Need to vent......S pi***d me off last night

[TravelingGal]

Hey DG, I hope this week goes better. And some of the stuff your BF said made me laugh...I hope that''s not offensive to you and that you over it (you seem so). He just seems sarcastic and up my alley. But hopefully he understands that he was hurtful to you.

And the LIWs are fortunate that a lot of us old timers don''t post as much here anymore. We use to do a lot of serious headsmacking.

 

[sugarjo]

DreamGirl,
Hang in there!!!! I''m sure everything will work out...
Also, my FI and I fought constantly over really stupid stuff the few weeks before we got engaged.... Maybe he''s super distracted by something and it''s making him cranky...(shinny perhaps?)
I haven''t forgot about the pictures I told you I have of the pines, I''m just trying to find them... They are on a CD somewhere... As soon as I find them, I''ll post some for you!!!
Hugs.

 

[Dreamgirl]

Hi everyone! Thanks again for all the support and love you have sent my way! It made me feel much better. I've read all the responses. Thank you so much again!

Things are going well today and last night...S said he was sorry (which I knew he was. I made a bigger deal out of it than what it was.) And you know what he did? He got 2 videos from the library we watched last night about...................DIAMONDS

. Funny thing is, I think it was LAST week he had gotten a video about diamonds that he surprised me with. And now 2 MORE!!!!!

OOOO is someone interested in something?!

It sure got me to thinking about a lot of stuff too (which I will post later!)

I think I tend to sometimes be a drama queen. (As I'm sure you've noticed...

) So sometimes I blow things out of proportion and figure a great way to vent is to come on here and type away as fast as my little fingers will go. Guess I ought to make more POSITIVE threads about S other than negative ones. Though, I'm sure I'll still post the negative threads as well. He and I are both incredibly sarcastic and I guess sometimes that's hard to show in typed words.

I really do appreciate the support I get here on PS. That's why I post here so often! I think it's a great community and I appologize for getting so snappy yesterday. I think with all the stress.......it sort of felt good to let it all out so to speak.

***HUGS***

 

[LaraOnline]

I''m glad you''re feeling better!
So tell us about the videos then... I''m intrigued!!

 

[aliciagirl]

DG, I''m glad you''re feeling better!

Your post made me laugh a little bit because something similar happened with my FI and I a long time ago. I was telling a story he thought was really lame, so at the end he said something like, "And then you found 20 dollars?" Because that would have made my story actually interesting.

So our thing since then has been to ask the other if they found 20 dollars at the end of every long, lame story. It hurt my feelings the first time he said it but now it''s just to be snarky and sarcastic, but not in a mean way.

I like reading your posts and I think most of them are very positive about your SO. Don''t worry so much about posting about your venting. Its good to get it out of your system.

 

[Smurfysmiles]

that''s too funny
i tend to say that at the end of long winded stories too haha
havent had to use it on fi yet though, hes pretty blunt which makes me pretty happy

 

[chocolatefudge]

Hi DreamGirl, haven''t been around for a few days but glad you are feeling better. I agree that I don''t think any of the ladies on here were trying to upset you and had your best interests at heart HOWEVER I also understand how you feel.
As another member who has been with her boyfriend for a substantial amount of time I have had comments from othe ladies questioning my relationship. That is mostly my fault as I usually post to vent about not being close to getting engaged or my boyfriend telling me he isn''t ready. The thing is, we love each other dearly and have a fantastic time, but I would never just start a thread to tell someone about that. Therefore, most of my threads show my boyfriend in a negative light.
I suppose to other people, being together for such a long time and him not being ready to marry me sounds quite bad when in reality he''s just a little slow!

It will happen for us DreamGirl when the time is right.