I appreciate your thoughts on the situation, Munchkin, since I am just at a loss here. That could very well be the case, though the drive lasted less than 5 minutes, since the church is basically right across the street from my GGM''s neighborhood and they didn''t even sit with her during church. And though her Alzheimer''s is bad, its not horrible. She does ask the same question every 5 minutes which is mostly "Can I get you something to drink?" and tells the story of how she met her husband over and over, and she loses everything constantly. In fact, we''ve had to replace her glasses 5 times in a 2 month period before. But other than that, she really doesn''t have too many problems. It still may be the cases, and if it is, I wouldn''t fault them much for that.