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Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages ....

Circe

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... of jewelry acquisition! I got an e-mail from Yekutiel late Friday afternoon telling me my earrings were ready. Now I'm champing at the bit to see them, but there's nothing to be done till Monday!

When I started shopping for these and kept going back and forth about upgrade policies vs. the immediate gratification of a bigger vintage pair, real antiques vs. AVRs vs. H&As, my husband laughed and said, "This is your favorite part, isn't it." And, in part, he's right: I love owning and enjoying my beautiful things, but I also like the build-up of coveting beautiful things, figuring out which kind I like most, and tracking down the best deal. It's sort of nice, having all your options open, knowing you could have that or that or that, before you settle on the exact right one.

Of course, then there's that weird, day-before-Christmas charge of knowing your things are out there: you just can't have them yet! I am by no means a fan of delayed gratification, but there's an odd sort of pleasure in anticipating just how perfect something will be.

And then there's the part where it's all yours (precious), and you get to gloat over it, and take a gazillion photos, and post them here for everybody else to admire, in all probability starting the process up all over again for somebody else .... :rodent:

Am I an overthinking weirdo? (Well, yes. Obviously. I meant specifically.) Or do you guys know what I mean? If so, what's your favorite part of a project?
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

i like the Unpacking Of The Boxes ritual....
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

I can't wait to see them!!
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

Hmm... Fulfillment is always wonderful. But the other two stages have their benefits.

I just ordered my 'inspired by Garland band' from BGD a couple weeks ago so I'm at anticipation. I've been working on it with them since September (I put the hold on it because of finances) ... and thinking about it for longer. I can't wait to see it on my finger.

But there is a lot to be said for the hunt. When I "hunt" I go to local B&Ms to try stuff on and to see what is available. And that's fun. A LOT of fun if you go to the right store. And we have a few around here with some great quality stuff (once even has an entire display of Van Craeynest rings). Narrowing down choices then figuring out details is always a joy.

I am hoping for my CADs in a few days... and the anticipation is making me giddy. It makes it all the better when you get it though. But... actually owning the pieces.

CLEANING, oddly enough is one of my favorite aspects of Fulfillment. I'm not a compulsive cleaner of my jewelry, and I don't own an Ultra Sonic or a Steam Cleaner so... every couple of weeks when I clean my stuff and see it all laid out sparkling up at me. I feel like a Dragon sitting on it's treasure. I just revel in OWNING such lovely stuff.

Can't wait to see the new addition to my collection. But then... once I do... the cycle will start anew. And I'm ALREADY thinking about the next piece! Trying to decide between a solitaire pear pendant or upgradable studs. So much FUN.
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

:lol:

You are funny. Of course you are normal - by PS standards anyway!

Enjoy the 'waiting' phase now....
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

sweet!! can't wait to see!

not much waiting left though.. better make the most of what's left :devil: :bigsmile:
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

Yssie|1291608318|2788535 said:
sweet!! can't wait to see!

not much waiting left though.. better make the most of what's left :devil: :bigsmile:

I am, I am! I've been through the earring thread backwards and forwards ....
 
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Circe|1291608420|2788536 said:
Yssie|1291608318|2788535 said:
sweet!! can't wait to see!

not much waiting left though.. better make the most of what's left :devil: :bigsmile:

I am, I am! I've been through the earring thread backwards and forwards ....

ok, where's the earring thread? Guess I'm totally ignorant!! And blind!
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

yes, where is it?! :naughty:
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

bebe|1291670935|2789117 said:
Circe|1291608420|2788536 said:
Yssie|1291608318|2788535 said:
sweet!! can't wait to see!

not much waiting left though.. better make the most of what's left :devil: :bigsmile:

I am, I am! I've been through the earring thread backwards and forwards ....

ok, where's the earring thread? Guess I'm totally ignorant!! And blind!

THE earring thread lives here: https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/show-me-your-diamond-studs.51981/

(I swear, one of these days I'll figure out how to post neat links in PS 2.0, but that day is not today.)

VB, as for MY earring thread? That is coming tomorrow ... but in the meantime, be aware that I've been caroling "Shiny! SHIIIIIIIIIIIINY!" like a crazed chipmunk ever since 10 in the morning, when I picked up my gorgeous, enormous, incredibly shiny new earrings.

Ach, who was I kidding - possession is more than 9/10s of the law: it's totally the best part of the process! :lol:
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

Circe you put it into words better than I ever could. I LOVE the thrill of the hunt and its eventual reward! :appl: I searched for my dream bracelet within my budget for well over a year, and for so long owning it was nothing more than a dream... now she resides happily on my wrist :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

SOOOOOOOOOO excited for you! Big SQUEE!!! :loopy: :loopy: :loopy: :loopy:
 
Re: Covetousness, anticipation & fulfillment: the 3 stages .

Sigh. I have not been able to enjoy any of the stages because flat broke due to Christmas and other expenses. But I do have to say I actually do enjoy the first 2 stages A LOT. A fantasy of mine is having my husband say, here's xxx dollars to buy whatever you like from your favorite jewelry store, and to be able to shop, and peruse, and finally pick something out.
 
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