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Just a thought, fellow size ho. I looked at a stone at wf that was a higher clarity 9.6mm and I could easily see a difference in my 9.7mm stone. No way, not going down in size. Don't do it!
You have eagle eyes or this is a mind clean issue.
A 0.10mm difference is the thickness of a sheet of copy paper. Could you tell side by side, maybe. Would you even notice if someone didn't tell you or you had 24 hours between viewings? Very doubtful. It's not a "OMG, it's so much bigger" experience.
0.10mm = 1 / 256th of an inch
Most rulers go down to 1/16th, maybe 1/32nd if you are lucky. We are talking fractions of an inch.
@sledge I realize that you don’t wear a diamond (I think) that you stare into all the time, all the day, so I don’t really expect for you to get it. You can analyse it all day long and come with a 1000 hypothetical calculations, but what @Gussie said is 100% true for many of us. I changed my diamond about a year ago and the new one is less than 0.1mm smaller, I see the difference sometimes. I am very happy, but the difference is there.
I think you've hit the nail on the head... I'm very happy with my stone, but then there's the thought, "...hmmm, what if I had a super ideal cut stone?? Wouldn't that be cool?!" And then the wheels start a-turnin'! LOL Thanks for the added perspective!
As always, @MissGotRocks knows exactly the right words to sayYour current diamond is very pretty but if you ever decide to change things up a bit, I think I would try to sell it and just start again. A recut for your stone would net more loss than I think you are willing to deal with. Strange as it sounds, you might tolerate a new diamond at a lesser carat weight than recutting the one you have to a lesser carat weight - know what I mean? And if you go with a great vendor, you can upgrade through the years - that's always something exciting to look forward to as funds or occasions come along!
Bwahahaha....ummm, "who is Sir Mix-a-Lot, Baby Got Back for $1 million".
On a more serious note, I am not certain this will be more cost effective than trading in for a different stone. Given the proportions of the existing stone, I think you will lose quite a bit of carat weight which will reduce net worth of the stone, after the re-cut. Not to mention the cost of the re-cut and risk associated with it.
Before I made a decision I would talk with both BGD and CBI and learn about the re-cutting costs, and also what they anticipate the final weight to be. Then I'd go price a XXX in that size range with ideal proportions to see the price. Then use the formula below (with made-up numbers for reference) to tally your total loss:
- ($25k initial purchase - $15k new purchase of smaller stone) = $10k loss + $3k recut = $13k loss total
- $13k loss / $25k initial purchase = 0.52, or 52% loss of initial value
In this example, if you were able to sell your stone for 48% of the initial purchase price, you'd end up at the same spot:
- $25k initial purchase * 0.48 = $12k available to buy a new stone
But if you were patient, and waited for the right buyer, maybe you could yield 75% instead:
- $25k initial purchase * 0.75 = $18.75k
Again, the numbers above are made-up. I don't know what you paid, but you can run the math and figure out where the equilibrium is for making such a decision. I'm sure at some point it makes sense, but I could see you easily creeping to a point where it doesn't make sense.
It wouldn't be less for me to trade up, as I'd have to do so with Diamonds Direct... finding this one took some time, and they let me know in no uncertain terms that as soon as I have about $8-10K to spend, don't bother. I guess they have to make money too, but dang! The cost of the recut would be approximately $500/ct.
My whole thought process was, "...oh, cool! For $1700, I can have a super ideal cut stone that's close to the same size as mine now!!"
This is what I'm saying...!
@sledge I realize that you don’t wear a diamond (I think) that you stare into all the time, all the day, so I don’t really expect for you to get it. You can analyse it all day long and come with a 1000 hypothetical calculations, but what @Gussie said is 100% true for many of us. I changed my diamond about a year ago and the new one is less than 0.1mm smaller, I see the difference sometimes. I am very happy, but the difference is there.
Your current diamond is very pretty but if you ever decide to change things up a bit, I think I would try to sell it and just start again. A recut for your stone would net more loss than I think you are willing to deal with. Strange as it sounds, you might tolerate a new diamond at a lesser carat weight than recutting the one you have to a lesser carat weight - know what I mean? And if you go with a great vendor, you can upgrade through the years - that's always something exciting to look forward to as funds or occasions come along!
That's a very good question... I feel like I would likely have to get Caysie to make a new setting.![]()
It wouldn't be less for me to trade up, as I'd have to do so with Diamonds Direct... finding this one took some time, and they let me know in no uncertain terms that as soon as I have about $8-10K to spend, don't bother. I guess they have to make money too, but dang! The cost of the recut would be approximately $500/ct.
My whole thought process was, "...oh, cool! For $1700, I can have a super ideal cut stone that's close to the same size as mine now!!"
So maybe then, there's your answer: The size is more important that the perfection of the cut. I went from a 3.29ct., 9.59mm down to a 2.01ct, 8.01mm for a MUCH nicer diamond and I have not looked back. Do I notice it is smaller, yes, but every time I look down at it or it catches my eye in a mirror reflection I'm super happy I did it. So I sort of feel for you it could be the best of both worlds. I saw your comment re trade in... but you don't have to be beholden to the vendor you purchased from... you can go to another vendor and see what they will give you for your stone that you can use on a SI and, with a great upgrade policy, you could work your way back up to what you want your ultimate goal to be. Here's the good news: You have OPTIONS... including the one of just keeping the stone you have of which I don't know anyone who wouldn't love to have it![]()
Then consider the cost of a new setting in this equation as well. Have you seen a super ideal diamond side by side with your diamond? I guess that is the best way to gauge if the change in light return will be noticeable and worth it. The other thing is - what if during the recut they do not quite get it to super ideal - would that bother you?
That is a great idea! Msop, could you approach the super ideal vendors and see if they have interest in your diamond for trade in?
I don't want to discourage you or anyone, rather that means banging out the most size or recutting for max beauty.
Just remember, the cost for the recut isn't just $1,700. You also have to factor in the loss of value because of the reduction of carat weight.
For reference, a supa dupa idea and triple X with ideal proportions (although the 35/40.8 makes me nervous)...
Diamond | 3.183 ct I SI1 A CUT ABOVE® Hearts and Arrows Super Ideal Round Cut Loose Diamond AGS Certified | 4129363
This Whiteflash A CUT ABOVE® super ideal cut hearts and arrows 3.183 carat I color SI1 clarity loose diamond is graded by the American Gem Society (AGS) Laboratories. | 4129363www.whiteflash.com
And @SimoneDi, you are correct I don't wear a diamond every day. I am sure I'd be picky too if I did. Sorry if my comments to you or @Gussie came out as offensive, they were not meant that way. Just such a small sliver seems to not be memorable.
Great point. Awhile back I had talked to Wink about taking my wife's BGD in on trade. Then we had an unexpected death in the family that sucked up the upgrade money. Since then, the wife can't decide if she wants to part with the original stone or not. So we've put upgrading on pause indefinitely.
Just a quick note re the cost, you are forgetting the re-grading report which then will likely be AGS and those go for a little less than $300, also add insured shipping and you will be looking at $2k +/- I’d personally invest the difference into some nice side stones, if a 3 stone is something you still might want to entertain. I know that PS can be so addictive and “super-ideal” diamonds sound so special and enticing. They are pretty, no doubt, but so is yours. If you can compare a smaller sized super-ideal with similar specs to yours and then you know that you much prefer it over what you have, only then is when I will support a recut. Otherwise, you are really going into this blind and maybe setting yourself up for a disappointment. That’s just my 2c.It wouldn't be less for me to trade up, as I'd have to do so with Diamonds Direct... finding this one took some time, and they let me know in no uncertain terms that UNTIL I have about $8-10K to spend, don't bother. I guess they have to make money too, but dang! The cost of the recut would be approximately $500/ct.
My whole thought process was, "...oh, cool! For $1700, I can have a super ideal cut stone that's close to the same size as mine now!!"
Edit: "until" I have $8-10K...
Just a quick note re the cost, you are forgetting the re-grading report which then will likely be AGS and those go for a little less than $300, also add insured shipping and you will be looking at $2k +/- I’d personally invest the difference into some nice side stones, if a 3 stone is something you still might want to entertain. I know that PS can be so addictive and “super-ideal” diamonds sound so special and enticing. They are pretty, no doubt, but so is yours. If you can compare a smaller sized super-ideal with similar specs to yours and then you know that you much prefer it over what you have, only then is when I will support a recut. Otherwise, you are really going into this blind and maybe setting yourself up for a disappointment. That’s just my 2c.
So maybe then, there's your answer: The size is more important that the perfection of the cut. I went from a 3.29ct., 9.59mm down to a 2.01ct, 8.01mm for a MUCH nicer diamond and I have not looked back. Do I notice it is smaller, yes, but every time I look down at it or it catches my eye in a mirror reflection I'm super happy I did it. So I sort of feel for you it could be the best of both worlds. I saw your comment re trade in... but you don't have to be beholden to the vendor you purchased from... you can go to another vendor and see what they will give you for your stone that you can use on a SI and, with a great upgrade policy, you could work your way back up to what you want your ultimate goal to be. Here's the good news: You have OPTIONS... including the one of just keeping the stone you have of which I don't know anyone who wouldn't love to have it![]()
I think you are being sucked into what I consider to be the downside of PS... if your stone isn't the "model" version of the recommended ranges, one has a case of "proportion envy" lol! Just because it might not fall into what is espoused here to ring shoppers, doesn't mean it isn't a pretty stone. Remember what the GIA taught us (lol!): Many different combinations yield attractive diamonds.
The cost of the recut would be approximately $500/ct.