fieryred33143
Ideal_Rock
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MP-
He''s perfect!! I hope the transition back to work goes well for you. It is so hard. One day at a time. What time is M going to bed?
Mara-Sounds a lot like what S went through but during her 3rd month. She was waking up multiple times at night and we were figuring out the swaddling. Hope the sleep gets back to normal soon! I''m ok, thanks for asking!
Socal-Glad the baptism went well, boo to bil
Amber-how old is P again? Did you figure out what''s the cause? Do you have a white noise machine by chance?
Has anyone seen FLSteph? Or am I missing an update. Hope you guys are doing well
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Two things:
1. Birthday
Thanks for the comments on the invite and b-day dress! I''m in full on b-day planning mode
. I was kind of bummed because I didn''t want to do a ''thing'' and it has turned into a big ''thing.''
BUT
My boss and I were chatting yesterday about the plan for next fiscal year (which starts in July) and he asked if I was planning on doing the usual holidays off (we were putting together the projects schedule). I said yes and asked if I would be able to use my vacation days that I have not used this fiscal year some time in July/August. Each department can handle vacation days as they see fit but as a company policy, vacation days do not rollforward. He said sure and then asked how many I had left. I told him I haven''t taken any days at all this year.
He looked at me like this
and then sent me a long email later on in the day about how he felt horrible for not noticing that I had not taken vacation and that I need the days to spend with Sophia. So he gave me permission to to take the week of Sophia''s birthday off
. I still have another week left after that but I''ll use it in August.
Anyway, now that I have her birthday off I''m going to do my lsmall/calm/cozy b-day celebration with just the three of us
. That makes me a lot more excited for her birthday party
OH and MP, I got her dress off of Etsy. I
Etsy. The invite is from there too.
And 2. I''m off the meds. I took myself off which probably wasn''t a smart thing to do but I started to tell myself that if I just change my attitude about stuff, then maybe I''ll feel less anxious. I still have my moments but for the most part I don''t feel as paranoid as I did before. I''m not checking her 15 times before bed and I''m not getting up at all overnight to check on her anymore. I think that maybe it has to do with her not feeling like a baby baby anymore (she''ll always be my baby though).
Mara-Sounds a lot like what S went through but during her 3rd month. She was waking up multiple times at night and we were figuring out the swaddling. Hope the sleep gets back to normal soon! I''m ok, thanks for asking!
Socal-Glad the baptism went well, boo to bil
Amber-how old is P again? Did you figure out what''s the cause? Do you have a white noise machine by chance?
Has anyone seen FLSteph? Or am I missing an update. Hope you guys are doing well
****
Two things:
1. Birthday
Thanks for the comments on the invite and b-day dress! I''m in full on b-day planning mode
BUT
My boss and I were chatting yesterday about the plan for next fiscal year (which starts in July) and he asked if I was planning on doing the usual holidays off (we were putting together the projects schedule). I said yes and asked if I would be able to use my vacation days that I have not used this fiscal year some time in July/August. Each department can handle vacation days as they see fit but as a company policy, vacation days do not rollforward. He said sure and then asked how many I had left. I told him I haven''t taken any days at all this year.
He looked at me like this
Anyway, now that I have her birthday off I''m going to do my lsmall/calm/cozy b-day celebration with just the three of us
OH and MP, I got her dress off of Etsy. I
And 2. I''m off the meds. I took myself off which probably wasn''t a smart thing to do but I started to tell myself that if I just change my attitude about stuff, then maybe I''ll feel less anxious. I still have my moments but for the most part I don''t feel as paranoid as I did before. I''m not checking her 15 times before bed and I''m not getting up at all overnight to check on her anymore. I think that maybe it has to do with her not feeling like a baby baby anymore (she''ll always be my baby though).