Top 5 reasons why you love your ring....

[04diamond<3]

I was just lookin around and I came across an older version of this topic where people posted reasons why the loved their rings. I really really love diamonds, but with out my FI, I wouldn''''t have a reason to love my ering or my diamond pendant(since he gave them to me)....so I though it would be cool if everybody just gave a few reasons...guys or girls, whoever....so here goes:

5 reasons why I love my ring:

1. My soon to be husband gave it to me

2. It reminds me of everything that we conquered to get here

3. It didn''''t break his wallet

4. It sparkles A LOT!

5. I love the size, not too big, not too small

Oh yeah, POST A PIC WITH YOUR POST!

 

[Haven]

1. The love of my life said "Will you marry me?" as he put it on my finger for the first time.
2. I love what it represents--our commitment to each other.
3. I think of my fiance every time I see it, and I''m reminded of how lucky we are to spend the rest of our lives together.
4. We chose the diamond and designed the setting together, and I always think of his enthusiasm about the whole process when I see my ring.
5. It''s really purty.

 

[bee*]

1) I love that D gave it to me.
2) I love that it''s the only ring that we both fell in love with.
3) I love that it''s so sparkly.
4) I love it''s size and that it just looks at home on my finger.
5) I love that he smiles when he catches me looking at it.

 

[Rhea]

1. It''s simple and classic.
2. It was inexpensive.
3. It''s small enough that it rarely attracts attention, which is good in the job I have and area I work in.
4. It''s sized to wear on either my right or left hand.
5. It sparkles.

 

[motownmama]

1. He chose it 100% himself - I did not have a clue!
2. It''s timeless and classic.
3. I''ve worn it every day for 14 years and think of him every time I look down!
4. I had it on for the birth of all 4 of our children - even in the middle of the night - going in an ambulance for one!
5. It sparkles like CRAZY!

 

[GemALLogist]

what a great thread...and I love that all of the reasons are so sentimental. This thread is SOOO touching... and so much of what I think this place is about.
BEE...I have to tell you, I'm a longtime lurker...both on the SMTR, LIW and BWW...and you are truly one of the happiest, sweetest people....

(who also happens to have killer taste in shoes LOL)

I love reading your posts ....

I HOPE THIS THREAD BECOMES THE LONGEST IN PS HISTORY and it's all about the happiness behind the rings.... then, we can compile a book so we can spread the joy ..ha!

 

[surfgirl]

Why do I love my ring? Because:

1. When I look at my hand I still giggle thinking, "Hey, we got married!" and I realize that I really did find "the one" for me, and that blows me away and makes me remember how lucky I am.

2. It''s the only ering he''s ever looked at and said, "Holy crap, that''s amazing!"

3. Looking at my rings makes me remember our beautiful wedding day.

4. When I talked about getting something less expensive and smaller, he said "No, I made you wait a long time and I want you to have an ''upgrade'' ring that most women might be getting after being married as many years as we''ve been together..."

5. He still gets a dopey grin on his face when we''re out to dinner or something, and I catch him looking at my ring and he''ll say, "Wow. That thing is amazing. Look at it, it''s blinding me..." then he smiles like he''s really really pleased with himself, and he looks adorable when he does that. Like a big dog that just brought his owner his most special toy

 

[GemALLogist]

SURF...you''re SO cute....and you guys sound so adorable... I could envision lots of stories of you and your dh based on this list.....

 

[sweetjettagirl04]

1) It's a sign of our never-ending love and commitment to one another.
2) It's unique and perfectly me.
3) The sparkle and fire from three stones and 60 or so one pointers in the sun (or any light for that matter) really distracts me.

4) It reminds me that it really was worth the wait, and how lucky I am to have my guy. I'll always remember the way I felt when he put it on my hand.
5) And - the snicker I get from him when he catches me gazing at it.

 

[sweetjettagirl04]

Sorry, I forgot the picture!

 

[DiamondGirly]

this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

 

[wen104]

I love my ring because:

1. It is from the love of my life and we picked it out together.
2. It is the only thing that is all mine and my kids cannot wear

3. It sparkles, sparkles and sparkles.
4. Ow did I say it is all mine and my kids cannot wear it

Well as you can see with my kids very few things I have to myself.

 

[rainydaze]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

 

[DiamondGirly]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

 

[sweetjettagirl04]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

It is mushy, but most people on here are sharing their engagement rings, so there is sentimental value that far outweighs the price of the ring. I think it''s nice to hear things like this, because, as you''ll find, this is more of a family or community where you can talk about more than just jewelry - it just so happens this thread combines both. Not everyone feels comfortable doing so, but it''s heartwarming to see the reasons why something material means so much to each individual.

 

[canuk-gal]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

HI:

This is a public forum, therefore participation is voluntary. Feel free not to make a comment if it doesn''t suit you in the spirit that those who wished to participate, did.

cheers--Sharon

 

[rainydaze]

1) my DH picked it out and surprised me with it - above all else i love to be surprised!
2) it always has, and always will, remind me of his proposal, which is a memory near and dear to my heart
3) i''ve got a penchant for angles and squares, no idea why! but it suits me to have a square diamond
4) it gives me a lift many times a day when i look down and enjoy its performance
5) it is the one material object i own that also has sentimental value and i feel naked without it on my finger

 

[canuk-gal]

HI:

Only one comment I guess....my Dh told me that he never wanted me to look down at my finger and be reminded why my ring was a bargain. I think that says a lot about him and why we've been married for over 21 years (thereby taking care of the other 4 top reasons....). He enjoys, that I enjoy it!! Link to ring:

http://com.pricescope.com/photos/stones/category1003/picture1827.aspx

cheers--Sharon

 

[rainydaze]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

DiamondGirly, i think you will find many people here on PS enjoy sharing personal stories as well as discussing the non-personal aspects of diamonds and gems. there are multiple forums here dedicated to the process of weddings and family which has lent itself to creating a more community-based enviroment for those who choose to participate in it as such. you need only participate as you feel comfortable, and leave others to participate as they see fit (preferably without judgement).

 

[Rhea]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM

Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM

Author: DiamondGirly

this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

I suggest you stay away from the threads in the Proposal section about why your proposal was special, and the ones in the wedding section about what made you want to marry your partner, and the ones in the life section about children and why your children are the best thing that happened to you, and...

 

[musey]

What a fun thread idea!!!!

1. I love that we chose it together, and that we BOTH love it
(we were caravaning the other day, and he sent me a text message saying "holy cow, I just got BLINDED by the sparkle off the giant rock that driver in front of me is wearing!"

)
2. I love that it has some personality, I think that comes from the "shoulders," largely
I still remember that when I posted a "help me choose a setting" thread, a bunch of the PSers said "ew I hate those shoulder thingies on that setting, PLEASE don't choose it for an asscher it doesn't suit it at all!" (I'm exaggerating of course

--but that was the general sentiment, and I guess the fact that I went against the grain in choosing it makes me love it all the more!)
3. I love that I've got some bling up top, but the underside is buttery smooth
(I love feeling that with my thumb)
4. Everyone who comments on it has no idea what the stone shape is, and thinks the setting must be an antique
I love that that makes it feel all the more unique, and of course I love me some antique flair!
5. I love the story behind the stone, and how its coming into our possession seemed "fated"
(even though I don't believe in such things

)

 

[wen104]

Awww Shucks that sweet!

 

[musey]

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it's nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I'd really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

I wouldn't talk about this to anyone in "real life" besides FI. However, that's the beauty of a well-moderated forum like this... anonymity gives you the chance to gush without having to feel embarrassed, because presumably the only people who read your gushing are those who won't be bothered by it--all others will glance at the thread and then simply move along because they find it, as you said, 'gagworthy.'

Of course, there are always the special few who like to pass a little judgment, rather than respectfully ignoring that which bugs them.

 

[DiamondGirly]

Date: 5/2/2008 4:24:53 PM
Author: SanDiegoLady

Date: 5/2/2008 3:34:21 PM
Author: sweetjettagirl04

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

It is mushy, but most people on here are sharing their engagement rings, so there is sentimental value that far outweighs the price of the ring. I think it''s nice to hear things like this, because, as you''ll find, this is more of a family or community where you can talk about more than just jewelry - it just so happens this thread combines both. Not everyone feels comfortable doing so, but it''s heartwarming to see the reasons why something material means so much to each individual.

I personally have found this site supportive and caring, giving positive reinforcement and advice, sounding boards when I have vented and went through my wedding plans.. The people I have met in person because I found PS have become special to me. I have shared quite a lot here, and since finding PS found a great well moderated place to ''talk'' and share and... I don''t feel it necessary to be anything but exactly myself here.. online or not..

I met my husband eight years ago thanks to the internet.. we''ve been married almost two.. imagine.

I hope you reconsider this as just faceless people as there are some truly amazing individuals here.

yeah...

Well sorry, I just don''t share your view of things. Congrats on meeting your husband online and having found so much enjoyment here. I would just always rather socialize with my friends than rack up thousands of posts on an online forum.

I am not passing judgment on anyone. I said before, to each their own. I just think its sad that so many people interact on the internet rather than in person. Unless you''re homebound or something I just think it''s somewhat antisocial.

Plus... this is in the "show me the ring forum" -- maybe it should be elsewhere. Most people aren''t even posting photos.

 

[wen104]

Diamondgirly,

Why do you feel the need to post here if you would rather do it with your girlfriends instead of racking up min on the net. This is the 2nd negative post I have seen from you in what 5 posts since you registered. I guess maybe the majority dont'' understand why you would bother with this if you feel so turned off by it. If you are looking for advice or knowledge we are here to help but please, don''t rain on our parade if you aren''t in it to get wet! Ow and I am really sorry if that was not very nice!

 

[DiamondGirly]

Date: 5/2/2008 4:46:55 PM
Author: wen104
Diamondgirly,

Why do you feel the need to post here if you would rather do it with your girlfriends instead of racking up min on the net. This is the 2nd negative post I have seen from you in what 5 posts since you registered. I guess maybe the majority dont'' understand why you would bother with this if you feel so turned off by it. If you are looking for advice or knowledge we are here to help but please, don''t rain on our parade if you aren''t in it to get wet! Ow and I am really sorry if that was not very nice!

I chimed in originally and then people called me judgmental. I was just responding to that.

Have a blast! Seriously.

 

[Miscka]

Thanks to the ladies that have responded with the reasons they love their rings. It makes me look forward to the things I hope I will love about mine.

 

[bee*]

Date: 5/2/2008 11:41:37 AM
Author: GemALLogist
what a great thread...and I love that all of the reasons are so sentimental. This thread is SOOO touching... and so much of what I think this place is about.

BEE...I have to tell you, I''m a longtime lurker...both on the SMTR, LIW and BWW...and you are truly one of the happiest, sweetest people....

(who also happens to have killer taste in shoes LOL)


I love reading your posts ....


I HOPE THIS THREAD BECOMES THE LONGEST IN PS HISTORY and it''s all about the happiness behind the rings.... then, we can compile a book so we can spread the joy ..ha!

Thank you GemALLogist!! You''ve made me blush

SDL-I love it when D stares at our ring also-or when he tries to take fire shots of it

 

[sweetjettagirl04]

Date: 5/2/2008 4:40:23 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 4:24:53 PM
Author: SanDiegoLady

Date: 5/2/2008 3:34:21 PM
Author: sweetjettagirl04

Date: 5/2/2008 2:54:17 PM
Author: DiamondGirly

Date: 5/2/2008 2:52:12 PM
Author: rainydaze

Date: 5/2/2008 2:40:24 PM
Author: DiamondGirly
this is a bit gagworthy. i guess it''s nice but strange to me to talk about this on the web

I just meant it is a bit mushy and I''d really only talk about things like this with my BF or my close close friends. To each their own

It is mushy, but most people on here are sharing their engagement rings, so there is sentimental value that far outweighs the price of the ring. I think it''s nice to hear things like this, because, as you''ll find, this is more of a family or community where you can talk about more than just jewelry - it just so happens this thread combines both. Not everyone feels comfortable doing so, but it''s heartwarming to see the reasons why something material means so much to each individual.

I personally have found this site supportive and caring, giving positive reinforcement and advice, sounding boards when I have vented and went through my wedding plans.. The people I have met in person because I found PS have become special to me. I have shared quite a lot here, and since finding PS found a great well moderated place to ''talk'' and share and... I don''t feel it necessary to be anything but exactly myself here.. online or not..

I met my husband eight years ago thanks to the internet.. we''ve been married almost two.. imagine.

I hope you reconsider this as just faceless people as there are some truly amazing individuals here.

yeah...

Well sorry, I just don''t share your view of things. Congrats on meeting your husband online and having found so much enjoyment here. I would just always rather socialize with my friends than rack up thousands of posts on an online forum.

I am not passing judgment on anyone. I said before, to each their own. I just think its sad that so many people interact on the internet rather than in person. Unless you''re homebound or something I just think it''s somewhat antisocial.

Plus... this is in the ''show me the ring forum'' -- maybe it should be elsewhere. Most people aren''t even posting photos.

I would imagine that most of us on here aren''t homebound. We all found this site for different reasons, and decided to stick around because of the sense of community - because, let''s be honest, if we talked incessantly to our friends and family about diamonds and jewlery all the time, they''d think we were nutty.

And, I''m sure all of us have friends we can and do socialize with. Personally, PS is not my life, but I enjoy it. It''s kind of insulting to be considered "sad" because I share a common interest with other people on this site.

May I ask, why did you join, or how did you come upon PS?

 

[LaurenThePartier]

I love my ring for many reasons, many of which I can see others can identify with.

1. Everytime I look at it, it reminds me of the day my husband proposed. We were on such a tight schedule, I honestly didn't believe the ring would be done before we left for our wedding. The feelings of that day, are completely indescribable, and they all come flooding back when I look at it.

2. It's an asscher. I've been in love with Asschers for a very, very long time.

3. My DH designed it himself. He knew 3 things, that I loved Asschers, that I wanted to wear a 2 mm pipe cut wedding band, and that I'm a clutz. I think he designed it perfectly given the information I had presented to him. My husband admires it often, and I love that he can see his creative work on my hand every day.

4. I love that it's a complete oxymoron. Classic antique styled diamond in a modern, sleek setting. Kind of suits my personality, I suppose.

5. It's unique - very uncommon to see Asschers in the wild, and even more uncommon to see them bezeled.