Christmas Ruined

[mimzy]

Date: 12/23/2007 11:42:14 PM
Author: nebe

Date: 12/23/2007 1:37:41 PM

Author: surfgirl

ERIN, is there any way you can write in BLACK and not PINK? It''s killing my eyes!

I''m NOT the only one!!

I do thank you for staying left aligned though, MissErin.

ditto

 

[betternotbiggerdiamond]

Date: 12/23/2007 11:20:28 PM
Author: EricsPrincess
But I was so wrong about what hes been up to.

he just PROPOSED.

AH HA! I knew it! I knew he was tryin'' to throw ya off!

CONGRATS!!

 

[Angel7]

Congrats! At least you now have a happy ending and your Christmas turned out perfect.
Hope your fiance''s medical issues/employment issues end on the same note!

Merry Christmas!

 

[surfgirl]

Date: 12/23/2007 11:52:07 PM
Author: mimzy

Date: 12/23/2007 11:42:14 PM

Author: nebe

Date: 12/23/2007 1:37:41 PM


Author: surfgirl


ERIN, is there any way you can write in BLACK and not PINK? It''s killing my eyes!

I''m NOT the only one!!

I do thank you for staying left aligned though, MissErin.

ditto

Ahhhh, glad I''m not alone...sometimes less is more.

So, all this drama for nada! CONGRATS...!

 

[LaurenThePartier]

Congratulations, EricsPrincess!!!!!

 

[aljdewey]

Date: 12/22/2007 10:38:09 PM
Author: surfgirl
Well, you''re not going to like what I have to say but...I think you''re being childish. If you''re old enough and mature enough to get married, it shouldn''t matter when or where you get engaged - it should matter that the person who is ''the one'' for you is asking you to be his wife. Your post sounded a bit bratty, to be honest...like, ''if I cant have my ring on Xmas, then I dont want it! *stomps foot & pouts*''.

That said, your BF sounds childish for refusing to propose just because his exact plan isn''t possible right now. Then again, perhaps he wanted total privacy because it will be emotional and difficult for him to propose and doing so at home is where he is most comfortable. And if that is the case, isn''t that more of a sweet thing, than something to be angry about?

I really have to echo much of what SG said......

Marriage under the best circumstances can still be FULL of challenges and requires great patience. It''s not about getting your way all the time. People are different, and that means they often have differing expectations. Marriage includes learning how to take those disappointments in stride and learning that your mate''s expectations are just as important as yours.

Based solely on what you''ve shared in this thread, I''d really worry that you''re not ready. Of course I don''t know you, so perhaps my read is off, but that''s my take.