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Our job is to educate people and help them make the best decision for them, not for us. (the collective)
If someone wants a D, even if a G looks very white, let them but a D. If someone wants a clarity enhanced diamond and has gotten informed about them, let them buy that CE diamond. If someone cares about carat than anything else, let them but that small facing asscher. If someone wants a gia XXX that's 62.7% deep because they can't see the difference? By God let them have it. Like the Kenny's of the world say, people vary. As long as they are making an informed decision, let them make their decision.
I could not agree more.People are allowed to buy diamonds that don't meet the "ps approved" specs.
People are allowed to buy VG cut diamonds.
People are allowed to value other Cs over cut.
Cut is King is an opinion, not a fact.
10-12 years ago principals from three major diamond grading laboratories read Pricescope daily because of the rich engagement.
Maybe they are understood, but they're not accounted for. That's the crux Karl......Much of what we discussed and fought about is more or less settled science now instead of cutting edge. The debate centered around RB diamonds and honestly they are pretty well understood by now.
Touche' But I wouldn't change a thing. Communication styles differ. Some of us learn visually, some aurally, some kinesthetically. You know, I remember this character...some "strmrdr" weirdo (I pronounce that "STERM-urder" by the way)...who, as a consumer poster here, doggedly pursued the whys and wherefores of step-cut aesthetics and selection. Through obsessive participation, analysis, criticism and suggestion this one character radically shifted the way a dozen selling organizations fundamentally selected emeralds, asschers and other step cuts. That guy was not long-winded, but he fostered improvement and was a blessing to those looking for guidance. He was never "twitter-like" in his replies. He created awareness and change through ongoing discussion and education.edit: Sir John some of us have always not been long winded *grin*
Nail, meet hammer. Future readers will not benefit if the only replies in threads are marching orders. They benefit from the process of open dialogue and education. The end result is not nearly as important as the steps the journey takes.I'm glad I was told how it was, most of the info wasn't from my thread, but reading others. I needed to read the hard truths, repeatedly, to make an actual informed decisions vs the absolute rubbish I was being fed for the sake of a sale. I've ended up much better off.
Personally I'm grateful for the zeal offered about cut here.
In the UK I was initially offered an 'GIE' certificate 1.0ESi1. I was told there wasn't much difference between GIA and GIE, that getting one over the other was like a non branded T-Shirt and the other being a Ralph Lauren, they both did their task.
Then I had that diamond compared against an IGI 1.3HSI2. The GIE diamond was exactly the same colour, upside down and side by side. This was done to assure me H and E are identical, and there was no need to go with a higher colour (despite being different reporting labs).
I then came across PS after putting down a £2k non-refundable deposit with an HCA 5.3 (I thought it was refundable at the time due to misunderstanding). Following which was very tough to read about the dislike of >5HCA stones (despite me thinking the stone was beautiful), but the jewellers would tell me "don't be silly you really think you'll notice 1.2degrees here and there, or a few 10s of a % here or there', these people are crazy".
This is the kind of pressure and 'education' people get all over the world in many B&M stores. Without such a passion about the cut that's found here, it would be taken with a pinch of salt against what is fed to many consumers.
I was only presented the stone in strong halogen lights and outside on a bright sunny day. I eventually bought an ideal cut stone from JA, and the performance difference with the stone I originally thought was the epitome of quality was staggering. I was blown away with a new stone.
I'm glad I was told how it was, most of the info wasn't from my thread, but reading others. I needed to read the hard truths, repeatedly, to make an actual informed decisions vs the absolute rubbish I was being fed for the sake of a sale. I've ended up much better off.
Oh, @John Pollard,@Matthews1127, for what it's worth, your post on page 1 resonated with me. I'm admittedly becoming (have become?) old guard. Part of that involves thicker skin. As the 'net grows in reach it becomes less polite.
Sounds like a nice guy *grin*Touche' But I wouldn't change a thing. Communication styles differ. Some of us learn visually, some aurally, some kinesthetically. You know, I remember this character...some "strmrdr" weirdo (I pronounce that "STERM-urder" by the way)...who, as a consumer poster here, doggedly pursued the whys and wherefores of step-cut aesthetics and selection. Through obsessive participation, analysis, criticism and suggestion this one character radically shifted the way a dozen selling organizations fundamentally selected emeralds, asschers and other step cuts. That guy was not long-winded, but he fostered improvement and was a blessing to those looking for guidance. He was never "twitter-like" in his replies. He created awareness and change through ongoing discussion and education.
That would make me sad.I now understand why so many take a break from PS & spend time away. If my opinion has no value, then, I suppose, even after I'm invited to give it, I'll reserve it.
That would make me sad.
To me, your and other consumers opinions are more important than mine.
You know, I remember this character...some "strmrdr" weirdo (I pronounce that "STERM-urder" by the way)...
Oh you read it right. Karl's consumer nom de plume was Strmrdr. My pronunciation is tweaking his tail for the "long winded" comment... 13 year old inside joke.Huh...I immediately read that as 'Stormrider'!
I was a member here for 2 years before I noticed the 2nd "r" so I thought he was Storm Doctor and I wandered in the wilderness for a long time wondering why that was significant to him -- then I got a pair of reading glasses....Karl's consumer nom de plume was Strmrdr.
Oh, @John Pollard,
I have some really tough skin. Takes a lot to ruffle my feathers, but when someone makes clearly false accusations in a passive-aggressive manner...that crosses my line. I'm not a hateful, nor envious person. I have never presented myself in a manner to indicate, otherwise. I have integrity, and compassion. To be falsely accused of "trashing" someone's diamond selection? Now, that's going to motivate me to re-evaluate my own participation on PS, in the future...and ruffle my feathers...just a tad.
Edited for addition:
I am happy to have made an impact with my initial post on this thread. I truly believe that people hide behind a keyboard and find a pair of balls they typically wouldn't have IRL. Somehow, anonymity seems to give some a false sense of invisibility. Those people, are all the more transparent. "The pen is mightier than the sword" roughly translates, in today's society, "The stroke of a key is mightier than the sword". Words can hit harder than fists, sometimes. Once they're out, they can't be taken back.
You mean it's not storm murderer?I was a member here for 2 years before I noticed the 2nd "r" so I thought he was Storm Doctor and I wandered in the wilderness for a long time wondering why that was significant to him -- then I got a pair of reading glasses....
Now I can't unsee stormmurderer!You mean it's not storm murderer?
@AprilBabyI have found over the years one needs big balls to stay. Don't let other people bother you. If the discussion turns bad turn off and tune out. I wanted to explode during political season but I just kept it to myself. I'm not going to engage with anything that upsets me. One can stay and enjoy ps if you don't feed the troll. ( didn't read that thread and not pointing fingers)
Matthews1127- I completely understand your initial frustration- and I apologize for my part in it.
I'm definitely still a NEW YAWKA
Thank you so much for also being understanding and nice
IOW we didn't know what we didn't know until we found PS and read and learned more about diamonds in general.