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@missy, I totally get it, hopefully there isn't a second wave.
However the schools will be opening up with all kinds of protocols, possibly half days or staggered days for students as well as masks. I'm not sure it's worth it to send the kids back even without another wave if they are only in school two full days a week, or if my six year old has to wear a mask all day. We are talking about schools that are not air conditioned with possibly stifling heat and five and six year olds with masks on, asthmatic kids wearing them, kids with other special needs etc.
I'm not against masks at all, we wear them whenever we go out but between the masks and possible major schedule changes AND the possibility (even if remote) of getting them to adjust to all of that and then having to pull them out.
I'm leaning towards it not even being worth trying in the fall considering all of that.
I cannot imagine having children and having to make this difficult decision. I feel for all the parents. I don't know what my sister will do but right now she says if schools open she is sending them. She has to go to work and so does her dh and they cannot leave them at home alone all day. I really feel for everyone in this situation.
I am hoping so hard that we don't experience a second and third wave of this.
My only advice is (and I know you are doing this already probably but it just bears repeating and I repeat it to myself every single day) one day at a time and one hour at a time when that gets to be overwhelming. So much is going on in the world and if it was just Covid 19 it would be difficult enough but with everything else sometimes I think can we make it? And then I realize we have no choice but to keep plugging away...when one is going through hell just keep on going.
Sending you lots of good wishes and sending everyone healthy vibes. And keep reminding ourselves that tomorrow will be a brighter and better day. Hopefully that tomorrow isn't too far off. And in the meantime one day, one hour at a time.