Mara
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Speaking somewhat on topic, it''s amazing to me the pressure on kids nowadays, per what pebbles was saying.
My sister is 15, a sophomore in high school in a really competitive school district in N. CA, rated very highly and a very desirable area to live in due to schools...she is a sophomore already doing trig and calculus..and they really encourage summer school to ''stay ahead'' or ''get ahead''...they are basically in all the old honor classes but those are their regular classes. The intensity amazes me, she ALWAYS has homework to do even during the weekends and seems to have tons of it....it keeps her from going out with the family sometimes and it seems very stressful. It seems like such a depressing school life!! With these kids it''s all about school and getting ahead and competitiveness. I don''t remember that at all, it was about school but more social stuff of course too. Now she is trying to figure out what extra-curriculars she should do for college....she already is a swimmer. I''m sure she will get into a good school, she doesn''t want to go to a Stanford or anything, but she is eyeing UC Berkeley and UCSF (or maybe its SFSU)...but the pressure is surprising. Even Greg who was an admitted overachiever in his day is shocked at how hard it appears to be and what they are studying (he tutors her sometimes in math) at their ages.
Does anyone else notice this, I don''t know if it''s this school district or what, but the demographics on this school is something like 95% asians (including indians...) with the rest being hodgepodge 5% of other races. This was from a recent article published on the school in the newspaper here how the academics are so competitive. Does anyone else think it''s odd that Indians are placed in the demographic with Asians? I hadn''t seen that one before.
My sister is 15, a sophomore in high school in a really competitive school district in N. CA, rated very highly and a very desirable area to live in due to schools...she is a sophomore already doing trig and calculus..and they really encourage summer school to ''stay ahead'' or ''get ahead''...they are basically in all the old honor classes but those are their regular classes. The intensity amazes me, she ALWAYS has homework to do even during the weekends and seems to have tons of it....it keeps her from going out with the family sometimes and it seems very stressful. It seems like such a depressing school life!! With these kids it''s all about school and getting ahead and competitiveness. I don''t remember that at all, it was about school but more social stuff of course too. Now she is trying to figure out what extra-curriculars she should do for college....she already is a swimmer. I''m sure she will get into a good school, she doesn''t want to go to a Stanford or anything, but she is eyeing UC Berkeley and UCSF (or maybe its SFSU)...but the pressure is surprising. Even Greg who was an admitted overachiever in his day is shocked at how hard it appears to be and what they are studying (he tutors her sometimes in math) at their ages.
Does anyone else notice this, I don''t know if it''s this school district or what, but the demographics on this school is something like 95% asians (including indians...) with the rest being hodgepodge 5% of other races. This was from a recent article published on the school in the newspaper here how the academics are so competitive. Does anyone else think it''s odd that Indians are placed in the demographic with Asians? I hadn''t seen that one before.