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Thank you sooooo much everyone for your kind words! I LOVE the ring! I am so proud of it! And I really would have just settled with a $200 ring from Macys had I not been continually educated by this forum and your insights... I am soooo happy and grateful for all of you who participated in my project!
The final gemstone and ring is as shown above and is very lovely indeed. All credit to Dana''s superior cutting - it looks a totally different gemstone and has just come alive.Date: 12/27/2009 1:59:00 PM
Author: tapio
What a great question. I think researching and honesty is the best policy.
Now some of the women out there won''t think highly of me when I say this, but I dated on and off my high-school sweet-heart for 13 years. When we got married I could not afford an engagement ring. It was a triple gold banded cartier. It was all I could afford. Fast forward to another 13 years. I finally had enough money to afford the ring my wife wanted. She wanted a real, medium light blue sapphire with a diamond on either side.
I did not rush it, but researched for two year possibilities and prices. I finally came across a beautiful combination and really... at this point price was no object. I wanted quality versus quantity. I''ve never regretted it since. Something simple three stones - centre sapphire between 1 -2 carats. Diamonds .5 either side. I gave it to her in Central Park.
I''m not going to tell you where to buy. You must research and come to your own conclusions. There have been many good suggestions thus far. There is nothing wrong with buying a heated or synthetic stone as long as you know that''s what you are doing and I would say please tell your fiance as well.
My wife understood the money problem when we first got married; maybe your''s will too. And, then all in good time. After all when my wife and I got married it was for respect and love of one and other -- it was not for a stone. The stone happened later.
Women may pipe in... what would you rather have the truth and what was affordable? or, not the truth and then find out by accident?
Sincerely,
tapio