why can''t boys just figure things out on their own?

[daydream believer]

Hi Smurfy,

Sorry for jumping in after the fact (I''m still new and didn''t know how welcome my opinion would be). I am glad to hear that things are back to normal for you.

I do want to recommend "The 5 Love Languages" too. I''m not usually a "self-help" book kind of gal but it really helped me and my bf understand each other better. If this is even the slightest issue in your relationship, it could really help in the future.

That''s all from me but I''m very happy that you don''t have to live off of kool-aid and bread anymore

 

[LegacyGirl]

I feel like the horrible one here. I have no idea when our anny is... it was sometime in January 5 years ago that we met. I know out first date was during Bike Week in March but I have no idea when.

I know how you feel though. Sometimes I wish he was a little more romantic but I know that will never happen and I do see how he expresses his love for me in other ways and I wouldn''t trade that for the world. The ladies here have given some great advice, I promise the longer you are together the easier it will get. When I want something romantic I tell him exactly what I want. Is it ruined? No. I enjoy it just as much.

Good luck!

 

[CrookedRock]

I just wanted to say that I am glad that you worked things out. I really hope that the talk you had resignated with him, and that you truly expressed how you felt/feel.
Maybe when this isn''t so fresh for you, you''ll be able to come back and get something out of this thread, bc it really has some good advice in it. I have already bookemarked it in case I ever need a reference point to practice what I preach!

Happy things are back on track for you two Smurfy! Hugs!

 

[krisvrn]

Yes you are right to be upset but if he acts this way and it upsets you, let him know. If he doesn''t change and he doesn''t care enough to change then he is sooo not the one. Don''t let him treat you this way! U deserve better.