JUST FOR FUN! How did you meet your SO?

[mimzy]

Date: 6/7/2008 8:31:40 AM
Author: Lauren8211

Date: 6/6/2008 8:04:36 PM

Author: IloveAsschers13

Lauren and Headofver heels I am in MI too!

I was thinking Traverse City for my someday wedding... so gorgeous. I met my boyfriend when I was a freshman in HS. I was friends with his best friend and i always watched him from afar... ha I stared at him from my lockers all the time! HA well anyways I knew he was the one (I know, I know, cliche) but we had a class together sophomore year and then we finally became friends.. we started dating the summer before Junior year in HS and now it''s the summer before our Junior year in college! We are moving in together in 2 months exactly!

Traverse City is absolutely STUNNING! I would LOVE to get married out there. I''m leaning towards St Johns in Plymouth


http://www.stjohnsgolfconference.com/weddings.html


SO beautiful.

Just don''t tell SO, yet. Have to let him think he has some input, right?

st. john''s IS beautiful, but beaucoup $$$$. start saving now! my sister and her FI considered getting married there.

 

[princesss]

Oooh, fun! I'll play.

We had Intro to Philosophy together, and I thought he was the most obnoxious person I'd ever come across (yeah, no stories of love at first sight from this corner of the internet). He was constantly asking really complicated questions right before the end of class, or posing really complex questions I couldn't understand. And he would do this at least once a class. Not a good way to start freshman year.

Apparently we had some mutual friends, because he says we met at a poker game in our dorm. I don't remember meeting him, as I was studying the poker game for an anthropology class, so a bit of our friendship is a total mystery to me. All I remember is hating him and then suddenly hanging out with him ALL THE TIME. Seriously. We became best friends, and considered each other our "brother" or "sister". We would stay up late into the night, talking to each other about everything. We were each other's go-to person for relationship problems (and oh, boy, did I have some!). The guy I was dating at the time AND my ex warned me against him and said any number of nasty things. Somehow I knew they weren't true (and given how convincing the ex was, I'm impressed) and didn't pay much attention.

As winter break came up, we both went home, and continued to talk to each other about once a day (which was a rather impressive feat, as home for me is about half a world away from where home is for him). He helped me realize how miserable I was with the guy I was dating, and, as my "big brother", told me that if I didn't break up with him within 2 weeks of getting back to school, he would do it for me. I guess what cemented the end of the relationship was when I was happier to see my (current) BF than I was to see the guy I was dating after a month apart.

About 3 days after breaking up with the guy I was dating, we realized we had feelings for each other. I know that him convincing me to break up with the guy makes it seem like he'd always had a crush on me, but it's really not true. The feelings came as quite the unsettling surprise to both of us, and it took us a while to figure out what we wanted. I had to figure things out with both exes, and I went to visit the older ex (as in, not the one I had just been dating). I got to his house and realized all I wanted was to be back at school with (current) BF. As soon as I got back, I ran to his room and told him the ex and I were completely and totally over. He looked at me and said, "Well, I guess we'll end up dating sooner or later." I was terrified that he didn't want me anymore, but figured I'd arranged everything to be with him, so I ought to give it a shot. I said, "Could it be sooner?" and the rest is history.

And that is the condensed version of how we got together.

 

[blackpolkadot]

I''ve been a lurker for a while, but I thought I''d share my story.

I had just moved 8 hours away from home to go to school. I was busy getting used to my new surroundings and finding a church. Unfortunately, finding a church proved to be tough, but my brother, who goes to school 3 hours away from me, asked me to go on a college retreat with his church. I agreed and went knowing only my brother, his girlfriend, and one other person. My FF was also there. We were even in small groups together, but I never really noticed him. However, he noticed me so during free time he offered to play cards with me and the people I had met (though HE tells me this part, I really don''t remember that part.) The retreat ends and I go back to school. I get on Facebook and add all my new friends I met the previous weekend, including FF. He randomly pokes me (the same as winking on dating sites). I message him and told him "I am not just any girl." And he doesn''t need to poke me. I guess I had him hooked because we began messaging everyday, and he finally got the courage to ask for me AIM name, then for my phone number. We talked for hours about everything. 3 weeks after we met, he drove 3 hours to take me on our first date! And the rest is history. After being in an LDR for 2 years, we are finally going to live in the same city in August!

 

[meresal]

Oooh fun... I loved reading all of these stories. I have had the worst day, and this thread of love was just the right prescription!!

FF and I met my first weekend in college. He was the roomate/fraternity brother of a guy friend I knew from high school that had already been at the school for a year. The night we met we sat in a booth and talked for almost 2 hours. The next night we watched Super Troopers (yes, it had JUST come out on dvd... 2002) We dated for a good 2 months and I had already "fallen". however, the girl he had a crush on for the previous year, decided she wanted to date him now, so I got the boot. I saw him MANY times, and he was always met with a VERY mature middle finger or my back as I walked the other way. (Yes, I've grown up, LOL)
At the end of the Spring 03 semester, my soro and his frat had a mixer, he fell down the stairs right in front of me, and I couldn't hold back my uncontrollable laughter. The first thing I said to him since we stopped dating, was to ask if he was hurt, and his response was "Just my pride!!!". We talked the rest of the night. He was still dating the other girl and continued to for another 2 years, but in that time we became best friends. He, admittedly, started to have romantic feelings for me by summer of 05. I was going thru a bad break-up and then so did he, and this is when we really bonded. We talked endlessly about the things we never wanted a relationship to be like again. Well, he graduated fall of 05, and we hung out a few times when he would come in town before I gratuated summer of 06. He desperatley wanted me to find a job in Houston, but I chose to stay close to home in Dallas. Well, 2 weeks after taking my job in Oct 06, he came up for the Hosuton/Cowboys game and asked me to go. We had an amazing time, and we realized how much we missed having eachother in our lives. At the end of the 3rd quarter, when he had to leave to meet his plane, we decided that we wanted to be together!! He picked me up, spun me around, kissed me... and then he was off. And the icing on the cake... His old roomate and my friend from high school, was there at the game with us!! We both love telling the story, if you can't tell.

9 months later I left my company and moved to Houston, and we just recently signed our second 12 month lease!! I'm so unbelievably happy!!

 

[jcrow]

we met at a wedding.
i was the maid of honor and he was the best man.

and i''m totally NOT making this up! hehe.

 

[carabella]

Met my husband at work....he was my boss. After our first date, I quickly started looking for a new job, mostly because I knew I really liked him and that either way it went it would get awkward fast. Got a new job about three months later and we got engaged about two months after that. Fast tracked it and never looked back. Sometimes you just know and it just all falls into place!

 

[tessari]

The very first time we met, he had just gotten accepted to my school and was doing a campus tour. One of my friends was showing him around the dorm and I lived in a double-suite and he asked to see what it looked like. I said NO. I couldn''t let him see my room bc it looked like the tasmanian devil had just ripped through it. I was embarrassed. Later he told me he almost went to a different school bc he was scared that everyone at my school was as mean as me. During his first year, we met again at a party and really hit it off--and dated for a month or so but nothing serious came out of it bc neither one of us wanted a relationship and I didn''t even like him that much. Then after summer, during his second year he asked me out on a date, we slowly realized we wanted to be exclusive and we''ve been together ever since.

 

[hairgirl95]

I love these stories! Heres ours:

I gave him a haircut! He randomly roamed into my salon one day as a walk-in appointment in June 2002. We got to talking and realized he worked with my sisters husband. I should mention I was married at the time too. So, he became a client of mine. I went back to college in the fall, and he was in one of my classes. So our friendship just took off. Later that winter, I found out that my ex was having an affair, so I moved out and filed for divorce. I began spending more time with my "client" because I just kinda liked him a little more than as a friend!

We started dating around christmas of 2003, and married in 2005! As our friendship grew we realized that we grew up about 40 miles from each other, had 2 common friends who got married in the late 90''s and we were actually at the same WEDDING and never knew it! If only I had met him that night......would have saved me a LOT of pain and grief! He''s the only client I ever dated--and I always wonder what would have happened if I hadn''t cut his hair that day. I would have missed out on a lot of fun!

 

[GoingCrazy29]

I love this

He was my best friend! I was dating his friend for 2 years and I met my SO when I was 20. He was dating another girl and we became best friends (which is so nice because we have so many joint friends from before we were even dating!). I broke up with my boyfriend around the same time he broke up with his GF and we remained friends for a year before we started dating. Of course, we talked to my ex (who I kept a friendship with), and he said he was fine with it. We''ve been dating over 3 years! I love that I fell in love with my best friend and he''s still my best friend!

 

[lliang_chi]

My FI works for my sister. We met MOOONTHS before we started going out. She got in a fight with her BF at the time, and instead of going to a mutual coworker''s board game party with him she brought me along. It was winter because I remember it was snowing really hard. What started out as trivial pursuit quickly went to a Kings game. That''s when he and his friend walked in and started playing. So the first night we met, James traded pants with another guy, and I kissed all the girls at the party. Interesting night...

 

[ash313]

We "technically" have known each other since we were little kids.

His mother was my third grade teacher, and I knew she had a son my age, but he went to a different school. He would come into our class on occasion when he had a day off or something, so I just knew him as Mrs. __''s son.

Fast forward to high school - we went to the same one. Hung out in the same crowd, just good friends, though.

Junior year on New Year''s Eve, he tells me that he''s had a "crush" on me since freshman year, and suggests we start dating. I thought it was adorable, and, since I was in high school, of course had to "consult" with all my girlfriends about this new proposition. Sooo 16 years old. So I decided dating him would be a good idea, so I did. Wow, how silly in retrospect!

We dated until we were in undergrad (went to the same one, lived in the same dorm!) then broke up junior year for almost two years (mutually, we needed time apart). Did not speak to or see each other that whole time.

Then, we randomly saw each other at a bar in the city where we attended undergrad and struck up a conversation. We ended up catching up until the wee hours of the night, and marveled at how different our lives were, and how much more compatible we seemed to each other.

We moved in together 2.5 years ago and are close to being engaged! Definitely before year''s end...

 

[trillionaire]

The short story is that we met in college, we lived across the hall from each other in the dorms frosh year, became friends, and started dating at the end of junior year. We''re almost at year 5 now!

I ask him all the time, "where did I find you, and why didn''t I leave you there?"

hehe. Love that man!

 

[Mannequin]

I met my FF online, too. I always joke that I was the highest bidder on eBay, lol! I met him on Match.com last summer. We had each entered a search radius of 50 miles, and we lived almost exactly that distance from each other here in mid-Michigan. Like, if he had lived one street over or a few houses down, or if I had bought a condo in the next building over, we never would have met! Crazy!

We met for a dinner date at the end of June last summer, and hit it off well enough to plan for a second date. He later told me that I was always his first choice when he saw me on the site - he was instantly smitten with my profile pics and info and wanted to snap me up in the worst way. We became an official couple at the end of July, and now almost a year later, we just moved in together and are planning to be engaged within the next year if possible.

 

[Booper717]

I met my SO in highschool. (9th grade for me) (we''re 22 and almost 24 now) we where introduced at a Highschool football game by a mutual friend. Funny thing is I remember thinking he was really cute, but shortly after we both ended up with diffrent people. However we became great friends and stayed that way. I remember always going to him when my boyfriend at the time was mean to me, and always running to see him when I went to the grocery store (he worked there for a cpl years in highschool) and I remeber my old boyfriend would get soooo upset because I''d be so excited to see him, haha. After highschool we lost touch when i moved (just 45 min away)


*Fast forward about 6 mo* one day I was at my parents with a diffrent bf of mine and he was driving down the road and happened to see me so he pulled over with his new gf''s to say "hi" and then we where in contact again. A little after that I ended up getting my own home close to my paretents so he and I began hanging out (with other friends) for another year... then all of a sudden I developed this crush on him after having a dream about us being together (meanwhile I still had a bf

) And then shortly after it just happened and we got together and couldn''t be happier!!

Sometimes we talk about the past, about us just being friends, and think how irionic it was. We both realize now that we always felt something towards one another because we where always there for each other and always so excited to be around each other, but at the time we didn''t see it. It kinda makes me sad because I think, darn, If only I would have seen it we could have had all those extra years to be with each other, but then I realize maybe the time just wasn''t right then, since we where so young. Prehaps we had to go threw the relationships we had prior to each other to learn how to appricate something great when we once we found it

And then I feel better!!


Sorry so long, I got excited telling our story!!

 

[ringless]

In high school our Sophomore year through a mutual friend.

We were friends until our Junior year summer, when we went to the beach and I kissed him! We have been together for almost 7 years now...

 

[pickles]

My story sounds quite similar to others, and to think this whole time, I felt bad about meeting him at a bar!

I was visiting a friend out of town, and we went to a local bar. We ran into a guy friend of hers from highschool, and my now BF, T. was with him.
My friend had never met T. before, and you know how guys are, not that great at introducing, so we never got to meet formally.
Anyhoooow, T. kept looking over our way, and I obviously was looking back, so after a few drinks I noticed he was drinking some weird totally girlie drink. I asked the bartender what it was and then ordered myself one, and told the bartender to send one to him too..
That was it, he came over to thank me for the drink, and we spent the rest of the night together..
That''s pretty much it!

 

[alli_esq]

Date: 7/2/2008 1:44:14 PM
Author: pickles
My story sounds quite similar to others, and to think this whole time, I felt bad about meeting him at a bar!

haha! not only did I "get together" with my FI at an OPEN bar, but he actually PROPOSED to me IN a bar!

Okay, see if you can follow this (it''s weird): my best friend (a guy) has a brother. That brother is married to my FI''s sister. That''s how I met him. We hung out a few times with everyone over the years...and I was my best friend''s date to his brother''s wedding...and FI just really hit it off and have been dating ever since--that was almost 3 years ago

It''s funny because I knew FI''s family long before I knew him, and when I met his father at FI''s sister''s bridal shower (before I had ever really hung out with FI), his father asked FI why he couldn''t date a "girl like [me]" hahaha...I always remind him of that.

 

[choro72]

hairgirl95, Wow, I''ve ready all the posts here, but yours stood out to me as fate!

 

[SparkleSparkle]

We met on match.com. I had the free profile and was getting e-mails from guys that were just not my type. I had asked for aged 35-45 professionals who were looking for a relationship and I was getting e-mails from 60-year-old bikers who wanted a fling. When I got his e-mail, something in my gut told me I''d be sorry if I didn''t spend the money for the membership and answer him. For once, my gut wasn''t wrong!

I don''t think I could put it any better than he did in an e-mail to his brother.

[The subject was "Most... incredible... date... ever"]

We met on match.com. We''ve spent the past week and a half chatting on email and on the phone, and it''s been amazing. I never knew I could get such incredible feelings before even meeting someone! We talked about everything, having fun with every little bit we said. If we put our emails for the week in a book, it would run around 100 pages right now. Our creativity really meshes incredibly well.

We had been talking about kissing quite a bit (which felt unusually comfortable; we''re both very honest and upfront about what we''re thinking, which really attracted us like mad from the start.) I asked her what the most romantic kiss was that she could imagine, and she immediately thought about a scene from The Princess Diaries II, where they are standing beneath a tree near a foggy lake and kiss. One of the times we were on the phone, she said "quick, turn on Encore", and that scene was on; it was very sweet.

We made plans for Sunday for lunch, and then a hunt to find a perfect tree for a perfect first kiss. But as Sunday approached, we both really got overwhelmed by anticipation. She hinted in an email yesterday about turning time forward so I asked her to dinner last night.

We went to a nice little Japanese restaurant near where she lives, and then to Dave & Buster''s to shoot some pool. There were so many times during the game that we''d approach each other as if to give a quick kiss, like we''d been doing it for ages, and had to stop ourselves, because we wanted that first kiss to be perfect.

Around 11p we decided to go on a tree hunt. In the wind and rain. I suggested driving down the George Washington parkway (along the Potomac) and
checking the various scenic overlooks. We drove for a while and turned around at the airport. Shortly after, we saw the little Lady Bird Johnson park, next to the Navy Memorial along the Potomac, and pulled off.

The trees, especially a large willow, were bending fiercely in the wind, and the rain was pounding down. We got out of the car with my umbrella, and walked over near a large willow (which helped block the wind and rain a wee bit, but not much.)

We stood there looking across the Potomac, in the fog, wind and rain, beneath that tree. The monuments were eerily gorgeous in the fog and rain, vague, glowing white shapes.

We kissed.

Over the next hour and a half, we were sure we''d be blown into the Potomac as we stood there kissing. The incredible wind gusts (there was a hurricane - Ernesto) pounded the umbrella and us, pelting us with rain. The umbrella helped keep the top halves of us dry, and I was on the wind-facing side, so my legs took the brunt of the rain, but we still both got rather wet.

We finally decided to take shelter in my car, where we resumed lip lock, goofy grins, and lots of giggles until 4:30a.

Wow.

I''ve never even thought about planning a first kiss before. We''re both very much into sappy, sweet, romantic gestures, but this was off the charts, and the most incredible date experience I''ve ever had. I''m sure most people would think it was totally insane (though if there had been lightning we wouldn''t have), but I love the fact that she thought it was a cool idea, and even more that she actually did it with me. ("It" being the kissing, mind you... Keep that mind out of the gutter, this is all sweet sappy goofy grinny romantic stuff now!)

So far it really feels like an incredible fit (and our noses like each other too), one of those "it doesn''t feel like we''ve only known each other a week"
things.

You should see the grin on my face.

We''ve been together for 22 months now and I have never been happier! He moved in with me 7 months ago

 

[jessfitz75]

My BF and I met SPEED DATING! I had been on myspace, match and eharmony and wasn''t having any luck, My co-worker dared me to try to speed dating so I took him up on it.

The event took place at a club and was sponsored by Ford so there were 20 Ford Focus cars lined up in the parking lot. There I sat in the back of a Ford Focus and I went on 17 3-minute dates that night. They gave you a card for you to write the guys'' names down and then circle yes or no if you would see them again. My BF was the only one out of 17 that i wasn''t sure of. Fortunately, we reconnected at the club later that same night otherwise I would have left and figured if he wasn''t a yes, than he must have been a no. That was 2.5 years ago!

 

[hairgirl95]

Awww Choro--thanks! I kinda think so too! I love our story!

 

[TheOptimist]

I want to play!

I met my SO at a Cubs game. My friend was his roommate at the time. She had brought him for our mutual friend, who was also going to be at the game, since rumor had it he was into tall blondes (which I am not). There was a quite a bit of traffic on the way to the game and we got stuck sitting in the backseat together. I was going through a painful breakup at the time. My ex actually ended up showing up at the game and sat next to us. Anyways, we really connected and joked all the way to the game. We mentioned that we were both on Myspace. After having a good time with him at the game, I couldn''t stop thinking about him. I thought he wasn''t interested but I went ahead and found him on my friend''s page. I messaged him and said that since he hasn''t requested to be my friend yet, I would request him. One day I went over to his apartment that he shared with my friend. He was on his way out to see a movie with a friend. I didn''t think much of it but the next thing I knew he said he couldn''t get a hold of her and that we should go to the movies instead. The rest was history.

He never even considered my tall blonde friend . It''s
a true Chicago love story!

 

[Lynnie]

Awwww... totally cute stories, everyone!!

True Story: I slept in my FI''s bed before I ever laid eyes on him!

I was 17, and my girlfirend "G" was dating FI''s brother "B" at the time. "B" and FI''s parents were away for the weekend, so "B" wanted to party it up at his house. So "G" and I lied to our parents and told them we were gonna sleep over at each other''s houses (aren''t teenagers BAD?). FI, who was too "cool" for his little brother and HIS friends, was over his then-girlfriend''s house. Anyhoo, after LOTS of beer (which I can''t even stand to drink anymore), I was getting ready to find myself a nice spot on the floor to crash for the night. "B" says, "sleep in my brother''s bed. If he comes home and sees a girl asleep on the floor while his bed is empty, he''ll KILL me. You don''t know my brother. Women ALWAYS come first around here". OK, fine. I crashed in FI''s bed, woke up in the morning and left, seeing my (now) FI asleep on the floor (I didn''t get a good look at him at all). The next few weekends, we all end up hanging out together, FI broke up with his then-girlfriend, and the rest is history! 13 days till our 9-year anniversary, 9 months and 12 days till our WEDDING

 

[Missy0483]

We met on myspace! I didn''t realize it was so common until now! We started talking back and forth on IM on January 2, 2007. We then found out that we had a mutual friend, I graduated with him in high school and BF went to college with him (How crazy is that!!!) So we decided to meet 2 days later at a bar (we live about 30 minutes away from each other) and he was sooo nervous that he had to beg our mutual friend to be there also in case it was weird for the both of us. It was pretty comfortable so the friend left us alone. We talked for hours....when we finally looked up the bar was cleared, just the two of us left there at 1am! We left...gave each other a hug and as we were walking away we both turned back to look at each other at the same time! That''s when I knew it was meant to be....even before we had our first kiss! Now here we are a year and a half later and never been happier!!!

 

[Guilty Pleasure]

We met the summer after my sophomore year in college when we were both orientation leaders. I thought he was one of the cutest guys in the orientation program, but he never said anything to me, and I was dating a few guys that summer, so I didn''t think anything of it. Fast forward a year and a half later, a few months before graduation, and he bets a mutual friend and his girlfriend five dollars that I don''t know who he is. The guy was his roommate, and the girl was in my sorority. The girl asks me if I know who he is, and I said yes... didn''t he date so and so last year? Then he bets them double or nothing that I wouldn''t go on a date with him! She told me about the bet, so I went up to him at one of the college bars that weekend and flirted a little. He said, "I hear that I should ask for your number." I said, "Maybe you should..." and grinned. So he asked for my number, and that''s how we started dating

 

[jcarlylew]

my Bf and i worked together at a catering company for a couple years before we "got together." I remember the first day i saw him i was like "oh dang!" but shortly after learned that he had a gf so pretty much he was off limits and in the back of my mind (faaarrr back) so we became friends. Well, once him and his gf started going on the outs, he was over at my apt (shared apt with another coworker) all the time, but i knew that him and his gf were off and on so i still didnt think of him "that way". Jump forward to the summer time and we all went to a river to go floating. he took off his shirt, and i kid you not the heavens heard my "oh damn!". yep. didnt realize he was hot too!
So once we (all) stated hanging out more, he was over almost every friday. It soon became "Wine night" and i would call him up on friday asking him which wine i should grab (or vise versa). well aparently (since i am dense) he liked me a whole bunch and kept on trying to get closer (staying ALL DAY the next day to watch movies, comenting on my looks). Finally one night after doing the "sit on the couch, ooh is his hand close to mine...should i grab it?....im going to grab it....oh...wait...maybe not?" we finally went at it.

romantic? not really? would i have it any other way? never!

Since then we''ve pretty much have been inseprable.

 

[purelily]

last post of procrastination.....


I was in a really bad relationship. Things just weren't working out well, and my friends and parents were concerned. One night my friend told me ___, you know... you have to figure things out for yourself. If you are going to marry him then things in this relationship have to change. why dont you write a 100 list? I asked her... What is a 100 list? and she replied that it is a list where you write down a 100 qualities you want in a man. She stated that so long as I prayed for those things on the list either the man i was engaged to would start to retain the qualities or, if he just couldn't, I would find someone with those qualities. I doubted her for a really long time, but one day I wrote it down. I wrote down 150 qualities. even the embarassing qualities that i wanted. I chanted ( I'm buddhist) for two hours a day that the man I was engaged to would eventually fit the list or that i would find the man who did (and that we would be engaged or talking of being engaged within 6 months of meeting) After 8 months of chanting on this list, my friends convinced me it was time to leave my relationship. That there was nothing more I could do to fix it and I was sinking deeper into depression.

I joined eharmony to check out my personality profile. I was sort of embarassed that I would resort to such a thing. but I had gained 30lbs in 2 months because i was so depressed and I felt extremely unattractive. So, I joined eharmony without a picture. I wasn't going to respond to anyone in the matches until my mom came into the room and asked what I was doing. She went through my matches and picked out a guy. She said here. this guy looks interesting. I said no way mom he's far away. She said eh.. not like youre looking for a relationship anyway.

So, I signed up for eharmony and emailed him. I told him I wasn't interested in a relationship at that time ( he later told me that was a total turn off for him and had thought of not talking to me). But we talked for a month before I realized i was sort of interested. i told my coworker about him. She told me girl... if you do not go up to meet this guy THIS WEEKEND I will smack you! He sounds perfect! I told her I dont know about that... because he 's more than 200 miles away. She said you will find a way.

Finally, I convinced my whole family we should drive 200 miles for the weekend. We did. i called him and asked if he wanted dinner. He did. We met and were totally hitting it off and THEN he told me that he had a date with another girl in two days. I was surprised he would tell me that. So I said that's fine, but i'm just letting you know I'm only interested in a relationship that may end in marriage ( I was tired of dead end relatioships that lasted years and never came to anything). So, dont bother calling if you dont want the same thing. the date lasted 8 hours! The next morning i thought he wouldn't call but he did and said he wanted to hang out with me and my parents.

Ever since that day we have been inseparable. I think it was fate that I finally found my soulmate. If i hadn't have gone on eharmony and come up on that weekend on THAT DAY we would never have met. Oh yah... He ditched the date

AND! he fits all 150 qualities on my hundred list no kidding!!