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Love both, had dogs now I have cats and love them to bits! Right now I'm a cat person, I don't like loud noises
I love both. Cats give me asthma so I’ve only housed a couple for short times until I found them homes.
Dogs are my spirit animal. Life for me would feel empty without a dog in the home.
I voted both. We grew up with lots of cats & I thought I hated dogs. We got 2 cats when our girls were little. Poppy, the black, was an avid hunter & sadly died shortly after we moved into the Vicarage almost 2 years ago. She fell from a really high tree trying to get to a squirrels nest, landing belly down on a chopped tree stump below. She shattered her spine, pelvis & hips. It was horrific. Sparks is a Lilac Point Birman & this year she’ll be 11. She has the most beautiful lilac blue eyes.
In Aug 2023 after we’d moved, we picked up this beautiful bundle of Fox Red Labrador. As I said, I always hated dogs, but I love this dog SO much that it hurts. Her eyes can tell me a story just by looking into them.
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We always had Yorkies or miniature poodles when I was growing up. As an adult I’ve always had Boston Terriers. I think when you find a breed that suits you, you tend to stick with it when you can. My current Boston is a rescue so I was very lucky to be allowed to adopt him.
I adore them both - and all animals, really - and have been blessed to share my adult life with both, but if pressed, I will admit to being just a smidge more of a dog person. But I like having both in our home - they bring such different energies. The dogs are like beloved children, while the cats are more like adult roommates, some of whom are more aloof and independent, while others are close buddies.
@Lookinagain, I agree that one can find a breed that is just "right." For me, that is rough collies. They have the intelligence and the sweeter, gentler qualities of the herding breeds, but have less of the work drive that requires tons of dog sports or a real job that border collies and aussies and Belgian shepherds need (because they were created by crossing the ancestors of border collies with borzois (Russian wolfhounds)). And they're stunningly gorgeous to boot!
My husband is in love with huskies, but even he had to admit that their temperament and needs are totally wrong for us, and that collies are the right fit. Although as we age, we just might have to downsize to shelties......
These guys are actually Oriental Shorthairs - a more elongated, louder, more extra breed than the comparatively sedate Burmese I grew up with.
They do feel pretty wonderful - Otto (the black one) is a very satisfying pat as he’s a long rangy boy. Min, his grey sister has the softest fur I’ve ever felt over a solidly muscled body.
Thank you for finding them homes. Both my dh and I have asthma and it was a long road to coexisting healthfully with the cats. Greg got immunotherapy for a very long time and I am on Dupixent. THat's how much we love cats haha
And totally get the house feels so empty without our furry babies. It doesn't feel like a home without them.
I feel the same! I also have severe asthma and a cat allergy and take Dupixent (and daily Singulair and Pulmicort and Symbicort and Allegra). I grew up with 5 cats and 3 dogs but didn't consider getting a cat once i moved out because of my asthma. I was torn between ferrets and chinchillas but fell in love with pet rats instead.
One day I found a stray cat and brought him home to somehow coexist in my studio apartment with my rats. When my husband first met me, I was living in a 450 square foot apartment with a 6-foot tall rat cage, 2 rats, and a cat! When my third pair of rats passed, I realized I couldn't stand the heartache of their short 2-year life span anymore, and the little boy cat I found became a happy only child. We were lucky enough to have the cat I didn't know I needed for 13 years. The day after we put him to sleep after a long and brave fight with lymphoma, we adopted our little tuxedo girl.
To be fair, we would probably also have a dog, but our building doesn't allow them. We would also probably have more than 1 cat, but our condo is only 700 square feet.
Yes 100% agree. They are family. My mom and dad got a dog when my mom became pregnant with me. And turns out my dad was allergic (neither had grown up with pets) but it was easily managed with meds. However, when my sister (younger) was born she had severe asthma and was in and out of the hospital because during those days they didn't have the meds they have now. Long story short she still has allergies that flare severely from time to time but she is a veterinarian and has a household full of animals.
When I met my DH he had never had a pet growing up and we quickly found out he was very allergic. I had three cats. When he proposed he said the cats are family and I will get allergy shots. And so he did for well over a decade. And they worked. Really well. He does take asthma meds too but it is well controlled knock wood.
I didn't develop allergies til I was an adult. And my pulmonologist told me if I got rid of my cats (I had three at the time) my asthma would go away. I said what's my next option (lol) because that was not going to happen. I kicked them out of the bedroom and with meds was OK. For a while. Til last year when my asthma started flaring and became severe. Nothing worked. My allergist put me on Dupixent and voila. It's a miracle med. I just wish it wasn't so expensive because if the insurance company decides they no longer want to cover it I'm going to be in a pickle.
Thank you for sharing your story @dnfd
I love reading about the journeys of fellow animal lovers and their furry babies
And I agree with you. The very worst thing about having furry babies is their lifespan is way too short. Way too short
This was Billy, one of my original furry babies. Hanging out with my DH..look at the love
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The picture of Billy with your husband is beautiful! I love that your sister became a vet. What a wonderful family of animal lovers you have. What are a few medications compared with the love and companionship of our furry family? At least that's how I was raisedYour story has made me so happy
Here's to modern medicine!
A Cashmere cat?
Chocolate and lilac? What are their names?
Chocolate and lilac? What are their names?