Weight Gain

[fabcrab]

I''m sorry, I haven''t read the whole post, just the first one but yes you are overeacting a tad. I can completely understand where you''re coming from I''d be super upset too. But you know what? I''d actually rather hear it before it''s too late.

When I was a freshman in college, my freshman 15 turned into freshman 30. Trust me, I would rather hear it from someone that I gained some weight when my clothes are just a little snug so I could have done something about it earlier.

 

[allycat0303]

I think you can be miffed, but 4 days is a little long! I tell my boyfriend when he has gained weight. And he''ll say I have more curves then usual. Honestly, it doesn''t bother me at all. If he said ''''lose weight or I''m leaving you'''' or ''''you are so big I''m not attracted to you anymore'''' then I would feel bad. Not angry, but sad because I''ve let myself go that much.

Honestly, I''m very attracted to my guy when he goes to the gym, works out and looks great. I still love him (and am attracted to him) when he lets himself go, and gets less muscular. However, if I have to choose one or the other, I prefer that he look terrific rather then good. But it''s definitely not something I lose sleep over.

I think he notices how you look, which is a good thing, He pays attention. Once I gained 15 pounds, and my guy was so busy he didn''t even notice for 1 month. That made me a little angry actually!