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@AGBF I am SO sorry this happened to you. See my avatar? I have one cavalier king charles spaniel (who are very much like little golden retrievers) and my Rhonda (the brown one). Rhonda is a rescue, who I've had since she was 5 weeks old or something - NOTHING has ever happened to her, but she is still nuts. She's aggressive on a leash toward other dogs, and she is weird when people come to the house - she barks like a lunatic for about 5-10 minutes before she will settle down and accept that someone has invaded her territory. Rhonda is AFRAID, not MEAN - but people don't understand that, and she LOOKS scary. I wouldn't mess with her if I didn't know her.
Walking her is stressful, be we do it regularly because I don't have a fenced yard (or any yard at all). She cannot be vaccinated because she has an autoimmune form of Meningitis called GME, so I'm constantly terrified that if another dog comes near and it even looks like she might bite (which she wouldn't) I'd have to put her down. So we keep to ourselves, and I generally tell other dog owners that she's not friendly. A woman who has a golden retriever, and hasn't had this type of personal experience with a rescue will NOT understand your life....period. And what a shame that is....FOR HER. I've learned more humanity, compassion, and love from Rhonda than I ever have from any human being. I am totally over trying to explain Rhonda to people - I know what she is and that is enough for me.
I read an incredible article about this once - I'll try to go find it for you. Hero is a lucky boy to have landed in your home AGBF, and your neighbor is a jerk. Big hugs.
Violet, Rhonda, and Brodie
EDIT: here's the article for you https://dogstodaymagazine.co.uk/201...SfFKYWyF0Cw2H38itG02yvgUGa5iKZ3Uo-TDEHDZMHPI0
EDIT again: I called your neighbor a jerk, not for being angry with you, but for screaming and slamming the door in your face. "Say what you mean & mean what you say, but don't say it mean" is one of my favorite sayings. That lady needs a little lesson in compassion.
Walking her is stressful, be we do it regularly because I don't have a fenced yard (or any yard at all). She cannot be vaccinated because she has an autoimmune form of Meningitis called GME, so I'm constantly terrified that if another dog comes near and it even looks like she might bite (which she wouldn't) I'd have to put her down. So we keep to ourselves, and I generally tell other dog owners that she's not friendly. A woman who has a golden retriever, and hasn't had this type of personal experience with a rescue will NOT understand your life....period. And what a shame that is....FOR HER. I've learned more humanity, compassion, and love from Rhonda than I ever have from any human being. I am totally over trying to explain Rhonda to people - I know what she is and that is enough for me.
I read an incredible article about this once - I'll try to go find it for you. Hero is a lucky boy to have landed in your home AGBF, and your neighbor is a jerk. Big hugs.
Violet, Rhonda, and Brodie
EDIT: here's the article for you https://dogstodaymagazine.co.uk/201...SfFKYWyF0Cw2H38itG02yvgUGa5iKZ3Uo-TDEHDZMHPI0
EDIT again: I called your neighbor a jerk, not for being angry with you, but for screaming and slamming the door in your face. "Say what you mean & mean what you say, but don't say it mean" is one of my favorite sayings. That lady needs a little lesson in compassion.
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