Mara
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We had beer, wine and soft drinks at our wedding...but we didn''t have to worry about anyone coming just for the booze..hehee.
I think that Beer and Wine is fine for weddings, most of what I have been to that is what they serve. If the places has it already setup for a cash bar, then I don''t think it''s TACKY because sometimes people just absolutely WON''T drink Beer or Wine (aka me) and would rather have a mixed drink or something and pay for it. I don''t expect my friends throwing the wedding to spring for my funky girly mixed drink just because I don''t like beer or wine.
I also don''t like drink tickets for most of the reasons mentioned...that seems tackier to me than having a cash alcohol bar. I don''t think guests should have to pay for Beer and Wine but anything other than that is fair game.
Lastly I think alot of it has to do with your audience/guests. Are you young with alot of fraternity brothers to drink you out of house and home? Then worry about the cost and plan appropriately (aka maybe more beer than wine!). But if you are older with not alot of heavy drinkers OR people who have very distinguished tastes, then you can kind of ''predict'' what to expect at your wedding and I love the idea of doing a drink named after the bride and groom or similar...esp for older crowds who appreciate something like that. In that case I''d do Beer and Wine and the ''custom drink'' and that''s it...no cash bar. Just my thoughts!
I think that Beer and Wine is fine for weddings, most of what I have been to that is what they serve. If the places has it already setup for a cash bar, then I don''t think it''s TACKY because sometimes people just absolutely WON''T drink Beer or Wine (aka me) and would rather have a mixed drink or something and pay for it. I don''t expect my friends throwing the wedding to spring for my funky girly mixed drink just because I don''t like beer or wine.

I also don''t like drink tickets for most of the reasons mentioned...that seems tackier to me than having a cash alcohol bar. I don''t think guests should have to pay for Beer and Wine but anything other than that is fair game.
Lastly I think alot of it has to do with your audience/guests. Are you young with alot of fraternity brothers to drink you out of house and home? Then worry about the cost and plan appropriately (aka maybe more beer than wine!). But if you are older with not alot of heavy drinkers OR people who have very distinguished tastes, then you can kind of ''predict'' what to expect at your wedding and I love the idea of doing a drink named after the bride and groom or similar...esp for older crowds who appreciate something like that. In that case I''d do Beer and Wine and the ''custom drink'' and that''s it...no cash bar. Just my thoughts!