejaWiz - what a gorgeous family you have! Adoption is truly special, isn't it? Most people aren't familiar with adult adoption, but it's a different beast again and definitely has a place in the world of 'how to form a family'. Families aren't static. They move and shift and reform over the years, and mine has done just that. I could not be happier with this final iteration and thank God for this amazing blessing.

@mjea - thanks for sharing my joy. :))

Thank you, @nala!
 
Thank you so much for sharing! Your party story and pictures perfect!



Oh and the ring of course is perfect as well.
 
Oh my! I’m so happy for both of you! Your joy is so clear in the photos! Happy Mother’s Day!
 
Thank you, @stracci2000 - I feel as tho I'm the lucky one, but I hope to be a good and solid and positive presence in her life for many years. :))

@DiaDiva - thank you for those lovely words. All her life, Eleanor has told me that her one regret is that she doesn't look more like me. <polite cough> (yes, I am fully aware of the ridiculousness of that, given the raging beauty that she is!) Particularly that she doesn't have blond hair. I have assured her (and I mean - ASSURED her!) that she is perfect the way she is, and that, while we may not look alike, we have the same heart and the same joie de vivre! I will tell her that you thought our smiles were similar. It will utterly make her day. Bless you. <3

Thank you, @oceanblue - we're both thrilled. :))

Hi @yennyfire! We're filled with joy now and soooo happy that this official recognition we've wanted for so many years has finally happened! Now on to get my girl dual US/Australian citizenship!
 
What a beautifully touching story. Thanks for sharing. ❤
 
This warms my heart so, so much. I am simply thrilled for you and your beautiful daughter Eleanor :kiss2:
 
Congrats to you @mrs-b and Eleanor!
 
Congratulations @mrs-b!!! You both look like the happiest people on the planet! All your jewelry is beautiful but nothing shines or makes your face light up like your lovely daughter. I’m so happy for the both of you!
 
My heart jumped for joy reading this story. Really needed that. Congratulations and blessings!
 
Wow!!! My words are insufficient, but congratulations to you both!!!
 
mrs-b, congratulations on legally becoming Eleanor's Mum. I remember those words so clearly from our adoption day, they ring with such weight and meaning and joy - 'all the rights and responsibilities'

My heart is so full of joy for you both - from a fellow Aussie and adoptive mum.

xxx

edited to add: the jewels aren't half bad :lol-2::kiss2::kiss2::lol-2:
 
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Congrates!!!!!!
 
Congratulations @mrs-b :appl: and to your daughter.. What a lovely story to read, thank you so much for sharing.
 
How wonderful to read. :dance:
 
Congratulations :) lovely story
 
I just saw this thread. Congratulations to you and your daughter @Mrs B !
 
What a beautiful story! The pictures show how happy you both are! Congratulations!
 
Big Congratulations @mrs-b ! Such a lovely sorry with sentimental pieces weaved it. So happy for you and your daughter!
 
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Oh my, I am so thankful I caught this thread! Such a beautiful story filled with love and joy! I know you have been a blessing to her and certainly she has been to you. What a wonderful thing to make your relationship official!!!!

(The jewelry is all fabulous, and I am in love with that locket!!!)
 
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Congratulations to you and Eleanor! Thank you for sharing your story with us! This is honestly the happiest news I've heard in a while. From the photos I can tell that you and Eleanor have been mother and daughter from the day you met!
 
Heartwarming! It is so lovely that you’ve been part of her life forever and this just formalizes what was in your hearts.
 
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