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@Drm1grl
First, congratulations on your career accomplishments and (perhaps even more important) you lovely DH who is on-board with your diamond goals. That’s so rare and special!
I absolutely love your new ring but (...and I’m being perfectly honest here which I hope you take as it is intended which is purely supportive) it is very similar to your magnificent 20-year old ring.
Now, I’m in the same boat.
I wanted to upgrade my e-ring which is a 2.64 H/SI1 MRB. I looked at a lot of stones and finally brought home an elongated cushion brilliant 3.09 carat F/SI2.
For awhile it looked just “very different” to what I was used to looking at for 18 years.
I was just about to say no to it but then I gave it more time.
It literally took my eye about a week to 10 days to accustom itself to seeing a different type of sparkle.
Now I am totally smitten. And I’m happy I did because now I have my MRB for days I feel like classic old-school sophistication (btw, it’s set exactly like your original ring with tapered baguettes) and I have my elongated cushion for days I feel like a big fat facet!
So.
Not to belabor but my (supportively intended) advice is to spend some time with other cuts.
You may find that your existing elegant EC is better than you thought and now your new (pear, marquise, OEC, radiant, etc) scratches that “other” itch.
Again. If you choose this EC it’s unmitigatedly gorgeous.
Please disregard all the above if any of it doesn’t serve you.
We are here as support and your new EC is drool-worthy!
Congratulations again.
Awesome advice! I took the ring back. It is just too similar and my heart belongs only to my original EC. My jeweler let me bring home this amazing cushion overnight. It is amazing (but likely more than I want to spend) - but I think a cushion with chunky sparkles may be in my future! Thank you for you excellent input!
Well! Having read the thread, I have to agree that your new EC is very similar to your engagement ring. This cushion is spectacular - sparkly and chunky.Awesome advice! I took the ring back. It is just too similar and my heart belongs only to my original EC. My jeweler let me bring home this amazing cushion overnight. It is amazing (but likely more than I want to spend) - but I think a cushion with chunky sparkles may be in my future! Thank you for you excellent input!
Awesome advice! I took the ring back. It is just too similar and my heart belongs only to my original EC. My jeweler let me bring home this amazing cushion overnight. It is amazing (but likely more than I want to spend) - but I think a cushion with chunky sparkles may be in my future! Thank you for you excellent input!