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Date: 4/16/2009 3:02:14 AM
Author: FrekeChild
I''d probably give them an envelope. With a certificate that reads ''We have made a donation in honor of your wedding at such and such charity.''
Hey, it''s not boxed right?![]()
Date: 4/16/2009 9:47:55 AM
Author: neatfreak
Date: 4/16/2009 3:02:14 AM
Author: FrekeChild
I''d probably give them an envelope. With a certificate that reads ''We have made a donation in honor of your wedding at such and such charity.''
Hey, it''s not boxed right?![]()
Good idea Freke!
Date: 4/15/2009 5:56:20 PM
Author: VRBeauty
From what you''ve written, I assume this is someone you care about. If it were me I''d send them the gift I had ready and call it a day. No need to send a check (you are extraordinarily generous, in my book) no need to hold it against them in any way.
I understand that asking for cash, or referring to a gift in any way is considered ''the height of rudeness,'' but inversely, I think that forgiveness is the height of charity. So... (since you''ve asked) give the gift in the spirit in which it was bought... as a celebration of your friend''s marriage, and as something that you hope will remind them of their special day for many years to come.![]()
Perhaps, but it''s worded MUCH differently. My father made all the invitations (because I live thousands of miles away and I didn''t even have a chance to look over anything since I was busy defending my thesis) and this is what he put on the invitation:Date: 4/16/2009 11:14:41 PM
Author: mamie
I''m surprised this hasn''t been asked, but are either the bride or groom Indian or similar culture? ''No boxed gifts'' is a common thing at Indian weddings.