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I’m on the medical freak out anxiety train again

Mreader

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You can read my other thread in hang out if you’re not caught up with the story of my husband and his chest pain and subsequent stent etc.

Out of sheer paranoia, on a follow up visit he was asking the doctor if there is a way to scan the Carotid artery. His dad who died of a stroke. It was evidently through that artery. At first the doctor did not think that this was a necessary test but then he said well let’s go ahead and order it since you’re leaving town soon. We’re supposed to be working abroad starting mid May.

He goes in for the test which is just an ultrasound and the tech makes an observation that his arteries look really unusual, in that they look similar to each other. And apparently they’re supposed to look different. I still don’t quite understand it because he told my husband who told me. The tech said it’s on both sides. He seemed really surprised about it and just acted like it was really weird and unusual, and even indicated that the doctors are going to be flummoxed by it.

He did indicate that he’s not allowed to say anything about the exam unless it’s a medical medical emergency situation. And I’m thinking to myself that he’s just already said things which are getting me and my husband all worked up. So my husband was able to walk out of there. He also said he didn’t see any plaques on the arteries while he was doing the ultrasound, but did say that they could come from elsewhere- whatever that means. Again, something that the tech probably should not have said.

I’m just so stressed out and upset and scared right now and having a lot of trouble concentrating on anything. I was just starting to relax and wrap my mind around the whole stent situation and now I’m so afraid that there’s something whacked out with this type of artery that’s going to require some sort of scary intervention. Maybe I’m overreacting but I’m just having to vent again on PS while I wait on results.

Sorry y’all.
 
Firstly breathe.
As someone, and also my mother, with “weird” things in our bodies, different doesn’t necessarily mean bad, it just means different.
Secondly, speak to the doctor.
As someone who has had a radiologist go “oh, that’s interesting” and then say “the report will go to the doctor” and I wanted to throttle the radiologist for making me freak out.
Thirdly, even results can be misleading.
Pregnant with DD my CVS test at 10 weeks indicated double mosaicism, which is incompatible with life, and the wait until 16 weeks when an amino was able to be done was beyond difficult.
Needless to say DD turned out pretty good and it’s weird and unusual things that seem to happen to and with me.
So unless symptoms present that indicate a problem it’s best, easier said than done, to assume that there isn’t a problem.
 
Bron357 said:
Firstly breathe.
As someone, and also my mother, with “weird” things in our bodies, different doesn’t necessarily mean bad, it just means different.
Secondly, speak to the doctor.
As someone who has had a radiologist go “oh, that’s interesting” and then say “the report will go to the doctor” and I wanted to throttle the radiologist for making me freak out.
Thirdly, even results can be misleading.
Pregnant with DD my CVS test at 10 weeks indicated double mosaicism, which is incompatible with life, and the wait until 16 weeks when an amino was able to be done was beyond difficult.
Needless to say DD turned out pretty good and it’s weird and unusual things that seem to happen to and with me.
So unless symptoms present that indicate a problem it’s best, easier said than done, to assume that there isn’t a problem.
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Thank you, Bron. I’m pretty unhappy with the tech. I wish he had said nothing. The test was already stressful and he made it worse. I cannot imagine the agony you must have gone through waiting six weeks for extra information during pregnancy! I’m really sorry you had to endure that.
 
Mreader said:
He seemed really surprised about it and just acted like it was really weird and unusual
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This reminds me of a story… hope it can soothe your nerves a bit.

So, some 15-ish years ago I decide to donate blood. During the preliminary examination the nurse tells me she cannot allow me to donate because I have arrhythmia and she’s concerned what removing a significant volume of blood from my system could cause. She sends me off to see a cardiologist.

At this point I’m like 20. My mom freaks out. We go to a doctor, I get hooked to a holter (which is basically a way to have a continuous ekg for 24 hours), next day we return to have the results examined and interpreted. The cardiologist starts talking about how I have the most irregular heartbeat he’s ever seen, how no two beats are identical, how this is most unusual. Mom freak out levels hit the roof.

I’ll spare you the details of how two cardiologists speculated about the causes and about some quite invasive treatment options until we sought a third opinion by someone actually competent who did an echo, did an ekg, reviewed past results and said I just have respiratory sinus arrhythmia. Probably born with it, which, yeah, is unusual, but aside from that entirely healthy.

My point is… medical professionals will sometimes be… not entirely professional and freak you out unnecessarily. I don’t know why they do that. In any case, it’s not worth stressing over. If the doctor confirms there’s an actual issue that needs addressing, you’ll take care of it and that’s that.
 
Thank you for your reply @Avondale . I haven’t told any friends or family about this situation so the forum is my spot to unload at the moment. I appreciate the story and your thoughts!
 
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@Mreader The tech should not have said a single thing to you guys about your husband's results. That was terribly unprofessional, and I'd be quite angry, and would probably make a complaint to the facility if it were me.

Just know you and your husband are doing the right thing by not ignoring possibilities. You're making intentional, proactive choices to take care of yourselves, and that's a good thing. Unfortunately, sometimes along the way we make unintentional discoveries, and then have to deal with those surprises. I'll keep my fingers crossed that when you hear from the actual doctor, he has absolutely nothing remarkable to report, and you guys will be able to enjoy your summer abroad with clear minds.
 
Mreader said:
...tech makes an observation that his arteries look really unusual, in that they look similar to each other. And apparently they’re supposed to look different. I still don’t quite understand it because he told my husband who told me. The tech said it’s on both sides. He seemed really surprised about it and just acted like it was really weird and unusual, and even indicated that the doctors are going to be flummoxed by it.

He did indicate that he’s not allowed to say anything about the exam unless it’s a medical medical emergency situation. And I’m thinking to myself that he’s just already said things which are getting me and my husband all worked up. So my husband was able to walk out of there. He also said he didn’t see any plaques on the arteries while he was doing the ultrasound, but did say that they could come from elsewhere- whatever that means. Again, something that the tech probably should not have said.
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I would not get too excited about this. There are all sorts of anatomic variants in the vasculature. Surgeons deal with this all the time when they are looking for -- or looking to avoid -- the blood supply to an organ. Sounds good that there was no plaque. I would wait for the official "read" filtered through his PCP.
 
LilAlex said:
I would not get too excited about this. There are all sorts of anatomic variants in the vasculature. Surgeons deal with this all the time when they are looking for -- or looking to avoid -- the blood supply to an organ. Sounds good that there was no plaque. I would wait for the official "read" filtered through his PCP.
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Thank you @LilAlex - that’s comforting.
 
@Mreader that tech was out of line. Physiological differences in anatomy are not uncommon and often mean nothing.

If it makes you feel any better I was at NYU about a decade ago and having an abdominal ultrasound and the tech freaked out (truly) and called all these other people in and I was getting very worried and also annoyed because they weren't saying anything to me. Long story short my kidney is malrotated and I have an extra ureter. And the techs were clueless. And had me worried sick about nothing.
My internist called me that day (after my frantic message to him) and he reassured me and calmed my concerns.

So all this to say is that it probably means absolutely nothing and do not get yourself sick with worry til you speak with someone who is knowledgeable about this. OK? I'm sorry you have to deal with another stressful situation and I am hoping it turns out to be nothing at all!

And yay on zero plaque!

Sending you and your dh well wishes and gentle hugs.
 
Thank you so much @missy. It’s helpful to hear these stories.
 
Anatomical anomalies are common.

• I lack a Palmaris longus muscle in my left forearm; my late brother lacked it in his right forearm. This is a small wrist flexor muscle and it's not unusual for some people not to have one. (If you're curious, It's easy to test for it. Turn your palm up and try to bend your hand upward while holding it down with the other hand. If you have this muscle, its tendon will become prominent just above your wrist. Another test is to pinch your thumb and little finger together. The tendon will pop up. Now test your other arm!
Wikipedia article with photo: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palmaris_longus_muscle

• Normally a vein would lie under the Achilles tendon and not be visible; on my right ankle the vein lies over the tendon and is very visible.
 
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That's great news!
 
Great News, I’m so happy to hear that your husband’s scans are normal.
 
Great news! So happy for you both!
 
I agree with @LilAlex... just because his vasculature looks unique does not mean there is something inherently wrong with it. Techs are savvy, to be sure, but they don't know everything. There's a reason why they're not supposed to give preemptive results. I would let the experts read the scans and go from there. It's great news that they didn't spot anymore plaque or blockages! Hang in there, love!!
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Mreader said:
Hello All,
Just got word back that the scan was NORMAL. Such a relief. Thank you for being a listening ear.
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Just saw this... yippee!! I feel like you can both relax now and just keep up with his regular check-ups. But I think it's great you both pushed for those scans to be absolutely certain. :geek2:
 
Mreader said:
Thank you, Bron. I’m pretty unhappy with the tech. I wish he had said nothing. The test was already stressful and he made it worse. I cannot imagine the agony you must have gone through waiting six weeks for extra information during pregnancy! I’m really sorry you had to endure that.
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i second the just breath sentiment
i think (and admidably what do i know ?) but if it was something unusual but really bad hubby would have been sent straight to a doctor
 
Such great news!!!! Whew!
 
Mreader said:
No, but thank you for the link. I will definitely look into it.
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I have had borderline high cholesterol for a while now but my HDL was always high enough that my doc decided I could go without medication. But as it continued to creep up she was less sure about that plan. She said I could get this test done but would have to pay out of pocket. I thought it might be like $500-1000 but it cost me I think $125. Best $125 I ever spent as I came back with a score of 0 meaning they basically saw no plaque in my arteries which made my risk of heart disease very low.

It's a relatively new test so there isn't enough long-term data to know whether in 10 or 20 years my risk could change significantly so I plan to redo this test on a periodic basis (prob every 5 years).
 
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