Dreamer_D
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Thank you for the wise and helpful tips. It is an entirely new experience to navigate, coming from anonymously buying mostly contemporary jewelry from bigger companies. I suppose this world seems a much more human process…for better and for worse. Trust does seem especially important so that buying (and returning) goes smoothly. It would be a big red flag to get a snarky answer to questions about an item you’re interested in! Or even no response. I love the look of antique stones but have been too nervous to try for a purchase, with the risks of potential inclusions, light performance, or just not being what I imagined when it arrives.
Yeah it is pretty different. There are some sellers that operate very small stores where it is more personal sales. Other companies like pawn shops and estate sellers still operate like most businesses you are familiar with. Except the aspect of negotiating price which as you say is very normal in the secondary/estate market but non-existent at big retailers!
Most of the bad vibes over gotten have been from private sellers. I’ve had mostly positive experiences with other vendors I’ve bought from or made inquiries with on Etsy and eBay.
Buying old cuts is a bit of a gamble. There are ways to judge what you will get pretty well now, even with poor pictures. I’m finding many old cuts have GIA reports these days, even from scrap and pawn sellers. And with some careful conversation you can get a sense of color and clarity etc from the seller. EBay has good return policies as a rule now, and verification for purchase over 500. Maybe you should start small and dip your toe in! People often post good buys in the “someone’s gotta buy this piece thread” and there’s lots of old cut lovers there who can help you evaluate things you might consider! But beware. Collecting old cuts is very addictive lol