Keepingthefaith21
Brilliant_Rock
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No, never. Ever. Even when we are married…maybe I would consider a joint savings account or a joint CD or other investment but checking account…no way!
We spilt the utilities and our mortgage. As long as he pays his share of the household bills, I don’t care what he does with his money just as I don’t expect to answer any inquires from him as to how I spend my money. We will split major purchases that are for our home but for the little things we each pay our own. In my previous relationship we fought constantly about money because we had joint accounts. I never got in the habit of buying myself objects that were not necessities (unless I found I had disposable income like a part of my yearly tax return) while my SO decided that if the money was there, might as well spend it on concert tickets and computer gadgets. The few times I actually wanted to buy something, I often times couldn’t because the account would be low on funds because of his spending.
In my SO’s previous relationship they also had a joint account and his ex would tell him that she had paid certain utilities with cash when she was actually taking the money and spending it on things for herself. Since we both had horrible experiences we decided to try keeping our own budgets and it’s working great. Why fix what isn’t broken, right?
We spilt the utilities and our mortgage. As long as he pays his share of the household bills, I don’t care what he does with his money just as I don’t expect to answer any inquires from him as to how I spend my money. We will split major purchases that are for our home but for the little things we each pay our own. In my previous relationship we fought constantly about money because we had joint accounts. I never got in the habit of buying myself objects that were not necessities (unless I found I had disposable income like a part of my yearly tax return) while my SO decided that if the money was there, might as well spend it on concert tickets and computer gadgets. The few times I actually wanted to buy something, I often times couldn’t because the account would be low on funds because of his spending.
In my SO’s previous relationship they also had a joint account and his ex would tell him that she had paid certain utilities with cash when she was actually taking the money and spending it on things for herself. Since we both had horrible experiences we decided to try keeping our own budgets and it’s working great. Why fix what isn’t broken, right?