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Brilliant_Rock
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Date: 8/7/2009 9:59:16 AM
Author: decodelighted
I don''t buy his answer because he''s actually drawn MORE attention to it by CHANGING the status. It''ll show up in people''s feeds or ''other stuff'' areas TWICE now, in addition to whenever he put ''Engaged''. It really could look like you broke up or called off the engagement.
Is he having mixed feelings about the engagement? It can be normal to have mixed feelings. It happens to gals too --- YAY we''re getting married! Wait, I''m losing my freedom, things will be different. You can want something & not want something at the same time. Period of adjustment.
Does worry me though that he''s more concerned with what random non-invited status friends think that what YOU FEEL. Perhaps you can explain that further & maybe he''ll ''get it''.
OMG good point.