Sister issues - conclusion

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Date: 5/15/2007 4:01:59 PM
Author: nytemist
I''m so sorry that you have all this going on with her. It could be jealousy, envy or anger at something going on her life. Thing is, no one will know until she knows what''s bothering her. Until she knows that, she can''t explain it to anyone else. I''m not excusing her mean behavior at all, but there obivously is something she needs to sort out in her head.

I know you two were really close at one point. I know it hurst that''s this is happening. But you have to remember- it isn''t anything YOU did. Your moving into a new phase in your life. You worked hard to get where you are and you were fortunate to find a man that you want to share your life with. Celebrate all that you have to be happy about- don''t let anyone take that from you, or try to find a way to make you feel bad about it.

Hey nyt! She''s been doing a lot of progress... We had a long long talk yesterday. I''m very proud of her... I''ll tell more about it to you guys in a few days. Thanks for the support.

 

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Date: 5/15/2007 4:44:04 PM
Author: IndieJones
Umm... I may be totally off base here.. but reading this thread has made me wonder if your sister had been... hurt.. by a guy at some point in the past?

It depends what you mean by hurt. She''s never been molested or anything like that; and she''s never been in a serious relationship so crushed hopes of a ''happily ever after'' is also highly unlikely. However, she''s met 5 or 6 guys in the last three years who pretty much strung her along. Making her believe they could have a relationship only to change her mind, mostly because she''s not the kind of girl who''d sleep with a guy after a couple of dates... ya know. She even caught the last one sleeping with her friend. So... yeah.