I'm looking for a diamond tennis bracelet for a 10 year anniversary. I don't buy diamonds very often so it's a very expensive and stressful purchase for me. I live in Australia and we have very few local options, so I haven't been able to view much in person either to fully visualize size and style differences.
Ideally I wanted 5ct+ but I'm considering 4ct as well due to budget. I don't need the best of the best, I'm happy to compromise if it means bigger diamonds (which is her main priority!). Here are my top choices.
NOTE: shipping from idj is $300
so I've added that to the price
4ct - $4950 - IDJ
5ct - $5700 - James Allen (sale ends in a day)
6ct - $7550 - IDJ
8ct - $9350 - IDJ
I think all of the IDJ ones are F-G/SI1/excellent cut. The James Allen one is H-I/SI1-SI2 (don't know cut).
I know you will all immediately go for the best quality ones, but again keep in mind that we are not diamond experts and probably won't be able to tell the difference. Last time I bought diamonds (5 year anniversary) I bought her hearts and arrow ideal diamond studs from whiteflash and we honestly can't tell the difference from a bluenile pendant with much much worse spec. I kind of regret not buying bigger ones with a worse spec. So please keep that in mind. The bigger size will give her more happiness than 5% more sparkle.
I would also much appreciate other suggestions as these are still all very expensive and I'm really worried about going with the 4ct. I contacted ivy & rose, but after 3 business days they haven't gotten back to me.
While the 4ct is already breaking the bank (and we have to pay another 15% for importing it as well), I'm considering going bigger just because it IS such a big sum already and if it's too small then it's kind of completely wasted. It's hard to send back and my wife wouldn't do it. And to be clear, this is never getting upgraded, ie it's a once in a lifetime bracelet.
She has big wrists and one of the few ones we've been able to try was a 5ct that still looked very small (and she wants something big). Hence why in my head I kind of made that the baseline. It's so hard to make a decision. Sadly the 8ct is probably the best value, but we are talking about the price of a car now...
So yeah, what should I do? Which size? Where can I find an acceptable 5ct+ for a reasonable price? Do I dare buy the james Allen one despite how I'm sure everyone in this thread will tell me not to? Should I just close my eyes and turn off my common sense and buy the 8ct since it's the best value and I won't have to worry about it being too small? Do IDJ ever have promotions/codes? Are they open for negotiation or would they be insulted if I asked for a discount or something? Etc
I probably need to order within a week or so to meet my deadline. Any help is appreciated as I feel more lost now than when I started looking. It's so hard making a purchase like this without being able to walk into a store and actually talk to people and look at the items in person.
PS: hope it's ok I created another thread for a more focused discussion as I started the other one for discussing a specific store
Ideally I wanted 5ct+ but I'm considering 4ct as well due to budget. I don't need the best of the best, I'm happy to compromise if it means bigger diamonds (which is her main priority!). Here are my top choices.
NOTE: shipping from idj is $300
4ct - $4950 - IDJ
5ct - $5700 - James Allen (sale ends in a day)
6ct - $7550 - IDJ
8ct - $9350 - IDJ
I think all of the IDJ ones are F-G/SI1/excellent cut. The James Allen one is H-I/SI1-SI2 (don't know cut).
I know you will all immediately go for the best quality ones, but again keep in mind that we are not diamond experts and probably won't be able to tell the difference. Last time I bought diamonds (5 year anniversary) I bought her hearts and arrow ideal diamond studs from whiteflash and we honestly can't tell the difference from a bluenile pendant with much much worse spec. I kind of regret not buying bigger ones with a worse spec. So please keep that in mind. The bigger size will give her more happiness than 5% more sparkle.
I would also much appreciate other suggestions as these are still all very expensive and I'm really worried about going with the 4ct. I contacted ivy & rose, but after 3 business days they haven't gotten back to me.
While the 4ct is already breaking the bank (and we have to pay another 15% for importing it as well), I'm considering going bigger just because it IS such a big sum already and if it's too small then it's kind of completely wasted. It's hard to send back and my wife wouldn't do it. And to be clear, this is never getting upgraded, ie it's a once in a lifetime bracelet.
She has big wrists and one of the few ones we've been able to try was a 5ct that still looked very small (and she wants something big). Hence why in my head I kind of made that the baseline. It's so hard to make a decision. Sadly the 8ct is probably the best value, but we are talking about the price of a car now...
So yeah, what should I do? Which size? Where can I find an acceptable 5ct+ for a reasonable price? Do I dare buy the james Allen one despite how I'm sure everyone in this thread will tell me not to? Should I just close my eyes and turn off my common sense and buy the 8ct since it's the best value and I won't have to worry about it being too small? Do IDJ ever have promotions/codes? Are they open for negotiation or would they be insulted if I asked for a discount or something? Etc
I probably need to order within a week or so to meet my deadline. Any help is appreciated as I feel more lost now than when I started looking. It's so hard making a purchase like this without being able to walk into a store and actually talk to people and look at the items in person.
PS: hope it's ok I created another thread for a more focused discussion as I started the other one for discussing a specific store
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