chellebelle
Shiny_Rock
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- Jul 6, 2004
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Okay, so I finally have a moment to reply. Thank you for all of your responses. A lot of good points were brought up.
Dani~
So the Marisa dress would be considered an A line? I guess I never thought it was... I think the pickups threw me off.
I don't know what I thought it was? Oh and the Marisa dress is actually the heavier one between the two. It has more crinoline and though both dresses are made of silk, the Reem's fabric is lighter. I think I would definitely take some crinoline out from the Marisa if I go that route! It was pretty poofy!
labbielove~
Yeah, I don't think I'd be comfortable in the mermaid. Standing is one thing, but sitting down is another story! lol I never tried to sit while in that dress, but I don't know if I would've even been able to! Probably would've ripped or something!
I agree that the Marisa is like a blank canvas and I can do much more with it. Thanks!
Mara (and others who brought up the heat and heavy dress issue)~
Earlyish July in Washington isn't really hot. Sadly. I'm actually hoping that it won't rain for the outdoor ceremony.
The past couple years around that time has been overcast and in the 70's. I remember this past July 7th and the one before it (I've been engaged for awhile), I was thinking damnit be sunny! It didn't rain at all, thank goodness for that. I'm praying for sunshine but I don't want it to be too hot, so the 70's part doesn't bother me. I absolutely don't want to sweat! Glowing radiance is one thing, but I don't want the whole slick hair thing going on! Thanks for sharing that story, Mara! June is still rainy for us here and early July is kinda an iffy time. Ya never know if it's going to be nice or drizzly or whatever. Then later on, maybe mid-July and after it's freakin hot! I remember it was in the 100's and I felt so bad for people having outdoor weddings cause it was scorching. Our weather can be pretty unpredictable. I miss San Jose!
As far as the heavy dress, I mentioned it to Dani, but the Reem is lighter that the Marisa. Both are silk, but the Reem's fabric is so lightweight. The Marisa is noticably heavier, but I would definitely remove some of the built in crinoline. It's just too much. I sat down and the dress took up my chair and the chair next to me! I was kinda hoping to sit by my hubby on my wedding day.
Oh and you're so right about the trends... I won't let it dictate what I wear. I know there are certain things that I wouldn't wear that are TOO trendy (for me), but I kinda think the Marisa is classic in a way. It has the "pickups" that are trendy, but I actually think the skirt is more drapey than anything else... kinda like Cinderella or something? They're not severe, and I like the softness of it.
Oh and IslandDreams and Mara regarding the personality thing....
That's a good really good point. Hmmmm. I think that's the tough part.... I'm a little bit of everything. I'm a true girly girl... I love to shop, am into fashion and designer stuff (handbags, etc.), I love sparklies, but not anything that's overdone. Definitely not anything too gaudy. Or stuffy. I like trendy things since I love fashion, but am very classic. I know I'm not plain. I was trying to think of what I wear on a normal basis. I love a good pair of dressy jeans, heels, long tailored peacoat, maybe a long string of fun pearls. I wonder if the Reem is too princessy? Though I love to be treated like a princess
, it may be too regal? I dunno....
cara~
I thought that too. The dress is soo gorgeous (the Reem). But then I've been thinking does it suit me and my wedding vision... Sure the dress itself is amazing but I want it to fit. Something for me to think about.
decodelighted~
Ohhh this made me laugh! Off with her head! Believe me, no one wanted to see my head in the Reem pictures. Eeeek.
I plan on wearing my hair down with some up. Soft wavey curls. I'm also loving the loose low updos, but the tattoo thing again.... I'd have to try the tattoo makeup. I'm thinking of buying some and doing a test trial. Wear it for a day and see how much rubs off from clothes, hugging, etc. It would be fabulous if the makeup was unnoticeable and blended with my skin perfectly... then I could wear my hair however I want.
Gypsy~
I'm also worried about the Reem color, even if it looks good with my skin. It is very much a pale gold color, much darker than in the pictures, and I'm not sure if I want that.
njc~
I think I will try this with the Marisa dress. I know for sure that the Reem dress is lightweight (I know it doesn't look like it!). I'll see where I carry the weight on the Marisa dress.... good idea!
mercoledi~
Thanks for the no head comparison!
So funny! I see what you say about the drop waist now, the side by side really helps with that. The whole time I thought the Reem had a drop waist, and it does, but not as much as the Marisa. And the whole puckering issue could be a downfall of the beautiful Reem silk. The Marisa is silk also but it's more structured in a way, maybe it's just the bodice itself. I don't know how to explain it, but the Reem silk is very soft and didn't hold everything in and up like the Marisa. It's probably the construction of the bodices though... they're very different.
Anyways, I want to keep replying to everyone, I'm so grateful for everyone's input, but I have to get going for now. I could sit on PS all day if I didn't have anything else to do! Maybe I can convince a friend to go with me today and look at dresses. I know for sure I'm going twice next week, once with my best friend, and once with my mother. I know my mom will definitely have an opinion. She always does!
Dani~
So the Marisa dress would be considered an A line? I guess I never thought it was... I think the pickups threw me off.
labbielove~
Yeah, I don't think I'd be comfortable in the mermaid. Standing is one thing, but sitting down is another story! lol I never tried to sit while in that dress, but I don't know if I would've even been able to! Probably would've ripped or something!
Mara (and others who brought up the heat and heavy dress issue)~
Earlyish July in Washington isn't really hot. Sadly. I'm actually hoping that it won't rain for the outdoor ceremony.
Oh and you're so right about the trends... I won't let it dictate what I wear. I know there are certain things that I wouldn't wear that are TOO trendy (for me), but I kinda think the Marisa is classic in a way. It has the "pickups" that are trendy, but I actually think the skirt is more drapey than anything else... kinda like Cinderella or something? They're not severe, and I like the softness of it.
Oh and IslandDreams and Mara regarding the personality thing....
That's a good really good point. Hmmmm. I think that's the tough part.... I'm a little bit of everything. I'm a true girly girl... I love to shop, am into fashion and designer stuff (handbags, etc.), I love sparklies, but not anything that's overdone. Definitely not anything too gaudy. Or stuffy. I like trendy things since I love fashion, but am very classic. I know I'm not plain. I was trying to think of what I wear on a normal basis. I love a good pair of dressy jeans, heels, long tailored peacoat, maybe a long string of fun pearls. I wonder if the Reem is too princessy? Though I love to be treated like a princess
cara~
I thought that too. The dress is soo gorgeous (the Reem). But then I've been thinking does it suit me and my wedding vision... Sure the dress itself is amazing but I want it to fit. Something for me to think about.
decodelighted~
Ohhh this made me laugh! Off with her head! Believe me, no one wanted to see my head in the Reem pictures. Eeeek.
I plan on wearing my hair down with some up. Soft wavey curls. I'm also loving the loose low updos, but the tattoo thing again.... I'd have to try the tattoo makeup. I'm thinking of buying some and doing a test trial. Wear it for a day and see how much rubs off from clothes, hugging, etc. It would be fabulous if the makeup was unnoticeable and blended with my skin perfectly... then I could wear my hair however I want.
Gypsy~
I'm also worried about the Reem color, even if it looks good with my skin. It is very much a pale gold color, much darker than in the pictures, and I'm not sure if I want that.
njc~
I think I will try this with the Marisa dress. I know for sure that the Reem dress is lightweight (I know it doesn't look like it!). I'll see where I carry the weight on the Marisa dress.... good idea!
mercoledi~
Thanks for the no head comparison!
Anyways, I want to keep replying to everyone, I'm so grateful for everyone's input, but I have to get going for now. I could sit on PS all day if I didn't have anything else to do! Maybe I can convince a friend to go with me today and look at dresses. I know for sure I'm going twice next week, once with my best friend, and once with my mother. I know my mom will definitely have an opinion. She always does!