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JGator, please let us know how it goes with your doctor today. I can only imagine how scary it was for you to see that last night, but am glad that it didn't get any worse. Sticky dust to you!
 
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JGator, sticky dust headed your way! Thinking of you today!
 
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Thanks S&I, Meg, MP, and PPM for your support. I went to the doctor this AM, and I received some sad news. The baby did not have a heart beat and was measuring at 8 weeks and 1 day so they think the baby died a week ago. I am going to have a D&C tomorrow at the hospital with my OB. They said they will do some tests on the baby's tissue to see if they can identify the cause of the miscarriage, and that will take about a month. I am in shock right now and sad. I appreciate all of your support, and I do hope to come back to JBP at some point in the near future. I wish you all the best and very happy and healthy pregnancies.
 
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JGator, words cannot even express how heartbroken I am for you and your DH. I'm sure nothing I can say right now will make you feel better, but just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so very sorry.
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss, JCGator. :blackeye: I was really hoping your AM appt would bring some reassurance. I had a similar experience in June (baby died at 9 wks 1 day, loss of symptoms prior), so I can imagine how you must be feeling right now. ;( :(sad Please take whatever time you need to grieve over this. It's a really sad thing for any woman to have to go through. :(( ((HUGE HUGS))
 
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Oh JGator honey, I am so so sorry about your loss! I was also hoping that your appointment would give you some peace. It seemed like everything was going so smoothly until this just happened. You and your DH are in my thoughts, and I really hope that you can take comfort in each other during this time. Take all the time you need to be sad! I hope the tests on the baby's tissue reveals some answers and show that you can continue on your TTC journey in the near future. Please check in when you can. We are all here for you!
 
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JGator- So sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your husband- please take care of yourself. Thinking of you.
 
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JGator -- I'm so very very sorry about this. Lots of hugs to you. This kind of news is always so difficult, shocking, and heartwrenching.
 
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Oh no JGator I am SO SO sorry to hear this ;( I was praying for good news. Please know that we are all thinking about you while you are going through this.
 
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JGator, I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
 
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Oh no JGator...I'm so sorry for your loss.
 
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JGator, I'm so so sorry for your loss and that you're going through this. Try and remain hopeful, despite the despair you are feeling. Thinking of you lots.
 
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Also, it's good to know I'm not alone today, JGator. I just found out my betas dropped. 144 last week, 130 yesterday. I'm only 4 or 5 weeks. Dr says most likely a mc and small miniscule chance of lab error. No bleeding yet, I'm just waiting. This is a terrible feeling :((
 
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Meg, so sorry your betas went down. I'm hoping it's a lab error. Are you going to get re-tested, or just wait it out? It must feel terrible to be in limbo. Dust to you!
 
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Thanks to everyone who replied. All of your responses do make a difference, and it means a lot to me that you all care so much. I have not told my family yet. We do not live close by so it's going to be a hard call, but I think my mother needs to know as she is religious and she has been hinting and asking me so many questions lately. My sister just had her 5th baby last week, and it looks like her baby was born right around the time that mine died. I hope my sister's great fertility rubs off on me on our next attempt.

Meg, I am so sorry - I hope this is just a lab error for you. I am not bleeding either - nothing since last night's spotting. Very surreal. I am sending sticky dust to you.
 
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Meg and JGator I'm so very sorry. ;( I wish I had some great words of comfort and wisdom, or could give you both a real hug. Take care and be kind to yourselves.
 
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Also, it's good to know I'm not alone today, JGator. I just found out my betas dropped. 144 last week, 130 yesterday. I'm only 4 or 5 weeks. Dr says most likely a mc and small miniscule chance of lab error. No bleeding yet, I'm just waiting. This is a terrible feeling :((
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Jgator, sorry to hear your sad news. Unfortunately, I know just how hard these things can be. Trust in the fact that you will get pregnant again and when you meet that baby you will know that they were worth the wait. Hugs to you lady.

Megumic, I am also sorry to hear your betas have dropped. Are you getting another beta drawn? Hoping that it will start to rise again for you. Thinking positive thoughts for you.
 
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Meg - So sorry to hear about your news too :(sad I hope you will have your beta retested and it goes up this time. I am thinking of you also!
 
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JGator, I'm so, so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart breaks for you.

Meg, same to you. Emotionally I don't think it's necessarily any easier when it's an early loss and I'm just very sorry.

Hugs to both of you.
 
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Oh, JGator, I am so sorry :(( I hasn't gotten a chance to respond to your first post, but I was so hoping for good news today. I hope everything goes smoothly for you tomorrow and that you will heal quickly. I also had a M/C my first pregnancy, and it was so hard telling my mom when I never got to share my good news in the first place. Hugs to you.

And Meg, my M/C was early too, but it doesn't make it any easier. I am hoping for the best for you, but if it should be the worst, we are all here for you. I'll be thinking of you.
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss Meg. My heart breaks for both of you.
Crossing fingers for a good beta test for you.
 
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Meg, so sorry to hear of your bad results. I'm thinking of you.
 
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JGator, thinking of you today.

Meg -- I am so very sorry. Hugs to you, dear lady.
 
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JGator~ I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it's very unreal, strange, and heartbreaking now. But know that it will get better. Hugs to you.

Meg~ I'm praying for a lab error for you. Waiting is so hard. Hugs to you.
 
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Thinking of you today, JGator. I know it will be a difficult day for you. I too hope that your sister's fertility rubs off on you when you are ready to try again. And when that time comes, we'll all be there to support you in the TTC thread.

Megumic, I'm so sorry to hear of your news too. Please keep us posted on what you learn.
 
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Megumic- So sorry to hear this news. :nono: Hugs.

JGator- Thinking of you today.
 
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JGator, thinking of you today too. Hugs, my friend. Be nice to yourself today. I'm really sorry, and I hope your sister's fertility rubs off on you. :)

Meg, do keep us updated. are you getting more betas drawn? Hugs and thoughts to you too.
 
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Thanks all for your kind words and thoughts. I'm having bloodwork tomorrow, and Dr will call with results Friday (my birthday :(sad )

I don't feel pregnant anymore and I've had some light spotting, so I'm pretty sure this is just not my time. I'm devastated beyond measure. First it was the surprise pregnancy and now this. Emotional rollercoaster is an understatement. I'm so so sad and crying a lot. I am trying to remain grateful though. At least I now know I can get pregnant. And I'm sure I won't be the only of one my friends to experience this, I just happen to be the first. I know I'll be thankful for this experience if I ever have to help friends or family go through this in the future. I really appreciate the support.
 
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Hi, everyone. Thank you all so much for your prayers, kind words, and support. I had the procedure done today at the hospital. All of the nurses were very sympathetic and kind. I was completely knocked out by an anesthesiologist, and she even said my job is to make sure you don't remember any of this day. My husband is the strong, silent type, but underneath he is very sensitive (he cried at our wedding and not me). He had tears in his eyes whenever the nurses would say how sorry they were for us today. When I called my mom last night she stared crying and got me crying. She wants me to name the baby and everything - but I don't think I can do that. I am glad she knows and my sister and best friend also know now. And, my husband wants us to go see a RE since we tried for 6 months before conceiving this time which was my first pregnancy. I think I feel good knowing we have a plan going forward, and I do feel like I will get pregnant again and that baby is out there and meant to be ours.

Meg, still pulling for you. Let us know when you get some news. Hugs to you my dear.
 
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