What things do you love most about your fiance?

[Laila619]

Lots of us are stressed from the wedding planning, so on a lighter note, what are some things that you adore about your fiance? Why are you marrying him?

My fiance always puts me first. He is so thoughtful and caring. He sends me flowers to work all the time. He is truly my best friend and my biggest fan. I feel like he always has my back. There''s no one else I''d rather go through life with!

 

[Blair138]

Anytime I get upset or angry FI tries to make it better by wrapping me in his arms and giving me a big sloppy kiss-he always succeeds in making me laugh, he''s always there for me, he puts me first and I love him soooo much and can''t imagine my life without him

 

[doodle]

my FI is on call this week, working his butt off, and i just youtubed dan hill''s "sometimes when we touch" and turned it into an interpretive dance while he was trying to work. he didn''t kill me. that''s why i love him.

 

[musey]

Cute thread

This is all fresh in my mind as I just brainstormed for my vows last week.

One of my favorite things about my fiancé is his silly sense of humor. He makes up ridiculous songs and does little dances when he thinks I''m not looking. I love it... he cracks me up!

 

[FoxyBride]

What pops into my head first is that I love that he is a protector and a provider. I know, typical male gender role stuff, but he really takes seriously all aspects of my security and comfort and that''s really important.

And he had a great ass. That too.

 

[SeattleSweetheart]

What I love most about my fiance is that he loves being a team player. I cook dinner and he cleans up.
If there are projects to do around the apartment, we both work on them. He does just as much housework as I do.

I feel very respected and cherished by him.

 

[Laila619]

Date: 9/16/2008 10:32:55 PM
Author: FoxyBride
And he had a great ass. That too.

LOL!

I should add that my fiance has a great booty too. And his eyes are just so kind and lovely.

 

[galvana]

I love that my fiance is truly my best friend. He would honestly do anything for me.
He is proud and honorable and many people look up to him and go to him for help -
He loves me despite my craziness and he cooks and loves me even though i dont cook.........................ever!
LOL poor guy -

 

[SarahLovesJS]

Where do I start..

..haha. He''s my balance, the person I can trust anything with, he''s intelligent, fun, funny, so kind (I wish I could be as nice as he is), and of course handsome. Finally..last, but not least..he''d do anything for me. For example, I''ve been sick this week, so I sent him out to get me some cold medicine and a thermometer. He came back with $100 worth of medicine and cold supplies (tissues, lozenges, etc).

I

him.

 

[misspinky]

My fiance is a professional dancer (as in breakdancer, not ballet dancer) and sometimes randomly starts dancing. In the living room, in the grocery store, once when coming out of church....He ALWAYS makes me join in and refuses to let me feel embarrassed about it. He says if you have a reason to dance then you should. It always makes me laugh and think of how fun he is.

Also, he''s a fabulous dad (we have a 7 month old) and he loves our little girl more than life itself. Every time I see him look at her I am reminded of how truly lucky I am to have him in my life.

 

[PearlDahhhling]

Date: 9/16/2008 10:04:25 PM
Author: musey



One of my favorite things about my fiancé is his silly sense of humor. He makes up ridiculous songs and does little dances when he thinks I''m not looking. I love it... he cracks me up!

Haha! My FI does this too! All the time! Actually I do it too.. We end up making up songs together on the spot about the most random things.

I love his sense of humor. How silly he is and how silly we are together. We''re always laughing.

I also love how hard he works for me. He is working almost full time and going to school two full days a week so that he can graduate and get a good job to support us. He always talks about how he wants to take care of me and our future children and I think it''s awfully romantic.

Aaaaaannd I pretty much adore everything else about him!

 

[museikchik]

I love this thread. What an awesome idea. I adore soo many things about my FI. I love how we are best friends and I don''t even have to say anything and he can tell when I have had a bad day. I love that he understands that I am extremely busy and does small things around the house (cooking, laundry etc...) just to help me out. The other day we were watching "Say Yes to the Dress". He was asking me questions about wedding gowns. We almost died when we saw how much they were on that show. My FI wanted to know if all dresses were that expensive. I was telling him that it depends on the place, some bridal salons will charge more for a dress but I assured him I wasn''t going to spend some crazy amount on a dress. He looked at me and didn''t even hesitate. He said that if I found a dress that I happened to fall in love with and needed some help buying it just to let him know. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever. I could go on and on forever about why I adore my FI, I guess that is why I am marrying him...

 

[marchswallowbird]

I love my FI because he is a man of good character, he''s honest, and he always strives to do the right thing. Because he adores me and is understanding when I get grumpy, and he doesn''t get mad back. He laughs at himself and accepts blame when it is his fault, rather than blaming others. He rarely gets angry, and when he does, tries hard not to show it or take it out on others. He''s adventuresome and loves the outdoors and the same outdoor sports that I do. He is giving and kind but won''t let anyone push him around (including me). He puts me before all others in his life, even his kids. He loves snuggling and physical touch as much as I do. He drives an hour and a half in horrible rush-hour traffic several times a week without ever complaining so he can be with me. AND he tells me I am beautiful even when I have been backpacking for a week with no makeup and have greasy hair and have worn the same clothes for three days and smell like bug spray.

 

[lauralu]

My honey loves me for me. He has never tried to change me. He believes in me.

He really sees who I am in side and out. I truly knew I loved him when he said to me. I don''t know how anyone who loves you can miss the signs of how you are feeling. You carry and show all your emotion in your face, your eyes, your body language.

I really do.... and he sees that.

I love how he can sense, see and know how I am feeling. Or maybe it''s because he just pays attention to me like that. He cares how I am or how my day is. I love that. 8 years and he still pays attention.

Gotta love that!

 

[cbs102]

My fiance is the most genuine honest sincere person that i have ever encountered. he will ALWAYS put others first. he is sensitive and so sweet. he loves hard and deeply... god i could go on for days!

 

[meresal]

I am on a business trip for a week and a half. I left all my shoes and a small travel suitcase at home, with necessities. He is driving 3 hours this morning to bring me my things, AND one of our framed pictures to put on my bedstand at the hotel so I don't forget about him (his idea).

 

[mintve]

My FI is so patient with me and he is so thoughtful with the small things. Its really sweet of him and I love it!

 

[Shoopy]

There are a lot of things and I''ll ditto what a lot of people have said on here already.

One thing I do love about him is that he can see through my BS to get to the real issue. When I get mad, I get mad and he''s the only person that can read through the lines and figure out what''s really bothering me.

 

[iwannaprettyone]

When I ask FI for a favor or a honey''do he does it no questions asked. He makes me laugh and is a fantasitic listener. No matter what is going on in my life he supports me and always makes me feel like I am not alone in the world.

Anytime we are out his eyes are always on me, as though he is my protector...he will always whisper in my ear "you are the most beautiful girl in the room".

His work ethic is amazing and he always finds time to spend with me even when deadlines are tight (he is self employed).

In 11 days he will be my husband, he called last night to make an official appointment to write our ceremony vows together.


Oh, and he is the best snuggler as well as devastatingly handsome.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

Wow, there are so many things to list.

He''s generous and caring

I have major tummy problems, so related issues are always present with me. I knew FI was the one when he didn''t bat an eyelash at me spending the evening in the bathroom throwing up on our first overnight date. He didn''t kiss me right away, but he did hand me his toothbrush and said he''d get me my own the next day. He could care less about farts, burps, and all around acting like a farm animal-which is a pretty good description of me on a bad day. In fact, he thinks it''s funny (but not in a mean I''m going to make fun of you way) kind of like "how can a girl as gorgeous as you expell such stankness?"

He makes me laugh all the time

He voices my inappropriate thoughts. We think alike and have very crass senses of humor. He voices it though, so he takes the heat. But I''m really thinking the same thing as he is.

He''s not afraid to share his emotions good or bad

He knows how to keep me in check

 

[Nocturnius]

EVERYTHING!

I''m kidding.

I love the way my husband makes me laugh. He can ALWAYS make me laugh. He''s such a clown. I love how he acts like a goofball around my friends. Seriously, I hate going out with friends and meeting their boyfriends... and their boyfriends just sit there with their hands folded in their lap the whole night. My husband is just the life of the party (and he doesn''t even drink!), he talks to every single one of my friends and just hams it up. My friends love his silliness as much as I do.

I love how he seeks out new things. He''s always learning something new. He learned a slew of slight-of-hand magic tricks. Learned how to solve the Rubix Cube in thirty seconds (there''s a formula to it, apparently.) Learned how to play piano (he already plays classical guitar professionally.) He just loves learning, and it''s one of those things that makes me happy to be with him.

He thinks I can do just about anything and tells everyone that, too. He ALWAYS talks about how smart I am, how I can do anything I try to do, how I''m good at everything I want to be good at.

He trusts me enough to clean out his dressers, desks and book bags (or he has nothing to hide, either way...) He asks me how my day was, even if it''s all bad. I asked him once why he asks when he can tell I''m steaming angry, and he said, "because I like hearing you talk, and I like knowing how your day was, even if it was bad." He waits for me outside when I''m late coming home, even if it''s pouring down rain. He has kept every single thing I have ever given him since the day we met (he still has the ticket stub from a show he came to see me in before we were dating - he bought the ticket from me) even though it was YEARS ago and mot of it is falling apart. (I painted a small, quick watercolor card for our first Valentine''s day, and it''s all but fallen to pieces... but he keeps it in an album in his bedside dresser.)

Oh gosh, I could ramble forever about all the things I love about him.

 

[elrohwen]

What an awesome and sweet thread. I loved reading what the rest of you had to say because so much of it applies to my wonderful guy and reminded me how much I love him.

I love that he always tries his hardest to make me feel better. I've been having an awful time at work and I was complaining and miserable yesterday when we were talking on gchat (while at work). All of a sudden he makes an emoticon monkey face : (|) and says "There's an escaped monkey in the room! Look out!" Ridiculous-ness like that makes me laugh in spite of my bad mood or crappy day. Haha.

He does silly crazy dances while we're making dinner or watching tv and then says "Aren't I the best dancer in the world?" Lol I'm laughing just thinking of his dancing.

And probably most important of all, he's the most caring and loving person I've ever met. Just seeing how much he cares for his mom and sister warms my heart. I think seeing him with them a few months into our relationship was one of the reasons I knew I loved him. He's going to be an awesome husband and father

 

[WishfulThinking]

She understands me on a level that no one in my life ever has, and no one else ever will. We relate about everything, and we spend almost all of our time together. We never get sick of hanging out and sharing both mundane and exciting things@ We''re always laughing, or really fired up talking about something we''re passionate about. We''re totally lovey dovey and make everyone else sick, but it amuses us and we enjoy letting each other know how much we care and how excited we are to be together.

Plus, tonight when I freaked out realizing I was going to owe overdue book fees to the library, she walked all the way across campus with me in the dark so I could return them immediately, because she knows I hate to walk alone at night. That''s love!

 

[kittybean]

What a great thread! I love reading all your responses. It makes me feel like "love actually is all around."

I love that my fiance puts up with my cranky moods and doesn''t get cranky back. I love his ridiculous sense of humor and that he loves my equally ridiculous sense of humor. I love that we can entertain ourselves for hours. I love that he goes the extra mile to care for me when I''m sick, which, unfortunately, is quite a bit. I also love that he doesn''t get scared or panic when I''m really sick--he''s just a rock. I love how he works so hard, but still makes time for me every moment he can. I love his cute freckles, smiling eyes, and soft skin. I love how much he values me as a person and us as a couple.

Recently, I was feeling unsure about my career and the three years of school I just went through for it. I confessed to him that maybe I want to do something entirely different, which would require more schooling and time. He said he would cover the cost of the schooling and support me if I decided to do something different with my life because he really just wants me to be happy. Although I don''t know that I would take him up on it, the sentiment was so touching and real. It made me realize how lucky I am to have someone who cares so much about my happiness and well-being, and to care about him equally in return.

Okay, now I''m off to give him a huge hug and tell him how wonderful he is!

 

[Diva0413]

I love that my FI is always calm and happy. I use to be that way but now I find myself getting impatient and frustrated alot, especially with the wedding plan. Even when my b***ch-ometer is high, when I look at him and see how calm and happy he is, (he even starts humming sometimes

), it makes me smile. I check myself and my attitude at the door. So that''s what I love about him. He brings out the best in me.

 

[UCLABelle]

Kindness and selflessness. He always puts me first

 

[bee*]

I love D because he''s my best friend, he minds me, we have a laugh together, he makes a great cup of tea, he''s got a great bum and also I adore seeing how good he is with Amber and Manolo. Seriously, he took more photos of Amber on our holidays then of anything else and he always hugs and kisses them when he gets in. That''s totally the way to my heart!

 

[marchswallowbird]

Kittybean, I loved that movie!

 

[kittybean]

Date: 9/19/2008 6:54:16 PM
Author: marchswallowbird
Kittybean, I loved that movie!

Glad you recognized the quote! I loved it too. I''m such a hopeless romantic at heart.

 

[FoxyBride]

Date: 9/19/2008 7:47:28 PM
Author: kittybean

Date: 9/19/2008 6:54:16 PM

Author: marchswallowbird

Kittybean, I loved that movie!

Glad you recognized the quote! I loved it too. I''m such a hopeless romantic at heart.

That''s one of my fav movies too! My FI thinks I''m a complete sap for liking it.