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Date: 11/19/2009 7:25:05 AM
Author: hawaiianorangetree
Gls, what is the name of the pronovias dress you are after??
My Maggie Dress was nearly $3000 at a bridal store here and i found it online and ordered it from the US, including postage it was $1197, and that was when the dollar was low!
I can have a look and see if they stock yours for you if you want?
Hi Bobbin!Date: 11/19/2009 7:38:41 PM
Author: bobbin
So I am starting to put together a plan for the wedding.
FI and I really want a small ceremony. We are thinking a secret ceremony with only the bridal party there.
But we also want to have the party to celebrate.
What I was thinking was to have the secret ceremony, but invite all of our guests to our ''engagement Party''. We turn up and say ''surprise, we are married!''
My question is, would you be offended if you went to what you thought was an engagement party, but it turned out to be a wedding reception?
I have asked here because I think Aussies tend to be a bit more relaxed about wedding ''rules'' and I wanted an Aussie perspective first. But for any American girls lurking on this thread, please chime in also!
Date: 11/20/2009 1:51:36 AM
Author: hawaiianorangetree
Aww sorry gls, they have 207 pronovias dresses but not that one.![]()
probably because it is so new, but, since you are not getting married for a while there is every chance it
will appear on there. Also, they say if you can''t find the dress you want you can email them and they can see
if they can get it for you.
The website is bridalgown.net If you want to keep an eye out or send them an email, my dress is due to get here by Christmas
and they have been great so far.
I completely agree with honey with the ''you pay for what you get'' but I think if you are lucky and you have the time up your sleeve
you can get what you want for a lot less.
[/URL]Date: 11/20/2009 4:05:03 AM
Author: hawaiianorangetree
Date: 11/19/2009 7:38:41 PM
Hi Bobbin!
When i got engaged Fi and i had a similar idea also.. except the whole wedding was going to be a suprise at the e party..
https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/suprise-wedding.109240/
My mum hated the idea..
[url=https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/my-mum-hates-our-suprise-wedding-idea.111998/]https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/my-mum-hates-our-suprise-wedding-idea.111998/
But we were still going to go through with it anyway.
All was good until a few months ago and we decided to change our plans and we are now doing something entirely different.
Things i picked up on were:
1. You have to be REALLY good at keeping secrets (i am not)![]()
2. You need to do it within a fairly short time frame esp if you are calling it an ''engagement party'' (say before the end of summer) otherwise people will ask when your e party is and when you say ''next year or not for 10 months'' they come back with what? are you getting married at the same time then?? (true story, so many people figured it out).
3. You don''t get to do all of the other wedding related stuff before hand, such as kitchen teas, hens nights etc.
4. It''s hard to get excited when you can''t tell people what you are planning or when the wedding is.
5. Booking 5 weeks holidays with only a 2 week trip to bali creates alot of suspicions with your co workers.
Now i personally still love the idea but it just wasn''t meant to be for us.
I found this site whilst doing internet searches on suprise weddings..
http://surprisewedding.wordpress.com/
she blew hers at the 11th hour as wel!!
Thanks for those tips Hawaiian. I do think it will be difficult to keep it a secret. I think I am going to let my cousin in on it. I am still debating about whether to include my parents or not, or simply to let everyone who we want at the ceremony know about two weeks before so they can take the time off work.
We will be waiting a year also, but when anyone asks about our plans we have decided to simply say thay we hadn''t started to think about it and that we would have an engagement party when we are ready to start planning properly. Given that I have just graduated and am job hunting, FI just got laid off and is also job hunting and we have a million things to do with renovating the house, I think it might be believable...
No. 3 and 4 are very good points. I think I will let in two of my good friends and my cousin, so we can have a very small hens night or trip away, and so I have someone to get excited with!
I am a bit worried that when we turn up and say "surprise!" people will be offended that they were not at the ceremony.
Date: 11/19/2009 7:38:41 PM
Author: bobbin
So I am starting to put together a plan for the wedding.
FI and I really want a small ceremony. We are thinking a secret ceremony with only the bridal party there.
But we also want to have the party to celebrate.
What I was thinking was to have the secret ceremony, but invite all of our guests to our ''engagement Party''. We turn up and say ''surprise, we are married!''
My question is, would you be offended if you went to what you thought was an engagement party, but it turned out to be a wedding reception?
I have asked here because I think Aussies tend to be a bit more relaxed about wedding ''rules'' and I wanted an Aussie perspective first. But for any American girls lurking on this thread, please chime in also!
Date: 11/19/2009 7:17:09 AM
Author: aprilzephyr
I'm sorta in your predicament, gls ~ I'm still trying to wrap my mind around the amount I am going to spend on a dress (after a lot of comparison shopping). If it were me, gls, I would shop around more to at least compare what else you can get for $3125 and give yourself some peace of mind. I think it is fantastic that you found a dress you love already - it's a beautiful gown!
Date: 11/22/2009 6:57:54 PM
Author: supergirl10
Also a big aussie welcome to
Bobbin
and
April
Nice to have you here, April if you could just reply with your date that would be fantastic.![]()
Hoping that Lozza finds her way over here also
Hi AprilDate: 11/25/2009 12:29:56 AM
Author: aprilzephyr
Supergirl - I only just saw your post. Thanks so much for the welcome - I''m not Australian (but my partner is and we live in Sydney now), so I wasn''t sure if I could join the list! Our tentative date is sometime July 2010, depending on where we having the ceremony.
About the wedding dresses - I''ve done a lot of research on what is available here in Sydney, but I am wondering why Maggie Sottero dresses cost more here. For some reason, I was under the impression that MS was an Australian company??
Date: 11/22/2009 7:28:39 PM
Author: supergirl10
^ that is my post above, i have no idea why i came up as anonomyous ....
Date: 11/19/2009 7:17:09 AM
Author: aprilzephyr
I''m sorta in your predicament, gls ~ I''m still trying to wrap my mind around the amount I am going to spend on a dress (after a lot of comparison shopping). If it were me, gls, I would shop around more to at least compare what else you can get for $3125 and give yourself some peace of mind. I think it is fantastic that you found a dress you love already - it''s a beautiful gown!
What dress are you looking at april, we would love to see some pics!!!