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Brilliant_Rock
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I see orangy red. And i hear you that it’s not as bad as “orange red” but i don’t see Orange-red on this chart?
For reference, below is an example of a pretty ruby at imo a typical fair price, a 1.2 carat stone for about $5,000. Do you see the difference between that and the ones you've posted so far? I would not be overly impressed with "certified." It does not mean a "ruby" is not a very low quality piece of brown-red gravel!
For reference, below is an example of a pretty ruby at imo a typical fair price, a 1.2 carat stone for about $5,000. Do you see the difference between that and the ones you've posted so far? I would not be overly impressed with "certified" or just being any "ruby." First rule imo: Get something PRETTY.
I knew I shouldn't have bothered, since you don't listen and don't appreciate all the time and effort people who obviously know more than you have already wasted on you. Derp.
I think my last pick is a beautiful ruby.
Go for it, then. You said you had a 2-day return window, right? And the return policy is "no questions asked", if you don't like it, they'll take it back?
A couple of days should be plenty to see it in different light, learn how it performs and make a decision.
Worst case scenario, it doesn't hold up to expectations, you send it back and continue your search.
For what you're paying for the size, a ruby is going to be a small stone.
There's no point in buying an expensive, ugly, stone. That's just wasting money. If you want size, it won't be a ruby. Here are few that aren't perfect but at least have ruby color.
BURMA RUBY GRS - Etsy
This Gemstones item by Diastone has 6 favorites from Etsy shoppers. Ships from Hong Kong. Listed on Aug 16, 2024www.etsy.comUntreated Pigeon Blood Red 18k White Gold Natural Ruby Diamond Engagement Ring/mozambique Certified Ruby Statement Rings/signet Solitaire - Etsy
This Wedding & Engagement item by GraceGemsUS has 461 favorites from Etsy shoppers. Ships from Littleton, CO. Listed on Aug 17, 2024www.etsy.comYou could try contacting this vendor to see if they would put a slightly larger ruby in one of their settings.18k Rose Gold Ruby Engagement Ring/diamond Ruby Halo Ring/natural Untreated Real Ruby Ring for Women/art Deco Ruby Ring/proposal Ruby Ring - Etsy
This Wedding Bands item by GraceGemsUS has 138 favorites from Etsy shoppers. Ships from Littleton, CO. Listed on Apr 7, 2024www.etsy.com
All deleted. Help retracted since not appreciated.
Oh, and just to try and bring a little clarity here...
No one is attacking you personally. No one.
We know that it takes experience to learn and recognise quality in gemstones. At first most gems look pretty. You learn the difference once you're able to put two gems next to each other and see that difference with your own eyes. You may have started with a stone that you initially found beautiful, but once you have something better to compare it to - now you're able to fully realise all of its flaws.
Once you have experience, you also know where you are willing to compromise. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and different things matter to different people. Some aren't bothered by clarity. Some prefer a stone with an orange hue to a pinkish one. All things that allow you to lower the price while staying focused on what makes a stone beautiful in your eyes.
Since you don't have that experience, people are erring on the side of caution and trying to recommend you only the best with the least amount of compromise. Because the best is obviously going to be beautiful, and it will remain beautiful, no matter what you compare it to in the future.
Under 2k total
Well said, and for the record, I’m super appreciative of you and your help and also, I’m absolutely not feeling attacked- don’t worry. I do however have little tolerance for comments that have only bashing talk and nothing constructive. In that case, i feel those comments should not be in this threat.
That said, thank you for helping me to learn! I learned a great deal from you!
Ok. That’s even less do-able then,
With what I was attempting with the estate/vintage route.
Thinking since you are buying loose and will have to then find a setting that appropriately fits and someone to mount it.
It was mentioned upthread how much market has changed. It indeed has.
Prices are certainly different than 2018 when I went on my own ‘budget ruby’ search.
None of that helps you - just background info.
Wow, just wow. Except for once, I have refrained from commenting because of your responses and attitude. You are new to this site. You want to use the site and the expertise of members here, but it seems to me that you are not willing to "read the room" and try to conform. I do not see you listening, learning and showing much gratitude to members who offer their counsel, whether you agree with them or not.
With rare exceptions, almost all new members here are willing to learn. They ask questions or request reading material so that they can understand what constitutes a quality stone. Unlike you, they do not repeatedly say "is this worth X?" or "How much is this worth?" If you wanted to, you could read the thread I recommended so that you could learn yourself how to judge stones. Then, with that knowledge, you could research yourself where retail prices sit for comparable stones so you would not have to repeatedly ask rhetorical questions about value. I could excuse this if, for example, you were color blind. But it seems to me you are quick to feel insulted, despite the well intentioned efforts by members such as @seaurchin, so you lash out in a rude way that is inconsistent with the etiquette of this community. Please review your responses to those who have offered help. I'm sure there are other members besides myself who find your conduct so offputting as to prevent our participation in this thread or help in what otherwise might be a fun and educational thread.
Nonetheless, I wish you the best and hope you find a stone with great resale value!
it has a GIA certificate for ruby though...is GIA not trust worthy for ruby? See the photo on GIA's report:
No! Run, run, run away, as fast as you can!
Under 1ct but mindblowing
Ruby No Heat 0.82 ct
Stone type: Ruby UnheatedWeight: 0.82 ctDimension: 5.77 x 4.53 x 3.45 mmColor: RedShape & Cut: Oval, Yavorskyy cutyavorskyy.com
Small but BRIGHT
Ruby No Heat 0.66 ct
Stone type: Ruby Unheated Weight: 0.66 ctDimension: 5.71 x 4.25 x 2.93 mmColor: RedShape & Cut: Oval, Yavorskyy cutyavorskyy.com
@lovedogs the vendor has the wildest IG page, I swear. Does anyone have any experience with him? Tia
the vendor has the wildest IG page, I swear. Does anyone have any experience with him? Tia
@lovedogs the vendor has the wildest IG page, I swear. Does anyone have any experience with him? Tia
@lovedogs the vendor has the wildest IG page, I swear. Does anyone have any experience with him? Tia