Calling all the Pregnant PS''ers

[random_thought]

I just need to get this off of my chest quick and I'm putting it here because I'm attributing the way I feel to hormones...

I started a new job and was told if I had questions to ask. So today I was testing some software, had a question, and asked the guy I was sitting next to. Then on our lunch break, we had about 10 minutes before we had to get back to work and we were talking about different books we like to read. Innocent enough right? Well my boss walked by both times and I was called to his office first to verify 3 days I needed off and then for him to remind me that I'm being evaluated in 90 days and that if I'm not productive enough due to things like chatting too much that I wouldn't have my contract renewed. I told him I was just asking a question and that we were on our lunch break the second time. Then he replied that "he's just saying it's something to keep in mind". All I can think of to do is to bust my butt over the next 90 days but this seemed really unfair to me! I'm sure I'll just cry in the car on the way home and get it out of my system but I just feel like crap right now (Btw, I am on my 15 minute break right now so I am allowed to "surf the web")

 

[Tuckins1]

I just need to get this off of my chest quick and I'm putting it here because I'm attributing the way I feel to hormones...

I started a new job and was told if I had questions to ask. So today I was testing some software, had a question, and asked the guy I was sitting next to. Then on our lunch break, we had about 10 minutes before we had to get back to work and we were talking about different books we like to read. Innocent enough right? Well my boss walked by both times and I was called to his office first to verify 3 days I needed off and then for him to remind me that I'm being evaluated in 90 days and that if I'm not productive enough due to things like chatting too much that I wouldn't have my contract renewed. I told him I was just asking a question and that we were on our lunch break the second time. Then he replied that "he's just saying it's something to keep in mind". All I can think of to do is to bust my butt over the next 90 days but this seemed really unfair to me! I'm sure I'll just cry in the car on the way home and get it out of my system but I just feel like crap right now (Btw, I am on my 15 minute break right now so I am allowed to "surf the web")

I'm sorry you had a rough day, RT. Hopefully you will become better acquainted with your boss and the work environment and it won't feel like he's watching your every move....

 

[random_thought]

I just need to get this off of my chest quick and I'm putting it here because I'm attributing the way I feel to hormones...

I started a new job and was told if I had questions to ask. So today I was testing some software, had a question, and asked the guy I was sitting next to. Then on our lunch break, we had about 10 minutes before we had to get back to work and we were talking about different books we like to read. Innocent enough right? Well my boss walked by both times and I was called to his office first to verify 3 days I needed off and then for him to remind me that I'm being evaluated in 90 days and that if I'm not productive enough due to things like chatting too much that I wouldn't have my contract renewed. I told him I was just asking a question and that we were on our lunch break the second time. Then he replied that "he's just saying it's something to keep in mind". All I can think of to do is to bust my butt over the next 90 days but this seemed really unfair to me! I'm sure I'll just cry in the car on the way home and get it out of my system but I just feel like crap right now (Btw, I am on my 15 minute break right now so I am allowed to "surf the web")

I'm sorry you had a rough day, RT. Hopefully you will become better acquainted with your boss and the work environment and it won't feel like he's watching your every move....

I really hope so, I just feel like a big pile of crap right now

 

[lover in athens]

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My favorite purchase was the Uppa Baby Vista stroller. It is the only stroller we bought, and DH and I both agree it steers beautifully, and has a nice bit of storage in the canvas basket under the seat. I often skipped a cart on quick grocery and Target runs because it holds a lot of stuff.

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kay, i haven't posted on here in FOREVER, but i'm thrilled to see that you are pregnant again (our first little ones are so close in age!). just was reading about your love for the uppa baby and i wanted to pop in and recommend the "piggyback" skate board that attaches to it for toddlers. coby absolutely LOOOOOVES it, and it has been a godsend with the 2 kiddos. we also have a double bob, which i HATE except for walks around the neighborhood (it is WAY too big to get in and out of the car), but i continue to use the uppa baby almost every day with the piggyback attached.

hope everyone's pregnancies continue to go well!!

xo,LIA

 

[Tuckins1]

Kay - sounds like a beautiful necklace! I hope you post some pictures of it.

Skippy - you have kind neighbors!

Dreamer - glad that your scan went so well! Weird how they won't tell you the gender. Why is that?

Deelight - I didn't know you were in Australia! How did I miss that?

Anyway, more details on the job...in order to give me incentive to start in July, they are offering 12-14 weeks paid maternity leave (100% compensation). Additionally, I get 6 weeks vacation. If I want, I can use this vacation to create a part time schedule up to another 12 weeks (i.e. if I worked 3 days a week for 12 weeks, I'd use up 24 days of vacation in that time period). So obviously that would be 100% compensation as well. Then between February and June I'd only have 6 days of vacation left...but I've had jobs where I only had 3 weeks vacation for the whole year so I don't think that would be that bad. And then next July I'd have 6 weeks more of vacation again. Plus we would then be able to stay on my health insurance plan, which is cheaper and better than my husband's. This is about as good as it may get in my field, I'm pretty sure - friends who work elsewhere have been offered only 4 weeks leave, etc.

My husband really wants to take this offer since it's a lot of money, but I am not so sure...what are you guys doing for maternity leave?

Basil, this deal sounds great! I get 6 weeks paid at 60%, then I can take up to 6 more weeks unpaid... It's good timing that i'm a teacher and my 6 weeks goes right into the summer!

 

[dcgator]

Hey ladies,

Ugh, work continues to keep me uber busy and tired, so I apologize for not posting in a while. However, as I don't see it getting better for the next couple weeks, I will just have to settle for periodic updates when possible. That being said, wow, SO much going on here these days! I will try my best to catch up with everyone, but if I forget you or miss an update, please forgive me.

Random - Sorry about the RH shot, but hopefully it won't be too bad. I do like your baby bump, so cute! And what a lovely V-day you had. Great work DH, hehe. As for the boss comments, ugh, that is no good. I would just say hang in there and keep your head down and hopefully you will have nothing to worry about in a few weeks. Good luck!

Kay - Glad to hear about the good appt and strong heartbeat. Sorry for the fatigue, I totally understand as I got hit pretty hard by that one. I can't remember how many weeks you are, but mine finally started to lighten up at about 15-16 weeks so hopefully your's will get better soon! Kay, it seems like you have already figured it out, but if you don't want a baby shower, than just politely decline. Who cares about what others think I am sorry that you and DH have been sick, but hopefully it will pass soon. I do know a couple people have been coming down with stuff, so it sounds like its going around.

Tiffany - I am glad to hear that all is well. You look great too. Keep baking those little ones!

Skippy - Thanks for the birthday wishes. Unfortunately work is not getting the ease up memo, but I am anticipating it should be quieter in a few weeks...I hope! That's so exciting that you got to see your little boys in 3D, what cuties the are! That's really sweet of your DH to make breakfast for you and I like the pizza idea, very original. I have yet to really feel the little one kick, but can't wait to start feeling it! That is awesome of your neighbor to offer the food. I'm sure you will seriously appreciate it once the little ones come. Congrats on getting past the half way point too.

Tao - Glad to hear all was well with your latest appt. I hope you continue to progress nicely and that work eases up a bit for you.

Noel - Thanks for the shout out. I do peek into the NB thread every now and again and I am glad to hear that you are making a strong recovery from your latest surgery. I can't believe how big Ms. Skye is getting too, what a little princess!

Catluver - I can't believe you are so far already, almost time for baby! I'm sorry to hear that you aren't progressing as you would like, but hopefully things will start happening soon. As for induction, while I know some women end up having C-sections, one of my good friends was induced at like 41 weeks, and she had a regular VB, so it can happen. Hang in there lady and try not to stress to much.

Basil - I almost forgot that we are so close in EDD. Congrats on getting to 16 weeks and for hearing the HB. I am jealous you get your gender scan a week early, but I bet you (and your parents) are excited. I am sorry to hear about all the drama that will ensue with your friend/colleague leaving. I really hope that you will be able to take your desired amount of maternity leave and get to work in the VA area. As for the d-bag people, I don't think you can avoid them whatever business you are in, so just try to ignore them. Regarding the salary/time off issue, it sounds like your Chairman is offering a pretty sweet deal, so I would recommend considering it.

Modern - Oh, I am so jealous about your trip! I am so sick of the cold here and would love some time off. Anywho, I really hope you enjoy your vaca/babymoon with your DH and even though you can't have regular Margaritas, there is nothing wrong with a virgin pina colada, right? Have fun, relax, get tanned, and tell us all about it when you get back. And congrats on getting to your 2nd trimester!

Cupcake - She is just precious, thanks for sharing!

Mrs - Thanks for the belated b-day wishes. Yeah, work is a bummer, but so it goes. And, thankfully February is a short month, so only about 3.5 weeks till I get to see my little one! I am sorry that you had to deal with the body image issues with DD, but it sounds like this time around will be better. I might have some of those same issues myself, but I am trying to keep them in check. Good luck with soothing the little nap monster!

Luvinlife - Wow, you look great, mama. You've got one of those cute baskteball bellies. As for your easy pregnancy, that really is a blessing and I'm sure much appreciated! Good luck in the last few weeks and enjoy your time with your DH.

Deelight - Thanks for the belated b-day wishes. I am kinda busy and so these next few weeks will fly, so I am not too bummed anymore about having to wait. Only 3.5 more weeks! Wow, you are already in the last few weeks of pregnancy, how crazy. It sounds like you have everything in order and are now just waiting for baby to make her arrival. I hope that you enjoy your last few quiet weeks at home before the little one and look forward to hearing more updates!

Geri - Oh, what an absolute beauty, congrats mama! I am uber jealous of your luxury beach accomodations too, how lovely to have that option! I am glad to hear that all is well and that you are enjoying mommyhood. Take care of you all!

LV - Glad to hear all is well with you and Samanatha. I do love all the hair she has going on there, which begs the question; was the old wives tale true, did you have a lot heartburn? Thanks for sharing the cute and I look forward to hearing more from you.

Dreamer - Yeah for scans! I am glad to hear that the baby cooperated so you could get some good shots It sounds like s/he will be a cutie.

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Whew, that was a lot of catching up! If you are still reading, thanks for hanging in there, lol. AFM, I am doing well aside from working too much. Last Sunday, DH and I went on the tour of the hospital. It was actually a really nice place and pretty well run, so that's comforting. However, the whole thing really made me feel pregnant, and I kinda had an ah-ha moment, like, OMG, I am going to come here to have a baby in another few months. Crazy! I hit 16 weeks yesterday, and am really starting to see the changes. It has finally gotten to the point where most of my clothes are just not fiting anymore, so I am off to get some maternity clothes, wish me luck! Does anyone have any favorite brands/stores or places to avoid? Otherwise, I am looking forward to my anatomy/gender scan in about 3.5 weeks. Well, I hope that you all have a great weekend, and I look forward to hearing about more adventures in the preggo world soon!

 

[Skippy123]

I have to say this group give the Best Tips, Advice and Support, thank you!!!

CUPCAKE ~~ I hope your boss is willing to work with you on leave, fingers crossed for you.

RT ~~ how frustrating.

TUCKINS~~ I am glad your maternity leave goes into summer, awesome!

KAY ~~ I started writing down all the things you and the others love. I will get those sheets; sounds like I can find them at Bed Bath and Beyond, cool. Your stroller looks great! I think I will get the Snug Ride since it fits in the snap n go (if I decide to get one). I was reading that the infant carriers are good because if they are asleep then you do disturb them when you take them out of the car. Is the sleep sack too hot in the summer months? Thank you for your tips!! Is your dbty here? Can't wait to see it!!

DREAMER ~~ oh my gosh, you know Exactly what I am talking about w/the rib pain!!! So I followed your tips last night and it helps, thanks! It felt so much better to stretch back and eased the pain. boo for it not stopping but I appreciate the tips!!! Oh wow, your maternity leave is awesome!!! I have a question for you since I have been reading that giant baby products thread. You have the citi mini, do you love it? You can't jog with it? I love my sisters BOB and noticed a lady at the grocery store w/twins and hers was huge so I am wondering if I could use the Citi mini for jogging and for running around? Gosh, i wish they made a light stroller, that was good for walking jogging (off road), and easy to fold. LOL Maybe we need to invent something like that!!!

DCGATOR ~~ Oh that is cool to hear you did the hospital tour. I have gone to the hospital so many times (OB appts in the same bldg) but it just dawned on me that I had no idea where to go when I am in labor and then I noticed some info on tours so I am going to do that! How fun!!! Yay for being 16 weeks and yay for shopping. I like Motherhood; I think they are having a big sale right now. Happy shopping! Oh please post pics of your scan; yay so exciting!

LOVEINATHENS ~~ that is good to know about your Bob, gives me something to think about. Hope you are doing great!

DEELIGHT ~~ how are you doing? woot woot for being full term right?

canuk-gal/SHARON ~~ good to see you!!!

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Hope all you beautiful preggos have a great weekend!!!!! I am Excited because yesterday we found a place to have my shower; my mom and sis are throwing it for me. The weather has been absolutely gorgeous out here so this weekend we are going to grill a chicken, and lots of veggies, mmmm. Take care!! Off to try and finish reading the Baby Products thread on PS, I am on page 55! lol

 

[Kay]

Dreamer, 8 months at 95% salary sounds really good. I would be tempted to go back to “full time” over the summer to get full salary back if you can work from home a lot of that time.

Random-thought, sending you hugs and wishes for a better day to day. It sucks to get called on the carpet for the appearance of doing something wrong when you weren’t.

LIA, so good to “see” you here! We are thinking about the ride along board for the Uppa. A starting refusing the stroller a few months ago – she wants to walk (or run) like a big girl. We are going to wait and see how she reacts to a new baby in “her” stroller. If it looks like she wants back in on the stroller action, we will add the skateboard.

DCgator, congrats on reaching 16 weeks! Sorry to hear work is not letting up on you. I am so underwater at work right now – this cold/sinus infection really set me back. I ordered most of my maternity clothes from Nordstrom.com. I just regularly check the sale section of the website, and they have a great return policy. What is the origin of your screen name? Are you a litigator in DC or a Florida native?

Skippy, I never thought to check BB&B for the crib sheets- thanks for the tip! I bought ours at BRU 2 years ago, but when I went back to get more for the new baby last month, they don’t have them anymore. These are the ones we use for A’s crib: http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/product.asp?SKU=16857009&RN=1068&KSKU=121238&

We also bought a couple of these to try since they are cheaper: http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/product.asp?SKU=15652349
After washing, they were too small for her thick crib mattress, but work great for day care which uses thinner sleeping cots for the kids.

My DBTY is supposed to be done by 2/25, so with shipping I should have in about 10 days.

I am a bit bummed because today is my B-day, and I had planned to take the day off and get a massage this afternoon, but had to cancel the massage because of the sinus infection and have to work to deal with a problem that cropped up yesterday. We also cancelled dinner out because with DH and I both sick, there is no point in spending money on a babysitter and dinner when we won't really enjoy it. I told DH he had better plan on giving me a foot rub tonight!

 

[Skippy123]

KAY, oh my gosh, I am sorry you and your hubby aren't feeling well. Sending you get well wishes and hopefully next weekend you feel better for a postponed birthday? sorry about the massage. huge hugs!!! YAY YAY YAY about your DBTY, woohooo!!! Wishing you a Wonderful Wonderful BIRTHDAY KAY!!!

Oh I googled your sheets earlier since I wasn't sure where you bought them and BB&B popped up. hehe So I can use my coupons I get in the mail to buy those, yay!!! Thanks for the link.

 

[Kay]

Okay, so I was feeling sorry for myself, but then my sweet husband came downtown and picked me up and took me to lunch at a little French cafe I like. I'm feeling better now and DH gets major points. So, my office is closed Monday for President's Day, but (miracle of miracles) A's daycare is open. DH and I are looking forward to a child-free day to just hang out together. I should probably feel guilty for dumping her at daycare when I have the day off work, but I could really use the break.

 

[Deelight]

Cupcake How you feeling chickie - your so close sending you dust for a fast and painless L&D when the time comes and if it has - sending your dust for a speedy recovery

RT I think in that situation it is best to try not to get defensive - as hard as it can be and just try and make sure your performance is impeccable GL

DC good to hear your trucking along well with the little ninja turtle I don't have any recs for clothes in the states but depending on how tight your clothes are getting a lot of women have recommended to me belly bands (ones that go over your pants/skits kinda look like a boob tube) and belly expanders for underneath - it helps get through that awkward stage where mat clothes are still to big but your clothes are still to tight - it can help stretch your non mat wardrobe. I used a hair tie on my jeans (through the zip hole and looped through the hole through to the button) to give myself the little extra room when they got uncomfortably tight helped me stay in my non mat jeans for ages - then it got to hot to wear them so I bought mat clothes.

As for the feeling preggo - I have loved those moments - the good thing is you will keep having them at intervals - kinda makes you feel like a kid at Christmas GL with your scan - my feeling is your having a little girl (mind you I changed my mind as I was typing this) but I have been wrong a lot lately so take that with a grain of salt

Skippy YAY for finding a great place I bet your baby shower will be fantastic chickie

Kay Happy Birthday chickie your hubby sounds like a gem what a lovely surprise - sorry your original plans got ruined

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So 37wks and 1 day - have been sweating like there is no tomorrow and have been having on and off nausea - not sure if that is indicative of anything - I am hoping not I would really like another week to myself before she gets here more nanna nap time but if she comes sooner then that is okay too.

Hubby and I went out for dinner tonight - Japanese and Movenpick for desert (OMG SO GOOD) it was lovely and a little bittersweet as this could be the last dinner we have just as a couple for a little while (mind you bubba will be worth it I am sure) but it makes you appreciate the life you have even as your excitedly planning for the new chapter .

My birthday is in 4 days and hubs has been asking me what I want and for once I seriously have no idea - I did say I didn't want a baby on my birthday, she can be born the day before or the day after but I do not want to be pushing on my B-day he just laughed - I told him the universe will probably make her come on my B-day just to say haha - oh well what happens happens really just have to make the best of it .

Hope you ladies are all enjoying your weekend - resting up and all take care

 

[random_thought]

Thank you for the advice about the job sitch everyone, I think you are all right about just laying low and doing the best job I can!

Next uphill battle- I think I am catching what DH had last week. I really hope I don't get it as bad as he did, he ended up in the ER due to dehydration and chest pains from such bad heartburn, I can't even imagine how that would wreak havoc on my body Everyone at work has been out with the flu too. Hopefully this is just a little cold that will pass by quickly. If it is the flu I hope it's 24 hours and I can get over it on the weekend and get around it without having to call in sick to work!

By the way, yesterday I hit the 99 days left mark! Woohoo!

 

[random_thought]

Can anyone tell me what their braxton hicks felt like? I keep getting this like soreness on the top of my bump when I'm sitting for too long and it feels like it gets but the rest of my stomach stays soft...I'm so worried that when I actually do go into labor that I won't know the heck is happening or that it is labor! lol

Also I had some sharp pains in my side tonight with some menstrual type cramping...for right now I'm layin down and taking it easy and drinking lots of water to see if that helps, but I would still love to hear some of your input

 

[Deelight]

I am not the best at describing anything really but BH generally feel like your belly tightening all over and mild cramping down the bottom of your belly - the other ladies are probably better able to explain then I am. I do find however if I sit in once place to long I do get a sore stomach however once I start moving a little it generally goes away - that pain has now descended to my hips - oh joy

The difference between contractions and BH is if you move position and or drink water and they don't go away - chances are they might be contractions - chances are you will also likely know when you go into labour - eventually anyway

I have found lately just standing in the shower really helps with the simple aches and pains really helps dull them plus considering how stinking hot it is here it is refreshing as well.

Hope you don't get sick RT keep your fluids up if your worried you have a cold - helps to flush the crap out.

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Can't half tell I am on mat leave can you - feel like I am stalking this thread guess that is all I have left to do at the moment apart from wait and nest LOL.

I have a friend coming over for lunch tomorrow so I spent tonight baking and making a cheesecake for tomorrow it is too hot during the day to do anything - OMG my cheesecake is very yummy if I do say so myself *nom nom*

And finally award for preggo brain of the day goes to me - only took me a day to realise that I meant Catluver not Cupcake when I mentioned not having long to go - D'OH however hope both of you ladies are doing well and sending some more dust to Cat for either soon to be L&D or recovery

I am off to bed - OB appointment in the morning - kinda nervous not sure why maybe cause it is getting closer and closer to the due date

 

[random_thought]

Deelight- where in the world do you live that it is too hot outside! I wish it was too hot here...well, not too hot, just mildly hot lol
Thank you for the BH description. I thought because my entire stomach wasn't hard that I wasn't having BH but the top was hard and then with the cramps it sounds like what you are describing. My cousin who is 30 weeks was no help, she hasn't had any yet! Lucky girl!

 

[basil]

Hi All! Hope everyone is having a relaxing weekend!

RT - Sorry to hear about the job situation. That kind of stuff really shakes me up too, cause you KNOW you haven't done anything wrong, yet somehow those people still make you feel like you have. Maybe he was just having a bad day and it will blow over.

Deelight - Lucky you for being on leave! Good luck on your appointment. Do you feel like you have everything ready?

Kay - what a sweet hubby. Sorry you had to cancel your dinner but you will enjoy it much more when you are feeling better. Have fun tomorrow! I think I underestimate how rare time alone with DH will be after the baby...

Skippy - yeay for finding a good place to have your shower! How many people are you expecting? I bet people will be very excited to buy stuff for the twins.

DC - I'm having the same problem as you re: clothes. I've bought some at maternity clothes at Old Navy and Target cause I just can't fathom spending a lot on clothes that have such a limited lifespan. My favorites so far are maternity dresses. I'm not usually a "dress person" but it's so comfortable to be in an empire waist dress, a cardigan, tights and ballet flats. I don't know how formal you need to dress for work, though.

Dreamer - Sweet maternity leave! Going back and working from home sounds like an ideal situation. To answer your question, no I don't think I could get a better deal elsewhere...but the other option is to just not work for a while. It's financially possible for us because I can be insured through my husband's job, but of course extra money is always nice.

Anyway, I am 17 weeks today...anatomy scan 2 weeks from tomorrow! The person on the phone when I scheduled said that they do the scan between 18 and 20 weeks but if I want to know gender to wait closer to 20 weeks. I had to schedule it for 19w1d though due to DH's and my work schedules. I'm hopeful that they will still be able to tell...does anyone know what happens if they can't tell? Can we get another scan?

Update on work - got called into the chairman's office and offered the position at the Veteran's hospital for 1.5 days per week. I am REALLY excited cause as I mentioned before, I really like working there, and it's a huge opportunity to teach surgery and great for my resume. Plus, it's a huge vote of confidence from the administration there and at my university hospital. Apparently, they usually don't hire people right out of fellowship, but because the chairman there knew and liked me, my director recommended me, and the residents all told the university chairman that they would like to have me there, I got it! [And additionally, I beat out a colleague who is my senior but annoys me, and that makes me secretly happy]. Of course, the caveat being that I have to start in July. So it kind of made that decision for me. It also tightens up my schedule so I have less possible time to be farmed out to satellite offices, so hopefully I'll spend most of my time in the main university hospital. My director is using his influence to make sure I have a good schedule and I am not too busy starting out which I really appreciate.

Also, we are in the process of signing a lease on a house. It's an older house but it's been recently gutted and everything is brand new. It has 4 bedrooms which gives us room for a guest bedroom, nursery, and gym. But the biggest thing is that is has a big fenced yard which will be great for our dog. And we can have a grill and plant flowers and all those things we haven't been able to do in the condo.

So I feel like everything is falling into place for us...so many changes happening all at once, but little by little it's all coming together!

 

[Skippy123]

DEELIGHT, hope you feel better soon, huge hugs momma! YAY for your birthday coming up!!! Any fun plans? Fingers crossed your beautiful baby comes after your bday!!! Oh your cheesecake sounds yummy, have fun at lunch!!!! Hope it cools off too! hugs

RT, hope you don't get sick; wash your hands like a mad woman that helped me when hubby had the flu.

BASIL, the Perinatals did a scan at 16 1/2 weeks and we could see we were having 2 boys, no problem. Are they going to be checking for other things? Like the hearts, brains, etc? The reason I ask is because when they did my scan one didn't want to cooperate and they checked other things like the heart, etc and then came back to see if he moved positions and he did so we found out 2 boys at 16 1/2 wks. I would guess at 19 weeks you probably would be able to see. I had my other scan to check the heart chambers at 20 1/2 weeks and we saw for sure they were boys again, no problem. Congrats that is soooo AWESOME you were offered that position!!!!! I am so happy for you! I am so happy things are coming together for you, YAY! I am not sure how many people we are expecting but I saw lots of family today and lots of family lately told me if I have a shower they for sure want to be invited so I am hopeful people show up. hehe

KAY, aw, what a nice surprise by your hubby; hope you two are feeling better, beautiful birthday girl!!!!
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AFM Nothing too excited going on with me but wanted to throw this out here, Baby Gizmo is a great website that has done lots of research on baby products and their is a video section on High chairs, and strollers so you hear the pros and cons of them which is awesome!!! just google baby Gizmo. They also give top 5's, like cribs, mattresses, high chairs, etc.

Oh and hubby and I are purging ourselves of crap in our house so we don't have to worry about that stuff when the babies arrive or at the last minute. Hubby cleaned out his closet and next weekend is my turn (he needs to pull down the boxes for me though). It feels good to get rid of stuff woot woot! HAPPY SUNDAY friends and big hugs!!!!

 

[Deelight]

RT I am in QLD Australia - so here at the moment we are in the middle of summer *bleugh* trust me you do not want to be preggo in summer especially here by 11 o'clock this morning I had already had 2 showers cause it is just that hot. Yesterdays temp was approx 36degrees Celsius which is approx 98.6 Fahrenheit couple that with mega humidity = really stinking HOT

Basil Your whole post made me smile - I love when things work out well and I hope they continue to be on the up and up for you - that is fantastic news and congrats very very happy for you . Your new house sounds lovely as well

Skippy thanks for the website recommendation I will have to check it out - nothing exciting planned for the B-day had to reschedule my ob appointment so I get to see my ob on my birthday - WHOOT I am a party monster - likely will spend the day chilling


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Had an awesome lunch with my friend today - cheesecake turned out perfect - so *nom* and now it has begun to storm which is great cbeause it takes away the heat. Her little girl was with her all 11wks old of perfect cuteness - I love having such a close friend with a small baby - instant playgroup LOL so all in all a great day

Baby is still baking - YAY should really pack my bags soon just in case but if I do that makes it realer then it is now so I am procrastinating what a surprise

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

Hey ladies, I hope you and your buns are all doing well! Have any of you heard from Jacki/Princessplease recently???

 

[Skippy123]

DEELIGHT, yay for a yummy cheesecake and nice outing w/your friend! Oh phooey on an OB appt on your bday, but the exciting part is maybe your ob will see you a bit dilated? hehe How do you feel? Yayyyyy, so exciting, anytime soon!!! Check out that website; I had fun watching the strollers! LOL

Hey ladies, I hope you and your buns are all doing well! Have any of you heard from Jacki/Princessplease recently???

HH, I think she posts in the Barely Preggo thread; I seen her somewhere else too. Hope everything is okay. Hopefully she will pop in soon!


Tomorrow is my OB appt; my ob appts never do u/s so nothing too exciting, just weigh me, chat w/me about concerns etc. I think the next appt I will pay for my doula; I am looking forward to having a doula for my birth! Hope everyone has a great Monday and start to the week!

 

[Blenheim]

Clothes -

The clothes I got from Motherhood Maternity and Pea in the Pod did not hold up well at all. I had to throw out two Pea in the Pod shirts when I was only about 5 or 6 months along as they had developed holes in the elbows. I have never had that problem with other shirts, so I don't think I am particularly rough on elbows. My Motherhood pants have a lot of snags in the fabric, and I followed the laundering instructions.

Old Navy clothes held up well (despite my not being the original owner) and were flattering, but for the most part are too casual for my job. Same thing with Target, whatever their maternity brand is - Liz Lange? But I have a couple of weekend items I am looking forward to wearing again.

I hate maternity pants -- except under the belly styles -- but felt that dresses were really comfortable and flattering even at the end.

Some of my favorite shirts at the end actually were not maternity shirts, but were "regular" shirts that were about one size larger than normal and built to be relatively fitted in the bust with lots of fabric in the stomach area. Some of those fit even after my belly grew out of my fitted maternity tops. And some of my favorite bottoms were actually "regular" skirts with elastic waists.

I had issues with spilling food on my belly, as did my girlfriend, and so would recommend patterns or black for shirts and dresses.

I'm going to have to do some clothes shopping here soon as my pregnancies are opposite seasons. I think I'm mostly going to stick with dresses and non-maternity cardigans this time.

 

[Deelight]

HH i think she posts mainly in the JBP thread as skippy said

Skippy how did you appointment go hope it went well - here in OZ they don't do internals till your in labour so I expect my appointment to be the same check my blood pressure, listen to the heartbeat and he will ask me if I have any questions - all in all an expensive 10 minutes either way it is out the way early

Blen OMG you made me feel so much better - the food on the belly comment made me laugh I thought I was seriously the only one or when I was my hands it looks like I have a problem because my belly gets splashed .

Dresses are great for mat wear - especially loose around the belly ones - so comfy I didn't by any mat dresses but my non maternity ones still all fit so YAY

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nothing new here just baking away and waiting LOL

 

[Skippy123]

BLEN & DEELIGHT, hubby and I were talking the other day about the food on the tops. hehe I told him I never ever had so many accidents on my shirts/tops as I do now but if you think about it, we are seated and our belly's stick out so the napkin isn't going to catch the food like it use too, our shirts do. haha Plus I seem to be a bit more clumsy.

DEELIGHT, is today your birthday? Happy birthday if it is today!!!!! YAY! Oh I am so looking forward to dresses and skirts once it warms up here. Spring is right around the corner. hugs to you, soon to be momma. what months do you start to cool off out there?

CATLUVER, thinking of you!!!!

Any belly shots Preggos? Or is that a Friday thing? I want to see!!!


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AFM, today I had my OB appt; my belly has popped out a bit!! My pants still fit normal but belly is sticking out. I will try and remember to post a pic this week. Anyway my OB and I talked about Preterm labor and signs to watch out for just as a precaution (I rather not be in the dark about this stuff) He said twin mommas do go a bit earlier (avg 37 wks) and we talked C-sections and vaginal births. He said what happens a lot of times is that one baby can be born vaginally and the other one goes c-section but it is a 50/50 chance all depending on which way the baby's are facing, etc. He even said if I am far enough along I can schedule a c-section (approx at 38 wks). I don't know; I am glad I have options, but it is a lot to think about!!!! Oh and he said one baby is lodged low on the right. And I have been having rib pain on my left side and sure enough that is where the other baby is hanging out, oh boy! lol

Then he suggested I check out where L&D is located and go through the admission process so when the day comes I am in the system and all the paper work is done. So after my appt I walked over to L&D and the nurse (she has twin girls) showed me around and she was super nice and told lots of good info. She also told me that I would automatically be sent to the OR because if I delivery vaginally and then have complications and they have to do a c-section they want to be ready.

Oh and today I sat on the best glider; it is put out by a the Best Chairs, Inc. Here is what they look like if anyone is interested http://www.besthf.com/best/Storytime/ It looks like a regular chair but it glides. Another PS'er has one and loves it so I stopped at this local shop and they happened to have them and the chair felt like a cloud. I am sold on this chair even though it is very pricey but I bet we would use it in the living room after the babies are bigger. Do you preggos who already have kids find you used your glider? ?

Have a great day beautiful Preggos!!!

 

[random_thought]

I have a belly shot! First one before I head into the third trimester
I am poor and can't afford maternity photo shots so I did what any resourceful PSer would do and took my own using only the built in webcam (with a 3 second timer) on my macbook! I think I did pretty good, here's a couple of my favorites

 

[Deelight]

Skippy Thanks for the birthday wishes yup 31 one today funnily enough didn't really seem like a birthday think I have to much on my mind

sounds like your appointment went well - glad you got the see the L&D at the hospital as well sounds like you have an idea of what will happen with the twinkies when the day arrives . I have to admit I have these funny and cute mental images of the little bubbas hanging and chilling out in your belly on op sides- very cute .

Those chairs look lovely

RT Well done on the shots very nice


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Had my doctors appointment today - BP is good, I am good - we talked about a possible induction as a just in case as friday makes me 38wks, he said it is up to me but can it can take 2 weeks to book one - he said sometime between now and Christmas was good and left it to me to decide by next week. Hubby and I are thinking 41wks if she is not here by then any thoughts as to why/why not I would apprciate the advice. I figure 41wks is a good time that way she has time to come on her own but if not we are not leaving it too late either - the thought of an induction frankly scares me but as I said this is just in case.

Also asked if there is any indication of needing a c-section - and he was adamant against it unless it is nessecary for safety - I have heard of horror stories from others of c-sections for convienence which is not what I am after while I have no issues with it if it is not needed I don't want one if that makes sense - I have faith in him he is meant to be one of the best in the area and prefers where possible to go as natural as possible which is good, I was even told this by the MW at the hospital .

I also talked about her size - as hubby's side of the family have bigger babies and the ob said while no one is good at guessing he figures she will not be small but may be slightly bigger then avg - he guessed at birth she would be between 8-9pounds seriously hope she actually turns out to be a 6-7 pounder personally the thought of a bigger baby scares me hence why 41wks or earlier is also sounding preferable.

I have also offically decided never to watch the news again - especially when preganant the news from New Zealand just breaks my heart

Hope all you ladies are well take care

Cat Hope your especially well thinking of you chickie

 

[Cupcake*Muffin]

Good morning ladies! Hope all is well!

DEELIGHT--Happy belated birthday! Wow, it's almost time for you! Hopefully everything goes as planned

RT-- those are some seriously good maternity pics that you took. Way better than I could do myself. I have a few that we just got from our shoot on Valentine's Day weekend, I'll post one.

Basil---congrats on the job! That's pretty cool that they don't usually hire out of fellowships but you were the exception to the rule!

Skippy--glad the appt went well . I'm jealous of the glider, we don't have anymore space in the baby's room what with the guest bed in there so no glider for us. We might try to get something for the living room though, since I hear a glider is a must have.

Blen--I've started calling my bump the crumb catcher because pretty much anything I eat ends up on the baby. I'm sure there is going to be retribution from Lorelei once we start her on solid foods, pretty sure I'll be wearing the food then


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AFM, chugging along. Lorelei has been kicking me hard enough that it hurts. She also has been swimming from side to side and (what feels like) scraping my insides and distorting my stomach. Very Alien-esk if you ask me...but in an enduring way. We have our baby shower in two weeks and I just bought some maternity dresses from my friend. We also have dinner with the Lord Mayor of Westminster on Sunday--I'm a little nervous, I hope I look ok instead of frumpy. DH hasn't been doing well and has been in a lot of pain. Last night he spent a good amount of it screaming in pain from the spasms. I hope that he will get better but it seems every step forward is followed by two steps back. I guess that's why it's a long recovery. I hope by the time Lorelei comes he will be able to pick her up and play with her. There are many days that I think about what it would have been like if DH had not stepped off the curb when he did, I guess that's not healthy. But when I can't do anything to make it better for him, all I do is day-dream about what could have been.

I am also going to dinner with all the the "friends" that I talked about previously. I've been avoiding them since the first week of January and they are starting to suspect so I thought I would just go and see how everyone is doing. After all, I still care about them even though they haven't been the nicest.

DH and I also took our labor class, got registered for the birth, and had our tour of the hospital. Now we are looking into breastfeeding and newborn classes. On the bright side of things, my talk with my boss went really well. I will be able to use my sick leave and my vacation for the first 4 weeks of my maternity leave and then he will let me work from home until July for full pay! I'm so relieved!

Well, I hope everyone is doing well! Happy Hump Day!

 

[Kay]

Deelight, happy birthday! Glad to hear your lunch went well – the cheesecake sounded good! At my 38 week appointment, my OB scheduled an induction for 41 weeks so he could schedule it for a day when he was on duty at the hospital. I don’t see any downside to scheduling one in advance, just in case. You do not want to go past 42 weeks.

Random-thought, I hope you are feeling better now. It is so rough to be sick when you are pregnant. Woo-hoo on having less than 99 days to go! You got some great artistic shots – I’m impressed you did those yourself. 23 weeks in and I have yet to take a single belly shot this pregnancy.

Basil, congats on the position at the veteran’s hospital! It sounds like your director is taking good care of you. The new house sounds great.

Skippy, thanks for the website recommendation. Good for you and your husband for purging now. I really need to clean out our closets, but have trouble finding the time and energy on the weekends. Definitely do it now while you are child free! I have the Dutailier Intermezzo glider in taupe leather. It looks like a leather club chair and fits in well in a living room. It arrived about 1 month before I gave birth, and I wish I had had it for more of my pregnancy because it was so comfortable to sit in when I was huge and having trouble getting up from the couch. It was great for rocking A when she was little and I still enjoy that chair.

Blenheim, thanks for the warning about clothes from Motherhood Maternity and Pea in the Pod. I’m having to supplement with new clothes too because of opposite season pregnancies. I hope it gets warm quickly so it is more comfortable weather for dresses with bare legs.

Cupcake muffin, I’m sorry to hear your DH is in such pain. I’m happy to hear your talk with your boss went well. Great pictures – you look so cute! I hope your dinners with your friends and the Lord Mayor of Westminster (!) go well.

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AFM, things are up and down. DH and I had a great day hanging out on Monday and were both commenting at the end of the day about how much better and more “human” we felt after being able to go out to a nice leisurely lunch, browse at a bookstore, stroll around, etc. without having to argue with or chase a 2 year old. We love our DD, but miss having both alone and couple time. Then DD decided 4 hours of sleep was enough Monday night, and we were both wrecks yesterday and ended up arguing last night and this morning over truly stupid stuff. I am finally starting to feel the weight of pregnancy – literally. My tummy just feels heavy, even though I am only at 5 months. I didn’t have a huge lunch, but I feel so uncomfortably full, like I just had 2 Thanksgiving dinners. We had to walk 6 blocks briskly to get back to the office for a meeting, and I was so out of breath from a little exercise it was ridiculous. I just want a nap now, but I need to get my butt in gear and finish a project.

On the bright side, I received am e-mail from BGD yesterday letting me know my DBTY necklace had already shipped – a few days ahead of schedule. I should have it tomorrow night! I will post on SMTB once I have time to take pictures, but here is a sneak preview.

 

[modernsparkler]

Hello Ladies! I am back after a wonderful trip to Mexico. I will to do my best to catch up with everyone but this thread is moving fast!

Basil: Congrats on the amazing offer. It seems like the package with all of that vacation is great, and the VA opportunity sounds perfect for what you wanted. The house seems like a great fit too. So glad things are falling into place for you. Good luck waiting for the anatomy scan. Hopefully the time will fly by.

Skippy: Glad you are feeling well. Thanks for the rec about baby gizmo, we will have to check that out.

Blen: Thanks for the info about clothes. I am not there yet, but it is good to know what will hold up and what wont. Oh the fun of shopping for clothes to be worn for such a short period of time. Oh well.

Dee: Hope you had a great birthday! Usually inductions are not necessary until 41 weeks, and the longer you can give the LO to come naturally, the higher chance of a successfully vaginal delivery.

RT: Love the photos! You look great.

Cupcake: Sounds like you have the important things out of the way. I love your petite bump! You look great at 30 weeks!

Kay: What a beautiful necklace! Sorry about the spat with DH but its good you got to spend some alone time.

DCG: Hope you are well! The L&D tour really does make things real, huh? I think about it when I walk by that floor now at work, it seems surreal that soon I will be going there to have our baby!

To those I missed.

AFM, doing well, 15 weeks 5 days today. I can't believe I am almost 4 months. I had my OB appt and second blood test for the sequential scren today. The first part went well, so I am looking forward to hopefully getting the good results from the rest of the test. We had a blast in Cabo last week, and despite eating guacamole for practically 3 meals/day and snacking constantly, I still haven't gained any weight. The dr said I am measuring fine which is reassuring, and she just encouraged me to keep eating and she said they usually don't start to worry until 18-20 weeks if no weight has been gained. I am sure it will come eventually, but I want to make sure the LO is growing well! My mom suggested daily ice cream, but I want to nourish the baby too. Any other recommendations?

 

[CatLuver]

Hi ladies, thanks for your thoughts. Baby C was born at 39 weeks, 5 days! 6 lbs 7 oz. Here is my long birth story.

Around 4:30am when I was 39 weeks and 4 days, after I came back from using the bathroom I started having contractions that were mildly painful, every 5 minutes for an hour. I got up and ate cereal, then waited at home. The contractions were not regular and were not getting worse, so I did some work. Around 9:30 am DH attempted to check me (he's a dr. though not an OB) and said he could feel the baby’s head so we should go to the hospital. We went to the hospital, where they checked me and I was only 1cm dilated, no change from my appointment 3 days prior, and was still having irregular contractions. They told me to walk for an hour and come back to determine if I was in active labor. I walked around and ate until it was time to go back. However, I was still only 1 cm, so after monitoring the baby, they told me to go home. We left the hospital and decided to go to Babies ‘R’ Us to purchase the Bumbleride Indie I wanted with the trade-in special. My contractions were not regular. After we went to BRU, we went to dinner, then went home. I did some work, walked around, bounced on my ball and watched TV. Around 8pm when laying down and watching TV, I felt several contractions that were more painful than before. I got up and walked around the house and the contractions became regular and more painful. Around 10:30 pm, we returned to the hospital, where they checked me and I was 3cm dilated. However, they would not admit me unless I demonstrated “active labor” or dilation of 1 cm in an hour, so I went to walk. The contractions were quite painful and I only made it ½ hour, stopping and leaning on DH every time I had a contraction, before returning to the OB triage room. However, at 12:30 pm after 1 hour, I was still only 3 cm, so they would not admit me, but said they would monitor the baby for 20 minutes and then I could walk for another hour or go home. I was feeling a lot of pain and it hurt more to lay down, so I stood up to labor. I told the nurse I didn’t want to go home, and I couldn’t walk. I thought there was no way that I was not in active labor. The nurse asked if my water had broken because she could feel the baby’s head, and I said I didn’t think so, but maybe it had when I was going to the bathroom and couldn’t be sure. She said if my water had broken, I would be admitted, so I asked her to check. Unfortunately, the test said it had not broken.

The contractions were getting closer together, longer and very painful, both in my uterus and in my lower back. Finally, the doctor (who was busy with other deliveries) agreed to admit me, but there was no room available so I had to stay in OB triage for 3 hours. I labored for 2 hours while standing, and an hour while kneeling on the bed. It helped a bit when DH pushed against my lower back during the contractions, but soon nothing helped. They hooked up an IV so I could start getting antibiotics for the Group B strep, and fluids. It was difficult to hold my wrist still while the nurse inserted the IV; the first nurse could not get it in on the top of my hand, so the second nurse did it on the inside of my wrist, which was uncomfortable. I then had to lay down because I was so tired and my feet/knees hurt. The pain was agonizing and I was writhing on the bed with every contraction. I wanted to get a C-section just so I could get an epidural. I told DH I needed drugs and I couldn't do it anymore. I got some Stearol which helped a little, but it wore off by the time I was admitted. (If I had known I could get IV drugs, I would have demanded them earlier!!)

Finally, I was admitted at 3:30, and I waited another hour for more IV drugs, which did not help. The pain was excruciating, and I was clutching the bed rails every time while DH reminded me to breathe through them. At 4:30, the nurse checked me (the doctor was still in surgery) and I was dilated 6cm so I was finally allowed to have the epidural. When the anesthesiologist entered the room with his cart, it was the best thing I ever saw. At 5am, I got the epidural which did not hurt much, except when the catheter hit a nerve and sent shocks down my right leg. After the epidural, I only felt mild contractions on my lower right side and was able to rest for 2 hours. At 7am, the doctor checked me, because 4 hours had passed while the antibiotics were being administered, and I was already 10cm. He asked if I wanted to start pushing, and said he would break my water. He tried to break my water, but said that my bag was so thin and close to the head that he couldn’t break it and the baby would be delivered in its sac. I started pushing, and was able to push even without feeling much of anything with the epidural. I pushed 3-4 times during every contraction. The doctor and resident used mineral oil to try and prevent tearing. The doctor stuck his finger in there and told me to push toward it, but I didn’t feel anything down there. The doctor told me he would turn off the epidural to try and allow me to feel more, and promised that it would not hurt, and it did not. My contractions were irregular, so they hooked up some pitocin to make them more regular, which did not hurt. I was still able to feel the contractions because of the patchy epidural on my lower right, but it was not painful at all. I did not feel any pressure of the baby’s head. At one point, the baby’s heart rate decelerated to under 100, so they gave me oxygen and had me sit through a few contractions until he recovered.

They were having trouble discerning my heartbeat and the baby’s, so they inserted a monitor on the baby’s scalp. The doctor said that there may be meconium in my water, which had apparently broken at some point (still unclear when), so they would have to suction the baby’s mouth and check him right after he was born. After less than an hour of pushing, the doctor gowned up for the delivery. They said I was a good pusher. I couldn’t believe it was going to happen. I saw the baby’s head bulging out, but did not feel any ring of fire. The doctor said he was going to deliver, and I asked if I should push, and he said no. The baby’s head then just pushed right out, followed by his body. He did not cry right away, and they suctioned his mouth and took him to be examined on the other side of the room. He started crying shortly after. I delivered the placenta and then the doctor and resident sewed up my 2nd degree tear while the baby was being examined. They examined him for at least 10 minutes before they brought him to me and I was able to hold him on my chest. I wanted to cry from relief that everything was ok and that I had my baby. He laid on his side facing me and was moving his arms back and forth as if he were reaching toward me (almost like a cat’s kneading the air), it was so cute.

I didn't know it would be that long before I could get an epi and that it would hurt that much or I might have had an elective C instead. I don't know how people do it without any drugs because I wanted to die when the contrax were so painful!!! (I'm glad I didn't have one now because I am recovering well.)

We stayed in the hospital only 1 night because it was not comfortable at all, and it was so hard to get any rest with people coming in and out. The nurses were very good and the lactation consultant helped me start breastfeeding.

When we took the baby to the pediatrician the day after we were discharged, he had lost 7 ounces, so the ped told us to supplement with formula since I wasn’t producing much colostrum. On day 4, my milk came in and my breasts were absolutely huge and very painful.

After returning from the hospital, I had only lost 9 lbs. Today on day 5 I have lost 6.5 more lbs so a total of 15.5 out of 45. Still a ways to go, but now I look 5 months pregnant instead of 8 like I did after birth. My feet and ankles are still very swollen. Otherwise, recovery has gone surprisingly well, with just moderate pain at my stitches, pubic bone pain that is going away and afterbirth pains which are also lessening. I’m pleasantly surprised about that.

Being a mommy is the best! We are so in love with our little guy. Good luck to you all!

 

[Skippy123]

CATLUVER, congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Aww, I am so Happy for you and your new son!!! thanks for posting your birth story. I am glad your milk came in for your little guy. I would love to see a pic of your little one if you are comfortable posting one!

MODERN, yay for almost 16 weeks! Oh fun that you went to Cabo, sounds wonderful; glad you had a great time!! glad your appt went well. What about eating some nuts, cheese, Greek yogurt or a little higher fat foods like those? Chobani makes a good yogurt.

KAY, ooooooo la la, I love the teaser picture; I bet you are over the moon and can't wait to be wearing that beauty!!! Kay I have to tell you have fabulous taste; I checked out your glider, uber cool!!! I am glad you had alone time with your DH for your bday weekend; sounds nice. Oh no, lack of sleep makes me a bear and makes emotions run high, I am sorry; I hope you all caught up on sleep now. I can so empathize on how you feel being preggo. I try and eat smaller meals more often which kind of helps the super full feeling.

CUPCAKE, you look fabulous and have a beautiful glow!!! Yay for 30 weeks!! Hope your hubby feels better soon, poor guy.

DEELIGHT, glad the doc gave you options for delivery; you will be a momma before we know it, yay. I know the NZ quake is so sad; I hope the people of NZ are okay. My heart goes out to them. hugs to you momma to be!!! Glad you had a wonderful birthday! How are you feeling?

RT, cool shots!
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AFM, nothing too exciting going on with me. Wishing everyone a happy Wed!!!!