lliang_chi
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lliang_chi|1303092584|2898846 said:Tuckins! Congratulations! Welcome baby Ethan!!! Guess he found out there were some new hotties in the world (Violet & Alyssa) and decided to join the party. (Sorry if that was totally inappropriate to Tuckins, Tao and Puffy. I"m a non-mom so I'm kinda dense at these things...)
~LC
Oh, I get this...its DH who doesn't. I think part of it for him is that neither he nor i were ever in formalized daycare, so he is a little uncomfortable. And his friend whom he works with using the work daycare had two very sick babies...chronic ear infections, rashes and hospitalizations, etc.. and his friend actually told DH he thinks it was due to daycare. His cousin has two kids (5/7) who hopefully can hellp infect our LO I think have some pros and cons to either situation...you just never know what will be "right"!Dreamer_D|1303186953|2899764 said:Charbie For perspective, all kids get sick in daycare *a lot* in the first 2-4 months. Then they get over it! Its normal exposure. The more they are sick when younger, the less later on. You can't escape it I think.
charbie|1303214302|2899868 said:Oh, I get this...its DH who doesn't. I think part of it for him is that neither he nor i were ever in formalized daycare, so he is a little uncomfortable. And his friend whom he works with using the work daycare had two very sick babies...chronic ear infections, rashes and hospitalizations, etc.. and his friend actually told DH he thinks it was due to daycare. His cousin has two kids (5/7) who hopefully can hellp infect our LO I think have some pros and cons to either situation...you just never know what will be "right"!Dreamer_D|1303186953|2899764 said:Charbie For perspective, all kids get sick in daycare *a lot* in the first 2-4 months. Then they get over it! Its normal exposure. The more they are sick when younger, the less later on. You can't escape it I think.
basil|1303215773|2899881 said:DD - how funny! I wonder what makes the difference in how different people carry. Body type? Condition? Some other factor of how the uterus is shaped? I'm average height and average weight normally. I'm pear shaped, so my waist is generally a lot smaller than my hips, so maybe because I spend a lot of time "catching up" for my waist measurement to match my hips, I don't look all that big? I definitely feel like the baby is right up in my stomach/ribs already and I feel like my waist doesn't bend anymore, and the doctor confirmed the baby is measuring exactly correctly, so I don't think it's a small baby or anything. It's definitely NOT because I have such strong stomach muscles that it's holding everything in!
basil|1303215773|2899881 said:Charbie - that's great that you will be able to leave your baby with someone you trust! To me, that would be more important than the price or the rate of illness or whatever. Though I know that babies need to build their immunity by being exposed to germs, I think it would be hard(er) to see a 2 month old baby with a bad cold or ear infection versus a 1 or 2 year old. But what do I know? We are probably going with a nanny at first, and then probably transition to daycare at 2 or 3 when social development becomes more important. But we haven't finalized that yet, so we'll see.
basil|1303215773|2899881 said:RT - cool picture! Sorry it didn't work. Is that a giant bean bag???