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@canuk-gal I'll have what he is having!
Missy, I am sorry your heart wrenching decisions and challenges continue. I am sending you, Greg and the kitties mega dust to get this horrid ringworm behind you. I am glad my hugs help, sending you more right now. It’s good you are keeping your sense of humor; that can always help in rough times. Thank you for your comforting words of wisdom; the sadness we have does mean we miss someone who really brightened our life. I told Marty tonight it makes me feel good to know my friend’s family keeps in touch with me; I know her mom always tells me being around me is like giving her back a piece of Connie. Marty realized this weekend kind of kicked his butt when he was lifting today. He said all those pounds were more difficult than normal. He was at Lowes a while ago looking for more stuff. Woo hoo to hitting over 4K miles. And now I want ice cream.
Oh @missy, what an awful situation to be in. I always think you can tell when they’re ready by their eyes and the way they look at you as if to say “It’s ok Mum, you can let me go”. Until then, keep doing what you’re doing for Fred, there’s always a chance that he’ll rally and start to improve. It’s easy to second guess yourself, was it too soon, was it soon enough, but you’ll know in your heart when he’s ready. Until then, hope for the best and prepare for the worst. I wish there was something, anything, that I could do to help, other than sending you love and strength to deal with this. I’m glad you’re able to get out and enjoy your cycling, I do think in these situation that just being outside helps to bring some balance back to your life. Wow to hitting over 4000 miles with everything that’s been going on this summer.
@missy Sheesh! What an ordeal. I’m incredibly sorry you are struggling so. The pain of watching your babies go through this...how are your and Greg’s spots doing? I hope you enjoyed a nice birthday and hope things get easier with each passing week. And this too shall pass, they say. Looking back on the what if’s do you no good and will cause angst, so try to look froward to a successful treatment of this. Hope you can ride a lot this week. Going to be awesome out there.
Thank you all for your words of encouragement. I am doing what I told @missy not to do. Going back over and over things from a year past and wondering where I could have gone in a different direction and saved myself from this. But alas, what good does it do but make me sad and angry. I have three more weeks of summer vacation I have gotten a lot of maintenance health things done this summer that had been put off so I can return without all of the appts lingering. I do feel that this anger and sadness is taking its toll on any joy I might have. It’s times like these where we really miss our moms....I am hoping that this wrap thing works and I am massaging and manipulating it too. I do not relish the idea of another procedure.
DS’s wedding is seven weeks away so I have to get myself together for them and for my students. Get. It. Together. @Slick1
@missy, I’m sorry Fred isn’t doing well and know his is so hard for both you and Greg. Does he seem worse to you than he did a week ago Saturday? Since Debbie is back in town can she examine Fred and give you her opinion? I hope Fred begins to improve quickly. I’m sorry this summer has been so hard. I’m glad you have been able to get out and cycle.
Maybe I have news - or so I'd think, if I'd dare think!
Hope your appt goes well today @missy xxx
Missy, sorry to hear Fred isn't eating again. I hope he got something down today. How did you endocrinologist appointment go today? I would totally love a front row seat for the tree lighting. I could stand the crowds if I didn't have far to go to return to my room. Yes, we do have to spend money to make money. The first light bill showed up and he has enough money in his checking account to pay for it. Score!!! Sweet picture of Fred.
Marty was home for supper so grilled us some dead animal and veggies. I went down and lifted a little while ago and Marty watched. He was proud of me; he said my form for pressing was the best of anyone he is coaching right now. Sweet. We are trying something different on dead lifts for me to hopefully lesson pulling my hamstrings and work my quads more. If this can keep me from having my right knee replaced it's well worth it.
I've been circling NIRDI not knowing what to say! I get to stay here for the foreseable future, which is what I wanted. I have a grant to keep doing my work quite on my own terms. The only difference between this and Heaven is time - I need to be thinking of what comes next, if not today ,)
The 'jungle' is almost gone - just some tree prunning left, which I think I can do too; I am in the mood for taking big things down!
@missy I don't think I could do what you are doing ,(
Hi NIRDI’s!
Kate, good luck with getting things going on selling your house. Marty did go see a doctor about his back and the doctor thinks its muscular and rehab will eventually fix it. All the lifting and moving things for his gym really set him back for a while though. His gym does look nice. Thank you for your thoughts on loss, I know you understand. We get through it and carry on and treasure our all too brief time with those we love. Congratulations for closing tomorrow on the lot you are buying. I am not sure how to find you on Instagram; maybe you can tag me by finding me in Missy’s friends on there? I would love to see your pictures.
Thanks for liking the silly Killer Rabbit picture. I wish lifting would help my knees more but any slight improvement helps.
I picked up tacos for supper and plan on practicing my program for the astronomy meeting tomorrow night. It’s on galaxies.
Take care.
Marcy
I've been circling NIRDI not knowing what to say! I get to stay here for the foreseable future, which is what I wanted. I have a grant to keep doing my work quite on my own terms. The only difference between this and Heaven is time - I need to be thinking of what comes next, if not today ,)
The 'jungle' is almost gone - just some tree prunning left, which I think I can do too; I am in the mood for taking big things down!
@missy I don't think I could do what you are doing ,(