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movie zombie|1396202274|3643865 said:Dancing Fire|1396200831|3643848 said:I shouldn't be held responsible for a 26 yrs old adult, but I'll do what ever I can to help her,and as for "blaming the parents" we can both agree on that topic!..why have children when you can't afford to raise them?
you are still not getting it, DF, and I fear it is another avoid and deflect maneuver: parents continuing to support their adult children in the lifestyle to which they have become accustomed [as in your case] does not allow the children to learn to stand on their own and take consequences for their decisions. in the context in which I wrote "blame the parents" it was fully understood....taking it to move into another topic is the usual and if you want to start a thread on parents who cannot afford to have children and why they do , please do so.
and while, DF, I find it interesting that you lived in China for 2 months and had to endure a dirt floor, well, i'll feel more sympathy when you tell me you did field work for 12 hours a day, 7 days a week to get food on the table.
DF, this thread has been misleading from the start. your daughter has access to health care insurance. she isn't being obstructed from getting health insurance and is instead CHOOSING to obstruct her own access to it and deciding to not pay for it. she is 26 years old. you can no longer micromanage her and her decisions. however, you have decided to make it easy for her to make these decisions by underwriting her lifestyle. your choice. it just gets old reading your writings on these types of occurrences because you never seem to understand your part in the situation. again, your choice: but please quit blaming others for your problems with your daughter and her decisions.
Thank you. More of us old-timers need to nail him every time he posts these things. The newbies don't know his history and always take it at face value, and poor little DF gets the attention he craves. And yes, as I said, my hypocrisy meter pegs every time DF posts about how everyone else's bad choices are the problem.