b.anna
Shiny_Rock
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Date: 6/10/2009 6:57:07 PM
Author: mysterylover
Why does a wedding need to be a huge endeavor with tons of guests, mountains of decisions, and months of planning?
Oh yeah. Because the media (books, magazines, tv, etc.) and our peers say so.
No, I would not be ''engaged'' for four years.
Yes, I would get married sooner and with much less fuss than you are imagining.
People used to get married with just days notice during GI furloughs in WWII, for instance. It can be done. It has been done.
hey mystery, i agree with what you''re saying. we''re not looking at spending tens of thousands of dollars and having everything extravagant and fancy and perfect. that''s not real life at all. we really want to include our families and close friends. we both have very large families (him on his mother''s side, mine on my father''s) and everyone has been very supportive of us even when things weren''t going well, so including family in our wedding is definitely important to both of us. we''re both pretty simple people, and like i said earlier, if we''re going to do it, we want to do it right.
just as an update, my maid of honors (my two blood sisters) were so enthusiastic and willing to jump in to help! so a summer 2010 wedding is definitely possible. B wants to see how my application process goes before setting a final date for our wedding. i definitely feel much better about being able to plan the wedding with the help my sisters offered me, as well as all the advice everyone has given me! you''ve definitely fed some motivation, confidence, adn ability in me
