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Yeah, it’s making me feel like she thinks I’m some kind of ogre, because had she come to me at any point, we would have figured it out. There was a time in the summer where I offered to hire someone else to lighten the load, but she insisted that she didn’t want that (as it would have reduced her hours). And she insisted that everything was fine when I’d check in on her after that until she gave me her quitting speech yesterday. Not even a “can we talk about making some changes” - just an I’m leaving. I’ve always thought I was a pretty good mentor up until now...
This is about her and has nothing (and no refection on you) to do with your ability or skill or compassion as a mentor. This is all on her. I'm sorry you are dealing with the ramifications of her behavior. I am confident (based on knowing you as I do through your posts) that you are a wonderful and caring mentor.