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GemFever's New OEC & Vintage Wedding Set

GemFever

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Hi guys!

Wanted to share my new OEC & set. As some of you know, I'm on a mission to find the ultimate old cut on a budget. I've already transitioned through a couple old cuts when this wedding set came across my path. I'm usually not too sentimental about vintage settings, but I fell in love with this one. According to the seller, it belonged to his aunt, who had a long and happy marriage. Both the engagement ring and the wedding band are engraved with the initials of their original owners, and the wedding band also has the wedding date -- 11.25.1937. I love that these two pieces are still together.

Still, me being me, I had to take the diamond out to get the chips & abrasions cleaned up. That went off without a hitch, the weight changed from 1.58 to 1.54ct. Then I sent it to GIA, it came back as a K Si2 (both grades expected and I'm happy with them). The next step was to put the diamond back into the old setting. That's where the big problem happened :blackeye: I knew that the old fishtail prongs were pretty worn away, and was kind of worried about putting the stone into the same setting without some repair. I thought maybe new beads could be added to the fishtails... it might look messy, but what can you do.

Anyway, to make this long story a little shorter I'll just say that the jeweler took some liberty with the ring and instead of building up the old prongs, he shaved them down to the point that the turned into regular prongs, and set the stone that way (without checking with me). When I saw a pic of it, I was heartbroken (read: I cried). However, I realized that it would be a big project to rebuild the corners, and I certainly didn't trust this guy to do it. So I decided to accept the modified ring and wear it until I have the budget and the knowledge (i.e. trusted jeweler) to rebuild the old head.

Today I received the ring in the mail. Even with the changes, I still adore it ::) I actually kind of like the new look! It opens up the leaf details on the sides. I will probably just leave it like this, at least for a good long while.

Most likely this will not be my "forever" stone, it's not the ultimate upgrade I initially wanted. But I really like this imperfect but very cute stone, and I love the whole set. I twinkles at me so joyfully ::) [I'm big into diamond "personality," and this guy is very happy and smiley :cheeky: ].

The pics aren't the best, I may add better ones once I get them. But I'm impatient to share, so these will have to do for now :rodent:

First two pics are what the setting used to look like...






the rest are from today :))

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And some more...

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And a little more :bigsmile:

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Last thoughts after looking at these pics -- the set is 18K white gold, and for the first time, I love the color of the white metal. It's lovely and soft.

I probably won't keep wearing it with my 14K yellow gold wedding band, but I'm not ready to take it off just yet. Maybe in a few days?
 
GemFever,

I would have been sick about the ruined fishtail prongs, too, but it does look good as regular prongs and you do see the shoulders better.

Beautiful set.

liz
 
It looks just beautiful, and has such a lovely story. I want to be first in line if you ever let it go!
 
It's beautiful!!
 
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It is truly yummy! LOVE it!
 
GEM !!!!! I LOVE the new setting !!! In fact, it's going in my
inspiration file :appl: :appl: :appl:

I am glad you are not too disappointed in the loss of the fishtails,
because I think the new setting REALLY shows off that beautiful stone
and makes it look HUGE !!!!
And the ring details are so much more visible this way....
LOVE IT !!!!!

eta: Ha I didn't even realize your WB is YG, that's how much the
new ring / setting captured my attention !!!!!!
 
It's so pretty Gem! And what a bright diamond.

I'd love to see a video. :naughty:
 
How romantic that the two rings are still together - that's wonderful!

I'd be heartbroken too, if the feature I loved about a ring, was suddenly gone - did they not check w you first?? Yikes! But it does look very nice w the 4 prongs even tho you are missing the fishtail prongs.

Great find- enjoy!!
 
I love the setting, both before and after!
 
I love the side details. :love: :love: So glad you are okay with the ring despite what the jeweler did. What was his explanation for that?
It is a gorgeous ring and I ditto that the diamond looks huge!
 
What a beautiful ring! I can't believe you were fortunate enough to find an intact original wedding set. The diamond is gorgeous and although you were unhappy they removed the fishtale prongs I honestly think I looks better with the current prongs. Makes that diamond really pop! :love: :love: :love:
 
Thanks everyone! I'm really, really loving this ring. I've heard the PS wisdom before that the right setting really makes a world of a difference, but seeing is believing.

Libby -- Thanks! I had a bad afternoon after first seeing the changed prongs. I'm glad I didn't let that same jeweler try to fix it though. I'm lucky that the new look is really growing on me.

Princess -- I will pen you in as first in line. You know I'm first in line for your frenchie band, but I have a feeling neither one of us is going to be letting go any time soon! ;))

Thanks Laila and CharmedOne!

Shiney, thanks!! I'm really loving how the ring looks on my finger. I still can't bring myself to say that the change was for the better, but... I'm not planning to fix it anytime soon :cheeky:

Thanks Linny! I'll work on getting a good vid, and then post it somewhere... I don't think we're allowed personal vids here, but maybe I could stick it on Loupe Troop somewhere for anyone who wants to see it. Btw, I can't wait to see your ring!! Soon?

Thanks Enerchi! No, the jeweler didn't check with me or the person who dropped it off for me (my friend in NYC who's been incredibly generous with her time -- taking the stone to get polished, then GIA, then the jeweler). I guess the guy is kind of bold, he thought he knew better. Anyway, I'm not going to dwell on it, because the diamond is secure and lookin' pretty on my finger. :bigsmile:

Thanks Devin!

Vinjewels -- the explanation was that the old prongs were too worn away (that part was true) and there was no way to set the stone securely. This was his solution. I don't know why he didn't just refuse the job in the first place if he didn't feel the old setting could be used... or add some metal on the prongs to make them usable... ? But I really don't know anything about metal, so i can't say. In the end, I think he went with his "vision." I thought the stone would look smaller without the corners, so thanks for saying it still looks big. I think 1.5 is a great size for me right now.

woofmama -- thank you! I feel very lucky to have the whole set. It's such a nice feeling. And I agree... the new look is looking good to me!

Thanks everyone! :wavey:
 
I can understand your disappointment with the changes that were made without your approval, but I have to say that I love the way the ring looks now. To me it looks like the jeweler updated the look while retaining its vintage roots (or in this case, shoulders :wink2: ). I'm glad you like it in spite of your disappointment. Wear it in good health!
 
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Awww, when I was reading about the jeweler working on your ring without your permission and shaving it down, I was sooo sad for you. But after seeing the before and after pictures, it's not too bad! Different! But still beautiful! And your stone is killlller glowy!!! I mean it takes the whole presence of the room!! It's like you brought the moon down to earth, shrunk it to size and you're wearing it! Awesome!
 
Such a pretty & unique setting, and it is amazing that the rings still together!! I would have been devastated about the fishtails, but like the others have said, with them removed it opens up the shoulder detail move & I prefer it. Its a beautiful stone :love:
 
Gem, what a beautiful set! I love that they remain together and were very well loved by the original owner. It's just so lovely!
And I totally get why you were upset initially but I am thrilled you are pleased now and it really is beautiful!
 
I love fishtail prongs but I really like the new prongs as well, they really show off the diamond well. Lovely ring!
 
Lovely ring, before and after! Have You other specs? How many mm Your beauty is, table% etc...

When I purchased my oec I planned at first that kind of illusion set. Then I turned to bezel (mostly because it is safe to my stone). Illusion set is very nice, because it makes stone look bigger and is not very common. Today I am very pleased for round shape and not even consider to reset again.


Enjoy Your beautiful treasure :) I love it!
 
Such a lovely story! Except for the jeweller not getting your approval, that's happened to me before too! :(sad
Anyway, it's still a beautiful ring - enjoy wearing it :wavey:
 
It is gorgeous, despite the tragedy that your jeweler perpetrated on the poor setting, though it looks like it worked out in your favor, as it is stunning! The stone is lovely and I love that it's a complete set!
I think that a gold band could be worn with the set, I just think that the band you have with it now is too wide. A carved band would be gorgeous with it. I'm biased, because that's what I have (mine is rose gold), but I do think it would be beautiful with your set. Here's a photo...I got the ring on eBay for about $250.

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I think it is a really beautiful set! :love: :love: :love: Circe knows all about that style head getting butchered and she also knows someone who can remake them beautifully if you decide to restore it to it's original style.
 
Gemfever I had to visit your ring again this morning. I'm in love with it :love: :love: :love:
I really think the altered setting is beautiful. Just added your rings to my favorites folder.
Enjoy!!!
 
Such a beautiful antique set. I would never have known it was altered if I never saw the before photos. Makes me sad I chose a new stone for my upgrade. I love all of the old stones and settings so many of the Psers have. Yours is especially lovely.
 
I think it turned out really beautifully, despite it not being done to your specifications! If you do decide to change it, I sincerely hope you can find the perfect jeweler to make that happen. For now, it looks terrific and I hope you wear it in good health! :D
 
I adore it the way it is now and that stone is a gorgeous chunky fireball. It is kind of like what I am waiting on without a bezel. What is it with some benches not communicating with the clients?? Maybe most clients are not PSers :lol:

LOVELY outcome!
 
While I'm sorry about the fishtail prongs being ruined, I really like the new look. I think it makes the diamond stand out so much more. It's really gorgeous. Congratulations! :appl:
 
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Congrats!!! What a pretty wedding set!!
I actually like the new prongs as it a) shows off your beautiful diamond better and b) shows off the flowery 'shoulders' better. It looks like it is meant to be this way as it looks like a flower! Love it!

I do like the combination with your modern and clean wedding ring. Your complete set represents a great story. Enjoy wearing your rings!!
 
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