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All of these things! Riding my bike with friends all day and stopping at someone’s house to grab a popsicle or Hi-C. Catching fireflies at night and then releasing them. Making up elaborate make believe adventures with all the neighborhood kids….lazy days on our boat at the lake that didn’t have to be planned because we weren’t “scheduled with activities” all the time. The ability to do stupid things as a teenager and not have it posted online to follow you forever. Loyalty between employers/employees. So many things that I miss…..
This is area specific but I miss the oldies station on the radio, Big D103 (102.9FM). I grew up listening to it and then a few years ago they were bought out by another station.
So now there is no oldies station on FM radio here.
More things come to mind.
I miss the NYC of my childhood and teen years--the freedom of cutting class to roam around Manhattan without a cell phone. I miss the store Love Saves the Day on Second Ave, as I would inevitably end up in the East Village.
There was more grit. Street fairs didn't have the same five stands repeating over and over for blocks. There was more uniqueness in the vendors. I also miss the absence of bots purchasing every single item/ticket for resale.
And people being present in the moment, not watching their lives through a screen. You don't need to record everything to prove your existence.
I feel this completely. I grew up on Long Island but used to "cut" school and take the bus/subway into the city for so much fun. No phones, nothing. We would buy a $4 "fun pass" and fun we would have! I learned how to handle myself and NY at large that way. FWIW I do take my own kids into the city on public transit from a young age. I also still have all of my piercings I got in "the village"! Minus the tongue ring, I did give that up when I was student teaching, although working for the DOE now for the last 14+ years I didn't have to!
Hours and hours at the shooting range with my Dad and brother.
Hours shooting pellet guns in the back yard.
Hours and hours fishing with my childhood best friend.
Weeks camping out in the woods.
Hours swimming in rivers and lakes and ponds.
Snow forts and snowball wars.
Cooking with my mom.
duck itch ?