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OMG!!! I''M REALLY ENGAGED!!!

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sk8rjen

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EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! OK, I just HAD to get that out of my system first! It happened this afternoon around 4:30 and it was a TOTAL surprise! It had been a rather emotional day b/c I knew it wouldn''t happen yesterday, but we went out and had a great time last night anway, and this morning I was sad that he didn''t have a surprise to wake me up with. (we had discussed the party at his family''s house that was this evening and he knew how I felt about going without being engaged) We went out for breakfast after he FINALLY got out of bed and then went to pick up the boys. We took them to the park and when we came home I just wanted to lay down for a minute. He layed down with me and cuddled for a while and then turned me around and told me he wanted to go to Hot Springs in 2 weeks and was planning on doing it then. It made me sad and I couldn''t help but wonder why we couldn''t have gone THIS weekend. I just nodded my head and decided to go outside and work on a sudoku (my FAVORITE puzzles, butalso my favorite way to get my mind out of stuff) and I told him I wanted to be alone for a minute. Everything had been really sweet since we''d gotten home and I just wanted to compose myself. He came outside a few minutes later and just watched me for a while. Then I told him I felt so bad that I hurt about this at all. He bent down in front of me and told me he loved me and I told him "I Love you too, baby" and then he said he was sorry. Well, hearing him say that made me tear up a bit again (I thought it was great that he apologized for ME feeling badly even though it wasn''t really his fault -- he just doesn''t usually say he''s sorry too much anyway). I told him I just didn''t want to think for a few minutes and went back to working my sudoku. Then he tells me (standing up in front of me at this point) that he loves me (again!) and then says "and I DO want to spend the rest of my life with you" Well, I''m still thinking we are in conversation mode and I''m like " I know you do, I just hoped it would start sooner" and then he says "It CAN start sooner." So now he has my full attention and I''m like "huh??" and he starts to slide the ring on my finger (didn''t see this as I was looking up at him the whole time) and he asks "will you marry me?"

Well, I''m still in "huh?" mode -- kind of dumbfounded at this point and he adds "for real." And I just smiled (you''ve never seen anyone go from tears to smiles so fast!) and I stand up and hug and kiss him and we just hold each other for what seemed like SO long and I finally remembered to say yes!

He told me that he''d been waiting all day for me to go work on a puzzle (he knows how I am about associating things and it being something I''d do again and again) and each time I''d been outside today I was reading a magazine... then he told me he didn''t plan on doing it in Hot Springs, but figured we could have that weekend to celebrate
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I remember a long time ago him saying that I wouldn''t be all dressed up when he proposed, and I thought how is that possible? Every time we''ve left the house together for anything lately I''ve been trying to look quite nice (even the gym!) so I thought I had that covered. Well, he was right --- I''d changed into sweats and a t-shirt when we got home from the park!

Tonight was the birthday party with his family, so we got to go celebrate IMMEDIATELY and that was just the most fun at a family get-together I''ve ever had!!!!

I took pictures and I am on my crappy laptop, so I may not be able to get them up tonight, but hopefully will by tomorrow!

Oh yeah, the ring is GORGEOUS!!!! I just never dreamed I''d own anything this big and beautiful, but it''s funny because I didn''t look at the ring when he was proposing and it wasn''t until well after hugging and kissing that I actually looked and it about knocked me down! The best compliment came from his uncle who looked at it, congratulated us and then said how much it sparkles -- "that is a *really* well cut diamond"!

Stats: pear center, 1.05 carats,
I, SI1, VG/G ideal cut
surrounded by a diagonal halo (can see diamonds from top and side)
on a full eternity band
custom made by ERD

Pics ASAP, I promise!!!!!!

jen
 
Congratulations Jen!!!!!!
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WOOHOO! Sounds like a wonderful proposal & a beautiful ring!

Hope you''re enjoying your new-found happiness... you''re done waiting!!!!

I guess volunteering to manage the list sped up your wait : )

Which leads me to volunteer to be ''keeper of the list.'' I''m only half kidding here, but seriously, as soon as you signed on for the job... it happened! Too coincidental !!!
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ooooh!!!! I can hardly believe it myself!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am sooo happy for you!!!! And it totally happened before the 24th, just like you said!!! I'm glad he still got the chance to suprise you though!! I'm excited to see your pictures.

I'm so flabbergasted. I was just dinking around and then I got this fabulous news!! Congratulations again on your ENGAGEMENT!!!

Ha,ha, now you'll have to take yourself off the list!

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Good point Aussiegirl ... hmmm.....
 
EEEK! Yay, Jen! I am SURE you must be giddy all over. Post rong photos soon!

p.s. I adore Sudoku puzzles too!
 
Squeeee!!
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I'll come back when I've finished reading, but the title alone makes me squee!

Wow, jen! I am so happy for you!! Congrats! That is the most marvelous news-- I've been keeping up with all the trials you two have been through lately, and I am so happy that things have finally worked out!

That's so sweet-- the puzzle, the sweats and t-shirt, the works. I'm so happy for you!
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Yay, congratulations! You''ll never do another Sudoku without smiling, ever again! I really like that he was trying to make something so special out of an ordinary day.
 
YIPEE!!! Congratulations!!!! Yay for you being suprised!!!
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Can''t wait to see hand pics!
 
Congratulations!! It''s great that you were so surprised!! I can''t wait to see pics!
 
Congrats Jen! I am so happy for you!!
 
Oh my goodness! Yay! I saw your title and I squealed. Yay! I didn''t even finish reading all of it because I was so excited I just had to post my "Yay" for my Jen friend. Girl, I am SO happy it has happened. I would say it''s really cute and precious, but I have to go back and read it first! I got to the bit about the hot springs and then I couldn''t wait anymore to say YAY YAY YAY!

OOh, I wanna see pictures of this thing that''s been hiding in a box, taunting you for what, over a month now???

Ooh, please please!

I''m happy for you, in case you can''t tell! I almost have to pee! *I''m gonna be in a world of trouble with my bladder when my time comes!!*

EEEK!
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Aww, did he choose to wait until you were working on a Sudoko (I LOVE THOSE, too and I get just as nuts with them, by the way) so you''d remember that moment every time you work on them? How flipping cute!

Yay! I have little happy tearlets stuck in my eyes. Yay!!

And to get to celebrate right after, how wonderful!

Are your boys all happy excited, too?

Yay!!

And again, whoo hoo Yay!!
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Sk8t!! Yay!!! I am so so so excited for you, and I can''t wait to see your masterpiece! I snuck the laptop into bed while fiance is in the shower, and I''m soooo glad I did!! I''m glad everything is working out great for you all!
 
CONGRATULATIONS!! I''m so happy for you and can''t wait to see your ring
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woohoo!!!!! Im so happy for you-I was really hoping there would be an Im engaged post from you this morning. I cant wait to see the pics and congratulations!
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Yay congratulations!!! That''s so sweet that he did it in a way that will make you think of it often. What a sweet guy
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. I can''t wait to see this ring!!!
 
yay!!!! congrats!
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I love Sudoku too
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What a sweet proposal - and so nice that you got to celebrate right away!

Now show us some pictures!
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The whole time reading your story I got goosebumps and got all teary!!!!!
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What a sweet story!!!!!
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I wish you the best and hope you get all the happiness and love you''ve always dreamt of!!!!

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I''m very happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*Hugs* from your PS friend,

M~
 
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! SOOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!
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And now every time I do a sudoku (which is a LOT) IIII''m going to get all giggly thinking of your proposal!!! YAYYYY!!!!!
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YAY!!!! I''m so happy for you!!! And I love that it was just in time for the party, and even better... that Sudoku moment is priceless! I''m with Albi on this, now every time I do one, I''m going to think of YOU! And I have a long train commute, so I do them most days! I''m so thrilled for you Jen! All the trials and difficulties were worth it now and you have your precious fiance as well as the ring that I can''t WAIT to see!!!!
 
Congratulations!!! How exciting! That''s a great story. I cannot wait to see some pics!
 
WOW! I log on to find a zillion congrats and it just gets me grinning all over again! I really don''t know how I''d ever have gotten through that wait without you all, so thank you!

Well, since I''m on the laptop, I had to find the software for my camera (THAT was loads of fun since it wasn''t where it was supposed to be!) and get everything installed. The pics from yesterday did not turn out well, so I''m going to go re-attempt some ring pics, but for now here is a pic of the very happy couple yesterday at the birthday party (definitely not a good pic of us, but given the occasion, I thought I''d post it) Hand shots soon, I promise!

Oh, and one more thing, last night at the party, Matt''s cousin''n FFIL showed up and he introduced me as Matt''s fiance
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Getting to hear that right away was sooooo happy!
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(Sorry I''m being such a total cheeseball right now)
jen

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OK, there was one other pic from last night that turned out somewhat ok, so here it is. Seriously, I''m going outside right now to go try some pics head-on, so more to follow.
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Beautiful!!!
You look SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Helllooo Gorgeousss! Congrats Jen!! Beautiful ring and you two red heads are adorable!
 
Yay!!!! Huge congrats to you & your FI, Jen!
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That was such a sweet proposal & I''m glad you got to celebrate your engagement at the party. You guys look so happy & your ring looks gorgeous. Can''t wait to see more pics!
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Thanks M and caligal -- it''s funny that you called him a redhead b/c he has red in his facial hair, but a very blondish/lt brown color to his actual hair -- I think we''ll probably have a red-headed baby someday though
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(2 of my 3 boys are redheads)

Speaking of which, I forgot to answer fisher -- we came inside right after the proposal and pried the boys away from video games for half a minute to tell them the news
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Anyway, they were SOOOOOO excited. Gabe (my oldest) said my ring looked like it was more than 2 carats! (he''s been hanging out on pricescope with me sometimes) Gotta love that kid
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OK, so are you ready for a barrage of pics??? Is there such thingas too many??? Here we go -- let''s see if any of these work...
 
Close-up...

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Another close-up with sparkle on the other side
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Sort-of side shot...

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WHOOOOAAAAA THAT RING IS SOOOO PERFECT!!!!!!
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And you two look soooo cute and happy in that picture!!!!!! Keep the pictures coming!!!!!
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And congratulations again!!!!! EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
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