TravelingGal
Super_Ideal_Rock
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2004
- Messages
- 17,193
I can imagine a lot of PSers are more amazing in real life. I also think it''s great that you go and meet them and obviously GTGs spur some great friendships.Date: 8/5/2009 1:23:29 AM
Author: Gypsy
It sounds very personal and well thought out.Date: 8/5/2009 1:01:06 AM
Author: TravelingGal
Haha, you guys smell FRESH, so no worries.
I am just as human as the next person so my opinions can be colored by offline gossip. I just prefer a more unadulterated pricescope experience where my opinions of posters are pretty much based soley on what they post here and not offline shenanigans, if that makes sense.
I have found that for me (and this is personal) I''ve just been so amazed by all the PSer''s I''ve met because every one of them is even nicer, more sincere, and more... well MORE in person. Honestly. I tend to be pretty un-sociable in ''real life'' because it''s so hard to connect with people and when you do a lot of times they betray or disappoint you- - and you can''t go back to being acquiantances easily once you''ve tried to form a friendship. But well, with GTG''s there is a large crowd of women, the topics are usually what you''d expect (this person''s ring, or that person''s project... or OMG she was such a beautiful bride! Or I can''t believe you didn''t see that thread), and well... you just have FUN and build on something you''ve already startecd. I don''t know if that makes sense... but you''ve already formed an impression of each other, and since it''s online most people are pretty frank and free... so when you meet, it''s just understood that you are acquintances (or friends) and are just getting to know one another better without any expectation that you can''t go back to just being online acquintances, but with the possiblity of forming deeper friendships if you want to. So I guess that''s my long winded way of saying... what keeps you away, is exactly what keeps me coming back for more. Neither is right or wrong. It just is.
If you ever decide you want to meet and greet, big crowd or small one on one... it''s an open invitation, that''s all I''m saying.
I just think inevitably it turns into how this person bugs or can you believe what that person said and that''s what I''m not interested in. I don''t care for alliances and prefer to be the lone ranger, hehehe.