Bridal Shower Question

[aprilcait]

My bridesmaids are planning a casual bridal shower for me, which is perfect. It will basically be one maybe two close friends, my sister, my mom, and the women from my extended family. My question is: are the women from FI''s family (FI''s mom, sister, and grandmother) supposed to be invited too?

 

[Courtneylub]

I would say yes.

 

[sumbride]

Yep. It''s a good way to reach out. And hopefully it will go well.

All I can say about my MIL at my shower is at least everyone finally understood what I''d been complaining about. Hoping that won''t happen to you!

 

[LegacyGirl]

Yes I would think they would love to share in this time with you also.

 

[aprilcait]

I had a feeling I'd have to include them. My main concern is not stepping on any toes or hurting any feelings, however I'm also a little concerned about making sure everyone is happy, having a good time, etc. and not actually being able to enoy the party as a result.

It's not that I don't like FI's mom, grandma, and sister (actually, FI's sister and I get along very well); it's just that I feel I'd be focused on their judgments of my family and making sure that they're entertained the whole time. Since FI's grandmother doesn't spek English, I know she'd be bored out of her mind. FI's mom has never met my extended family before and I doubt she'd have much in common with them. FI's sister would get along pretty well, though.

Thanks for the advice, though! I will invite them. Happy Friday!