Hoping&Waiting
Rough_Rock
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- Aug 6, 2007
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Well...this is the year of my proposal (hopefully). It seems crazy that christmas, my sisters wedding, and new years have already passed!
As some of you know, my SO and I are "waiting in line" behind our siblings...well now that my sister is married off....WERE NEXT!!! At my sisters wedding, I approached a table full of my uncles & aunts, SO''s family, and family friends just to greet them. But to my surprise they greeted me, "So you are next! When do you think he will propose?? we all have bets going with all of the tables of people surrounding us!" my thoughts were soooo mixed! I was unbelieveably happy that my family was thinking of my SO and I and our relationship....but was shocked that they were all so interested!
The conversations continued throughout the wedding and then into the next day about our plans to get engaged. We are planning to something out of the ordinary for both of our families...DESTINATION WEDDING....it took a lot of convincing on my SO''s part becuase I was not on board at all. But now, my entire family and his are on board and so excited! Which in turn has created a lot of conversations about planning...BUT WERE NOT EVEN ENGAGED YET!!!!!!! this has made me TWICE as anxious!
a while back you all may remember me receiving a timeline last august 07....he said that we would for sure be engaged by august 08...so then in the fall we went ring shopping and I couldn''t help but think it could come very soon after my sister''s christmas wedding. But...now...Im not so sure. He is totally interested in talking about possible wedding plans and locations with everyone whom asks. He talks about getting married in a tropical location all the time he is very interested...but something makes me feel like the engagement is closer to august 08 then any time sooner
which makes me sad...but...what does it matter i get to be with the love of my life either way! cheers to another 6-8 months of waiting!!!
heres to still hoping and waiting!
As some of you know, my SO and I are "waiting in line" behind our siblings...well now that my sister is married off....WERE NEXT!!! At my sisters wedding, I approached a table full of my uncles & aunts, SO''s family, and family friends just to greet them. But to my surprise they greeted me, "So you are next! When do you think he will propose?? we all have bets going with all of the tables of people surrounding us!" my thoughts were soooo mixed! I was unbelieveably happy that my family was thinking of my SO and I and our relationship....but was shocked that they were all so interested!
The conversations continued throughout the wedding and then into the next day about our plans to get engaged. We are planning to something out of the ordinary for both of our families...DESTINATION WEDDING....it took a lot of convincing on my SO''s part becuase I was not on board at all. But now, my entire family and his are on board and so excited! Which in turn has created a lot of conversations about planning...BUT WERE NOT EVEN ENGAGED YET!!!!!!! this has made me TWICE as anxious!
a while back you all may remember me receiving a timeline last august 07....he said that we would for sure be engaged by august 08...so then in the fall we went ring shopping and I couldn''t help but think it could come very soon after my sister''s christmas wedding. But...now...Im not so sure. He is totally interested in talking about possible wedding plans and locations with everyone whom asks. He talks about getting married in a tropical location all the time he is very interested...but something makes me feel like the engagement is closer to august 08 then any time sooner
heres to still hoping and waiting!