Phdecorate
Shiny_Rock
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audball|1335279006|3179375 said:Great! I think October sounds like a winner then! What a sweet ideaPhdecorate|1335273482|3179310 said:Ok......so SO and I talked about this a bit last night. He said he really doesn't feel the need to share the wedding with anyone else, he likes the idea of just the two of us with my parents....a really nice dinner....and put the rest towards our honeymoon. It is a second marriage for both of us. He also thinks we should either get married in Sept and go away in Oct or do both in Oct. We usually take a vacation in Oct and he likes the idea of that always being an anniversary trip for us.
So back to the plans for four.....wedding on beach, followed by dinner somewhere? I started thinking, what about a boat, but what if that this too cool/windy/rough waters. B&B wedding and dinner following?
If it's just going to be you two and your parents, I'd think a really nice dinner would be lovely. I'm more hesitant about the B&B idea now if it's just the 4 of you though. Staying in the same (small) place could make for an awkward wedding night. And a lot of B&Bs include meals and you probably want something nicer than that for your wedding dinner.
You also said the weather in October is iffy. I'm not one to chance weather, so I'd probably try and find a venue where you can be married inside that is still beautiful.
Well, I can tell you if it was a B&B close by, my parents would drive home, my dad would be more comfortable, so no worries about that. Agree about the food though, have to check that out. There is a very cute small restaurant in a little town not far from here, one of those farm to table places and it is awesome. I wonder if I went with during the week if I could have the whole thing, even just for four. They have an upstairs, but again, harder for my dad to get up the steps.
Would it be weird to eat all dressed up in a wedding dress in the middle of others who may be in jeans? Yes, I know, it is what makes me comfortable, I am just trying to picture it!