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What's the first thing that attracted you to your bf?

beesha77

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What's the first thing you noticed/were attracted to with your bf/fiance? Thought this would be fun!

For me it was that he was so open in dating me since i'm a widow, but his eyes (omg, why do the guys get the long eyelashes?!) and his height/build. he's 6'4 and I'm 5'11 and he could dance. Fabulous combo!! How about you?
 
His overall cheerful personality. He's not the typical guy I would have gone for, but I spent a lot of time with him after meeting him (we were both working as camp counselors) and his personality had me hooked! After getting to know him, I noticed he had an amazing body!
 
His eloquence, his silver hair and the way he moved on the dance floor. Really the thing that captured my hear was when I mentioned to him that the ladies room was out of toilet paper. "I keep spare rolls in the trunk!" he announced then dashed to the car and help me restock much to the surprise and appreciation of the gals in line. LOL. :)
 
Tall, dark hair, very slightly scruffy. Saw him from across the room and made it a point to join the game he was playing, for a year he thought I came over there for the game, and met him, when it was actually the other way around.
Then it turned out we had really similar academic interests which kept us talking all night. Nothing like a tall, dark, intelligent man who can hold a conversation!
 
I always went for the same type physically: black hair, dark tan, dark eyes. My boyfriend has green eyes, fair skin and light brown hair. When we first met years ago, I was in a relationship and so was he, so I didn't ever view him as a potential boyfriend. However, I was blown away by the fact that I had honestly never met anyone who was as considerate, caring or so genuinely interested in what makes the people around him tick.
When we got out of our relationships we started spending time together as friends and that's when I was just swept off my feet. We spoke til 3am every night and I just knew that this is exactly the type of guy I should be with.
I am now head over heels in love and have never been happier.
 
Tall dark & handsome...'nuff said!
 
His confidence and the way he carries himself.
 
Talll, dark & handsome. Now he is tall, gray & handsome.
 
You know I have no idea.

I noticed him the first time I saw him and I can even remember exactly what he looked like the first time I saw him.

There was just something about him that sparked my interest.

I don’t often find myself interested in guys at all. And so even now I am a bit shocked by the interest he sparked in me from the very beginning.

Of course there are a huge amount of things about him that I find overpoweringly attractive, but if you asked me to describe the perfect man for me both looks and personality wise, he is spot on.

I am very lucky.
 
His interest in tea.
 
The fact that he is bone-rattlingly, side-splittingly funny. Seriously, I was a mess every time I ran into him the first few times because all I could do was giggle. *ditz*
 
I would honestly have to say his personality. We talked for months online before we actually met (both of our first times ever meeting someone online too). We would chat for hours, so I really felt like I got to know him before we met. Our first date went late into the night, we just had so much to talk about. It was like finding a long lost friend that you had so much to catch up on, we just clicked I guess you can say. His tall manly physique was a close second though :cheeky:
 
His personality attracted me first and then when I saw a picture of him (we met through work but we were in different offices), I liked him even more. Perfect smile and beautiful baby blues.
 
His SMILE! :))

I remember setting my eyes on him for the first time, and loving his smile. It was so genuine, and to this day, no matter what, whether I'm in a good or bad mood, his smile always makes me smile!!

Here's a pic of us at his cousin's bday celebration, smiles galore lol :lol:

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we were good friends for years.... think since childhood. But what attracted me to him was his smile, humor, and great personality.
 
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