ellaila
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We''ve told family and close friends, but not work people yet (though I did have to tell my HR person yesterday b/c our benefits enrollment is coming up). I feel like everyone must know -- she''s not drinking coffee! she''s always peeing! she looks like she''s sleeping at her desk! -- but I think I''m just paranoid!
I always said I wouldn''t find out -- I love the idea of being surprised in the hospital with the "It''s a ____!!" announcement -- but I don''t know if I''ll really be able to hold out that long. Hubby wants to know, and I''m pretty sure it won''t take much arm-twisting to get me to find out. But I''d be really proud of myself if I managed to NOT find out. I admire your will power in not finding out, Tacori -- it''s impressive!!
Diver, thanks for the info! I wish my doctor had done some sort of pre-appt. appt., but the receptionist just sort of laughed when I asked (jokingly), "So do I get a guidebook or anything now?"
Honestly, we weren''t expecting this to happen so soon so I''m thankful that I actually started taking prenatals a few months ago just to get the folic acid stored up in me! We just got married in Sept., I went off the pill in November or December, and we were still being pretty careful even after that, so really it happened pretty much as soon as we stopped being careful. We weren''t "trying" exactly (weren''t monitoring ovulation or anything like that), so I feel pretty lucky that at 35, I was able to pregnant basically right away. My grandma had two kids in her 40s and my first cousin did too, so (knock on wood) late healthy pregnancies run in my family!
"Our favorite nights though are at home, playing with our son. You''ll never tire of watching them discover things, and they are just so damn cute it hurts. You will turn into that person who oohs and ahhhs over the dumbest stuff. Its a riot. Last night I spent an hour watching my son chase my german shepherd through the sprinkler & they were wrestling in it and he was laughing so hard he could barely stand up half the time. I almost peed my pants from laughing just watching them. yep....they change your life, and thank God for it....its the best thing in the world. " -- LOVE IT!!!
I always said I wouldn''t find out -- I love the idea of being surprised in the hospital with the "It''s a ____!!" announcement -- but I don''t know if I''ll really be able to hold out that long. Hubby wants to know, and I''m pretty sure it won''t take much arm-twisting to get me to find out. But I''d be really proud of myself if I managed to NOT find out. I admire your will power in not finding out, Tacori -- it''s impressive!!
Diver, thanks for the info! I wish my doctor had done some sort of pre-appt. appt., but the receptionist just sort of laughed when I asked (jokingly), "So do I get a guidebook or anything now?"
Honestly, we weren''t expecting this to happen so soon so I''m thankful that I actually started taking prenatals a few months ago just to get the folic acid stored up in me! We just got married in Sept., I went off the pill in November or December, and we were still being pretty careful even after that, so really it happened pretty much as soon as we stopped being careful. We weren''t "trying" exactly (weren''t monitoring ovulation or anything like that), so I feel pretty lucky that at 35, I was able to pregnant basically right away. My grandma had two kids in her 40s and my first cousin did too, so (knock on wood) late healthy pregnancies run in my family!
"Our favorite nights though are at home, playing with our son. You''ll never tire of watching them discover things, and they are just so damn cute it hurts. You will turn into that person who oohs and ahhhs over the dumbest stuff. Its a riot. Last night I spent an hour watching my son chase my german shepherd through the sprinkler & they were wrestling in it and he was laughing so hard he could barely stand up half the time. I almost peed my pants from laughing just watching them. yep....they change your life, and thank God for it....its the best thing in the world. " -- LOVE IT!!!