Help me! I am a snooper

[fieryred33143]

Date: 8/12/2008 5:38:45 AM
Author: lasscreative

I haven''t looked since and the desire to look is GONE!!! Because I feel such a strong wave of shame rush over me! How could I have done this to our relationship! Whats to see anyway. On Thursday night we are going to the jewelers to try on the ring with no stones set... so, honestly what more do I need to know????

Don''t be too hard on yourself. Being a LIW Is hard. I went through my "crazy" moments too

 

[LaraOnline]

Date: 8/12/2008 9:47:45 AM
Author: fieryred33143

Date: 8/12/2008 8:35:37 AM

Author: LaraOnline

Date: 8/11/2008 8:41:23 AM

Author: purrfectpear

You not only have trust issues, you have integrity issues. Serious ones.



You seem to think because this is about a diamond (that you don''t even own yet), it''s somehow OK to snoop. You further push the responsibility off on your FFI that it''s HIS fault that he didn''t change his password?



What planet do you live on?



There is nothing cute about this behavior. No hahahhaaa, no lol. Just pity for someone with such poor values

What''s the big deal about reading emails? I mean, he''s your husband, or soon to be... I mean, my man naturally hears every single phone conversation I have, because he''s in the same room... our email address delivers mail to us both... I don''t get the big guilt trip, really...


ETA: and let''s face it, she''s getting engaged, with a flash rock. ''nuff said!

But if your husband was ''furious'' at you for reading his emails and asked you to stop, would you continue?


I said earlier that we have each other''s passwords to everything and that includes voicemail. Now that we are planning a wedding, all of our vendors are calling me and leaving me messages so he goes in and listens to them. It''s no big deal for me but if it became one and I asked him to stop, I would expect him to stop out of respect because I asked. Had the OP''s FF ''lol'' at the situation to then no big deal but he doesn''t find it so funny.

Yeah, I know a lot of people get really steamed up about it. But I don''t get rocked at people reading the back page of my newspaper on the bus either.

My feelings are: These people are getting MARRIED, they''re not room mates. he''s likely to see her giving birth (if she chooses to) what''s the big problem with a couple of business letters? She''s reading jewellery emails, because she''s excited...not the soft-focus vids that his mates keep sending him!

 

[Booper717]

I think you handeled all the responses very maturely and quite well. Sometimes people just post to be reassured but you obviously really wanted to hear others opinions! I''m super glad you realized this was wrong, but everyone makes mistakes! Now that you get to okay the finale design of the ring everything should be okay! I''m still not allowed to see mine, hahaha!!


Goodluck, let us know how the ring looks!